I've done all the best for him ..He cheated me !

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    Apr 20, 2012 2:17 PM GMT
    I had this 45 year old US man with me here we were together from 3 months
    .i helped him in getting with the local people & language , taught him how to be aware of terrorists ,made him understand every part of the city
    Tried being a bottom for him (though i was crying but did it to make him feel special

    I did so much from him
    told him how to manage the currency
    been praying for him
    stopped flirting with everyone & restrained from sex

    But yesterday he got f*cked by another guy

    That's called love
    I was very depressed since 3 days
    ate sleeping pills
    been drinking which i never did ,i swear to get rid of him

    i was about to reveal my parents i am gay
    i quit girls for him
    GOD
    why did he do that

    i never been bad or abused him just been the most simple guy
    & the guy he had sex yesterday was dirty looking ,unhygienic , married man

    I have no trust remaining on anyone now
    My world has suddenly changed
    had nearly 7 sleeping pills in the last 5 hours
    i feel like dying !
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    Apr 20, 2012 4:44 PM GMT
    Guys can be jerks. Hang in there, one bad apple does not spoil the whole bushel. You deserve better, despite the pain and disappointment. Just take a deep breath and know that you can make it through this and you've learn from the experience, no matter how painful it is.
  • calibro

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    Apr 20, 2012 5:16 PM GMT
    it's been three months... and you honestly think an older american is gonna settle down with a guy half his age in iraq?
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    Apr 20, 2012 5:23 PM GMT
    Sam_u_el said
    i quit girls for him


    I'm sorry you spontaneously abandoned heterosexuality.
  • calibro

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    Apr 20, 2012 5:24 PM GMT
    Ariodante said
    Sam_u_el said
    i quit girls for him


    I'm sorry you spontaneously abandoned heterosexuality.


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    Apr 20, 2012 5:36 PM GMT
    never lost hope in this world over something very cheap, just get out of the circle you are in and make a barrier around you and move on, life wont stop in one person and don't expect the same powers as you give, if we were duplicates we wont find ant problem by giving love to each other, this is the life we in between good and bad. GOOD LUCK
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    Apr 20, 2012 5:36 PM GMT
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  • metta

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    Apr 20, 2012 5:44 PM GMT
    I keep posting this but Madea gives some good advice:

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    Apr 20, 2012 5:46 PM GMT
    Dont pay attention to the people with the humour... I am sorry to hear about your situation... You will get better though.. only right now it is very hard... but you will be back to normal in the future.. that is sure!
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    Apr 20, 2012 5:50 PM GMT
    metta8 saidI keep posting this but Madea gives some good advice:



    +1
    I love this video, I'm not a fan of madea but yes she/he spoke the truth on this...
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    Apr 20, 2012 6:09 PM GMT
    Allow yourself to feel as angry and as furious and betrayed as you want.

    In surprisingly little time you will be sick of feeling that way and begin to realize that the 90 days you invested in this "relationship" was really no big deal and you will begin to realize that there are MANY more experiences ahead for you.

    That is how life unfolds and shows you what to learn from. You will continue to evolve as a person and know what to look for in future relationships.

    It is how you grow as a person.

    And like it or not...you WILL grow.
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    Apr 21, 2012 3:58 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    Sam_u_el said
    i quit girls for him


    I'm sorry you spontaneously abandoned heterosexuality.

    Im Bisexual
    & in a place like Iraq where homo's are killed by government rule ,most gays marry girls & stay closeted !

    I didnt do that i opposed that principle & accepted myself a gay,i have attraction to girls
    but was monogamously in love so no girl nor a boy for me !

    thats what i mean i quit girls for him..my friends here are gays married or gonna be marrying in future to girls no one dares to be a gay !
    i was about to tell my school mates & my parents about us ..& damn he **************

    Its not easy to be gay here ...there's a death penalty to anyone found in homosexual confront !
    check it out
    www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2008/sep/25/iraq.humanrights
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    Apr 21, 2012 4:01 AM GMT
    This is what happens to anyone who is gay in Iraq
    this picture is just a month ago when people stoned Gays to death !
    I din't care for death for him & he screwed me up & cheated for a male prostitute !


