Is He or Isn't He?

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    Apr 22, 2012 4:41 AM GMT
    I'm just really new to dating/being gay icon_confused.gif
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    Apr 22, 2012 1:09 PM GMT
    He's gay. Go for it. You have nothing to lose.
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    Apr 22, 2012 1:10 PM GMT
    Truppensturm saidHe's gay. Go for it. You have nothing to lose.
    TL;DR... skimmed over... trusting in what he said!^^^^
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    Apr 22, 2012 1:18 PM GMT
    I'd say he's just being nice.

    You could always prove me wrong and man up and just ask him?

    Challenge presented. Do you accept?

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    Apr 22, 2012 1:19 PM GMT
    Guy101 saidI'd say he's just being nice.

    You could always prove me wrong and man up and just ask him?

    Challenge presented. Do you accept?


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    Apr 22, 2012 1:21 PM GMT
    Invite him out to some event that's happening. If he is into you he will likely accept. It might be good to interact with him in a non class setting.
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    Apr 22, 2012 1:25 PM GMT
    I dont think there are too many straight men who would reference the bend and snap..... lol icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 22, 2012 1:27 PM GMT
    He is absolutly, 100%, no question, GAY. So invite him out for a coffee or something.
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    Apr 22, 2012 2:04 PM GMT
    I agree with some others here, and I've been in your situation before. I just chat with them and if it is going well, I might be apt to say something like, "Hey - do you want to get a beer?" Take it from there. If he's interested in doing that - - - great. If he is too busy - you'll have your answer. Good luck - - - - and when you get a minute, let us have an update!
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    Apr 22, 2012 2:13 PM GMT
    zdravo saidInvite him out to some event that's happening. If he is into you he will likely accept. It might be good to interact with him in a non class setting.

    I like this idea. Ask him if he'd like to go to a concert, or he's watched (insert movie here) before, etc.
    Good luck!
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    Apr 22, 2012 2:21 PM GMT
    I would be out of my mind to imagine he were just a straight "buddy".. none of my straight buddies act like that... he sounds interested.. thus gay
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    Apr 22, 2012 8:48 PM GMT
    Looks up "Bend and Snap"... ohhh....
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    Apr 22, 2012 8:58 PM GMT
    matty33 said[...] We started talking until I realized I forgot my keys and so I had to go back. (I swear he thought about waiting for me, but again, probably seeing this because I want to see it) he smiled when he said goodbye.
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    I just can't tell if he's just nice (because he is really nice) or if he might want to talk to me. [...]


    You could have asked him to join you in retrieving your keys. If he had gone back with you you would have known if he really wanted to spend more time with you or not.
    Among the classic lines showing lack of interest (the guy doesn't return) include:
    "I'm getting another beer."
    "I have to check on a friend."
    "I just remembered that I forgot ..."
    Chances are they're just not interested and looking for an escape route.
    Don't leave room for doubt (or 'play games') when you have an interest in someone. You may get rejected but at least you made the effort, and know to pursue a new goal.
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    Apr 22, 2012 10:04 PM GMT
    ZbmwM5 saidI dont think there are too many straight men who would reference the bend and snap..... lol icon_smile.gif



    I was just thinking the same thing! Go for it guuurl!
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    Apr 22, 2012 10:26 PM GMT
    what the hell is a "bend and snap"?

    In other things... Idk if he is gay or not. Best way is like someone else said before. Try to interact with him in a non-school setting and see how things go. Coffee would be great.

    Good luck mate. icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 23, 2012 1:55 AM GMT
    tennisblackout saidwhat the hell is a "bend and snap"?






    Just ask him on a date!
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    Apr 23, 2012 2:02 AM GMT
    GO FOR IT.
    If he's really as nice as you make him seem, what's he going to do aside from be flattered and apologize for misleading you (which I think is unlikely; he'll probably let out a massive sigh of relief before thanking you for breaking the tension)?

    Good luck; GAH I always get so excited for these stories!
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    Apr 23, 2012 2:04 AM GMT
    Fivealive said
    tennisblackout saidwhat the hell is a "bend and snap"?






    Just ask him on a date!


    Ohh.. Dude, your friend is totally gay. Ask him out. i was unsure about it but now that i know what a bend and snap is.. I'm pretty sure he is a homo.
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    Apr 23, 2012 2:12 AM GMT
    With all you said about him AND his reference to Bend and Snap I'd bet your life he's a card carrying HOMOSEXUAL. Just whip your dick out and wave it in his face if you need confirmation. Be forewarned: HE JUST MAY NOT BE INTO YOU.
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    Apr 23, 2012 2:14 AM GMT
    referencing the bend and snap??? and you're asking this question? geez. just stick your penis in his ass already.
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    Apr 23, 2012 2:17 AM GMT
    closer85 saidreferencing the bend and snap??? and you're asking this question? geez. just stick your penis in his ass already.


    Preferably during the bend and pull out before the snap, 'cause that's gonna hurt!
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    Apr 23, 2012 2:21 AM GMT
    UndercoverMan said
    closer85 saidreferencing the bend and snap??? and you're asking this question? geez. just stick your penis in his ass already.


    Preferably during the bend and pull out before the snap, 'cause that's gonna hurt!


    only if he's doing it wrong icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 23, 2012 3:09 AM GMT
    I was once in a situation that was much less obvious, with a super hot guy. I also would meet him very irregular - like every 3 - 4 weeks or so ... And so after not seeing him for several weeks I just sent him an e-mail, our usual means of communication, and asked him out on a date. Unfortunately he said "No, I'm into girls". icon_sad.gif
    Two weeks after that I met him by chance in a café and the talk we had was much more easy going than the times before.

    Since you said "After the last class"... The question is how often/how regular do you see him and how you can contact him. But I'd go with the others and say, that the signs are quite obvious. You really have nothing to loose, even a loss can sometimes turn out to be a win.
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    Apr 23, 2012 3:18 AM GMT
    even if he's straight, hanging out, getting a cup of coffee would still seem nice.


    i say, go for it!
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    Apr 23, 2012 3:34 AM GMT
    i swear we are in the same situation. been talking to this guy and i see him everyday. i got his number, added him on facebook ( hehe icon_smile.gif the only thing i havent done is ask him out. so glad you made this thread, good read.

    And go for it! if you do then I will too