Do you believe in a sexual peak?

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    Aug 04, 2007 12:28 AM GMT
    You always here that guys reach their sexual peak when they are 18. It seems I get hornier as I get older!! I am 37 and want it twice as bad now as I did then. I have talked to my friends around the same age and they agree...what do you think?
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    Aug 04, 2007 2:18 AM GMT
    Ask OW!
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    Aug 04, 2007 3:22 AM GMT
    I think sexual peak means maximum fetility - not maximum horniness. I know guys who are in their 60's who are constantly on the prowl....but they're probably shooting blanks.
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    Aug 04, 2007 3:37 AM GMT
    haha, I dont think it holds much water so to speak. I have a lesbian friend at work and she is 62 and raises hell if her and her partner dont make love for longer than a week...haha.
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    Aug 04, 2007 3:58 AM GMT
    Thanks for the referral, WRE.

    Honestly, I would be very happy if my libido were reduced by half. The two most productive years of my life were when Prozac turned me into a eunuch.
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    Aug 04, 2007 4:09 AM GMT
    Well, OW, despite the protestations I'm not quite sure I buy that.
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    Aug 04, 2007 4:11 AM GMT
    you don't buy what?
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    Aug 04, 2007 4:14 AM GMT
    Oh, I don't know, but something about libido and eunuch in the same thought. Oh, just give it up sweatie you like the sex!
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    Aug 04, 2007 4:30 AM GMT
    Sweatie? Is that an allusion to my perspiration problem or a Freudian misspelling of "sweetie"?
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    Aug 04, 2007 4:49 AM GMT
    Freudian all the way. But now that you suggest it quite clever and scintillating. Okay maybe a little too much wine, Chardonnay, Burgundian of course, to be precise, but I have to run as my slut the cat is playing with the bottle top -- what can I say I've cheap!
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    Aug 04, 2007 12:46 PM GMT
    Since I didn't come out until 24, at age 18, I didn't have anywhere to focus! Now that I know what to do, and where I'm looking, I'm in a lot of ways more sexually driven.

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    Aug 04, 2007 1:17 PM GMT
    I probably have past my sexual peak, when I used to need sex nearly every nite. Nowaday I be satisfied if I get it say twice a week. Probably just my male hormone is getting less. However for a guy is his forties I think I am far from reaching the lower valley. Sometimes it not that I dont need sex, it just not available at that moment.

    My ex was 20 years younger than me and he is definitely in his sexual peak. During my relationship with him I found out its really tiring to keep up with him. This guy can have sex 5 to 6 time a days. I usually can only ejaculate once, well probably twice a days. Now we have break up, I sorta miss all those things I do with him. He fucked me really good that I dont even bother looking at other men.
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    Aug 04, 2007 1:56 PM GMT
    haha up until recently I was still doing it 3 to 5 times a day.....I like it. ahehehe!
  • GQjock

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    Aug 05, 2007 5:59 AM GMT
    LOL...thats when you needed to carry a stick to beat it down :)
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    Aug 05, 2007 6:23 AM GMT
    I REALLY wanna know how old OW is...

    As for sexual peaks, you cant have one until you've had "it", right?
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    Aug 05, 2007 6:56 AM GMT
    Me too,

    Come on, OW. I just cannot believe you are 88 years old. Fifty to fifty five is more like it.
    Come on...come on....information please.
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    Aug 05, 2007 7:03 AM GMT
    I dont think i've hit my sexual peak. if anything i've yet to really begin. Im not going to lie. i didnt go all the way till I was almost 23.
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    Aug 05, 2007 7:04 AM GMT
    And I've all done things with 4 guys.
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    Aug 05, 2007 10:34 AM GMT
    I have noticed that at this point in my life I can not have sex with out love, unconditional. I did not really know what love was in my 20's and tended to 'act' it out., generally with all passion and NO mercy. My 30's have been ten times better than my twenties were. A LOT less drama that is for sure. Less sress - better sex. Things always get better if you don't count time.



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    Sep 19, 2007 8:15 AM GMT
    not yet, i cant even hug my grandfather without getting an erection
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    Sep 19, 2007 10:34 AM GMT
    Roman,

    I heard the same joke when I used to be a bussboy, It ok to kiss your grandmother, until you start enjoying it.

    Do I believe in sexual peak. I guess I do. There use to be times I need to do it every day. Now twice a week keep me satisfied. When you get older you just dont have time to think about sex all the times. But if the sex is ready and available, fuck yeah, I can do it twice a day if I want to.

    I think this topic is for older jock like me, OW, Big Joey, Fast Prof, Mc Gay...COME ON GUYS SAY SOMETHING.

  • OutOfEden

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    Sep 26, 2007 5:10 AM GMT
    I'm not nearly as horny as I was at 18, I just don't recover as quickly. But, I had a necessary surgery for health reasons that kind of skews my input. Still, I did notice a decrease since 18, but nothing lamentable.
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    Sep 26, 2007 5:23 AM GMT
    There is a Toby Keith song that says: “Im not as good as I once was, but I am as good once as I ever was”.

    At 45 yo a couple times a night is about my limit without being tired the next morning, but I think it is more than made up for in the skill I lacked when I was unpracticed at 21.

    Everyone gets better with practice.

    I once had a night with a 70 year old who was nothing but bone, muscle, and sinew. He played me like a fine instrument for hours; incredibly skilled, I was absolutely wrecked after: I thought I was going to have a heart attack, couldn't even stand up for over an hour.

    So define what a peak is : skill or just one narrow physical act.

    Personally I would take the experienced 70 yo any day over an unskilled 18-21 yo with lots of energy. Not the least reason being that the 70 yo is almost always more grateful, sharing, and genuinely caring.

    R
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    Sep 26, 2007 8:25 PM GMT
    I am not sure I have reached my peak. I am 44 now and I know my recovery time takes longer. Being in a monogamous relationship for 16 years you gravitate more to quality and not quantity. If you know you can have sex anytime you want it, you don't always have to have it every minute. Was that confusing?

    My partner is two years younger than me and he has to go every day, sometimes twice per day. (with or without me) I can take or leave it twice per week, maybe three. That leaves him some "me" time to explore his own body and pleasure himself to his hearts content. Am I jealous of his libido? Absolutely not. All I know is I have never been turned down by him when I ask "I sure would love some sex right now". He is in the bed and nude before I can finish the sentence. Hmmmmm....maybe I have peaked but the journey is still on going. icon_smile.gif