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    Apr 21, 2012 4:03 AM GMT
    eb925guy saidGuys can be jerks. Hang in there, one bad apple does not spoil the whole bushel. You deserve better, despite the pain and disappointment. Just take a deep breath and know that you can make it through this and you've learn from the experience, no matter how painful it is.


    My head is aching & got exams going on ,im unable to concentrate on studies whenever i keep a book in front of my eyes his image pops out !
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    Apr 21, 2012 4:05 AM GMT
    metta8 said101388.gif


    Thank u ...my response is giving back my hug !
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    Apr 21, 2012 4:08 AM GMT
    Cash saidAllow yourself to feel as angry and as furious and betrayed as you want.

    In surprisingly little time you will be sick of feeling that way and begin to realize that the 90 days you invested in this "relationship" was really no big deal and you will begin to realize that there are MANY more experiences ahead for you.

    That is how life unfolds and shows you what to learn from. You will continue to evolve as a person and know what to look for in future relationships.

    It is how you grow as a person.

    And like it or not...you WILL grow.


    Maybe u have experienced & know how to handle this ....but its my first love & i always thought i would be strong even if someone dies in front of me ....now i feel fading away !
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    Apr 21, 2012 4:44 AM GMT
    Dude you need to calm the fuck down. These forums are for talking. If you're so unreasonable that you can't be talked to, then posting here is pointless.
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    Apr 21, 2012 4:53 AM GMT
    Sam_u_el saidThis is what happens to anyone who is gay in Iraq
    this picture is just a month ago when people stoned Gays to death !
    I din't care for death for him & he screwed me up & cheated for a male prostitute !


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    I loved him so much i feared no death .....nothin !icon_cry.gif
    Nice fucking country you choose to live in! Sin Loi!
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    Apr 21, 2012 4:59 AM GMT
    eek.

    the potential for this thread to get incredibly ugly in record time (even for RJ) is ENORMOUS.

    let's all take a deep breath here boys, shall we???

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    Apr 21, 2012 5:02 AM GMT
    you bottomed to make hi feel special? lol, you sacrificed your body and your comfort to make someone feel special? wtf? you only knew him for 3 months. get over it. next time do something less dramatic/tragic like cooking him dinner.
  • mybud

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    Apr 21, 2012 5:07 AM GMT
    If you look for love and acceptance from another without learning to love and respect yourself first...You're fucked...This guy would have cheated regardless...Be happy it happened early...Now you're the wiser...grab up your nuts and move on....
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    Apr 21, 2012 5:41 AM GMT
    TropicalMark said
    Sam_u_el saidThis is what happens to anyone who is gay in Iraq
    this picture is just a month ago when people stoned Gays to death !
    I din't care for death for him & he screwed me up & cheated for a male prostitute !


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    I loved him so much i feared no death .....nothin !icon_cry.gif
    Nice fucking country you choose to live in! Sin Loi!


    To TropicalMark You are such a fucking idiot for making that statement. Do you think he choose to live and surround himself with homophobic people. It's his life circumstance that he find himself in and you should be a little bit more considerate about others. fucking idiot.

    To the OP, I'm sorry you are going through this. Next time, be a little be cautious about who you trust in this world. And stop taking sleeping pills. You need to do something about the situation, dump him, lose contact with him.
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    Apr 21, 2012 5:47 AM GMT


    He sounds like he could be a spy...

    Okay that was a dry joke. Guy- I understand what you're going through, but hang in there. If you're gay or bi (which is a possibility; you still like girls, and I also like girls), just wait- the right guy will come along. These things have a way of working out.
  • bischero

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    Apr 21, 2012 5:57 AM GMT
    Sam_u_el saidThis is what happens to anyone who is gay in Iraq
    this picture is just a month ago when people stoned Gays to death !
    I din't care for death for him & he screwed me up & cheated for a male prostitute !


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    I loved him so much i feared no death .....nothin !icon_cry.gif


    That's awful. I love Iraqi people and all the ones I know abroad are fantastic human beings. It deeply saddens me the things that are going on in Iraq now and I know that 40-50 years ago, it didn't use to be that way. I only hope and pray for the best in your country.

    Keep your chin up, friend!! The guy you knew was a douche bag and is not worth crying over. I know how you may have felt about him, but in the end he is still an ass. You'll get through this!!! ;)