I can give you an honest answer based on my own past experience. To be a straight guy means that you enjoy the wonderful pleasures of the pussy, and to be truthful fucking a girl that vibes with you is really erotic. At least that was my experience. But the down side is that if you connect closer to males, she can not give you the level of intimacy that you can get when you are fucking a guy. There is often an ego factor when you are fucking girls and most people don't seem to understand this, or can't voice or explain this reality. For example, for a girl that really likes you, when she is having sex with you her only concern is pleasing you, and if you are a guy who likes pleasing someone else too, that's a problem. For girls, making you cum and orgasm makes them feel powerful and in control of a penis. For guys its a little different. I can't quite explain the sex with guys, but I will think about how to explain it. I just like it better actually.