Nice guys vs assholes

  • Musicman91

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    Apr 22, 2012 5:15 PM GMT
    I'm doing a theater event and while in one of the rooms all the girls were talking about their relationships and everyone of them said how they would prefer an "asshole" over a nice guy because they're more "exciting". One even said she was talking to a nice guy but stopped talking to him because he was too nice for her.
    Now it maybe because I've never been in a relationship but I personally would want a nice guy over a dick. I find that the majority of girls I know go for dicks and don't like the nice guys. What do you guys think? Do you like nice guys or assholes??
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    Apr 22, 2012 5:16 PM GMT
    i just wna nice guy with a gr8 ***hole
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    Apr 22, 2012 5:21 PM GMT
    MusicMan91 saidI'm doing a theater event and while in one of the rooms all the girls were talking about their relationships and everyone of them said hbu would prefer an "asshole" over a nice guy because they're more "exciting". One even said she was talking to a nice guy but stopped talking to him because he was too nice for her.
    Now it maybe because I've never been in a relationship but I personally would want a nice guy over a dick. I find that the majority of girls I know go for dicks and don't like the nice guys. What do you guys think? Do you like nice guys or assholes??
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    Apr 22, 2012 5:27 PM GMT
    TropicalMark said
    MusicMan91 saidI'm doing a theater event and while in one of the rooms all the girls were talking about their relationships and everyone of them said hbu would prefer an "asshole" over a nice guy because they're more "exciting". One even said she was talking to a nice guy but stopped talking to him because he was too nice for her.
    Now it maybe because I've never been in a relationship but I personally would want a nice guy over a dick. I find that the majority of girls I know go for dicks and don't like the nice guys. What do you guys think? Do you like nice guys or assholes??
    Who is that?



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    Apr 22, 2012 5:32 PM GMT
    Of course, I prefer assholes.

    All nice and lubed up, surrounded by a juicy, meaty mound of gluteal muscle to either side that has been properly opened up...

    ... preferably with his mouth gagged when I'm not skullfucking him, and his arms cuffed to a conveniently located restraining post.


    I'm all about getting with that kind of asshole. icon_twisted.gif
  • TonyD

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    Apr 22, 2012 6:37 PM GMT
    if you like an asshole, ie: someone who treats you or others like shit, then there are serious issues here...

    unless asshole is a style or fashion and has more to do with the bad boy look then behavior...

    to not like someone cuz they are too nice to you is ridiculous and immature
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    Apr 22, 2012 6:39 PM GMT
    I like someone who is on my level. Dated some assholes and nice guys but right now I'm not concerned about it
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    Apr 22, 2012 6:40 PM GMT
    Anyone who prefers an impossible jerk over a nice guy is really someone not worth your time. Let them wallow in their own shallowness and immaturity.
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    Apr 22, 2012 6:44 PM GMT
    There may be a certain attraction to Bad Boys. They can come across as rebelious, iconoclastic and sexy in a completely forbidden way.

    Most of us quickly realize that sitting around wondering if a chronically unemployed, couch-surfing, foul-mouthed junkie in a leather jacket will really show up for a date is far from "exciting."

    For reasons that I will not bother to analyze here, it is usually very young girls and very old men who find these types attractive.
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    Apr 22, 2012 6:45 PM GMT
    MusicMan91 saidI'm doing a theater event and while in one of the rooms all the girls were talking about their relationships and everyone of them said how they would prefer an "asshole" over a nice guy because they're more "exciting". One even said she was talking to a nice guy but stopped talking to him because he was too nice for her.
    Now it maybe because I've never been in a relationship but I personally would want a nice guy over a dick. I find that the majority of girls I know go for dicks and don't like the nice guys. What do you guys think? Do you like nice guys or assholes??



    You know why girls(and guys) says this? Because they have never dated a real asshole. Their notion of a bad-boy is probably informed by TV shows like 2-and-a-half-men, where the bad boy is kind of non-threatening and loveable, and seen as a fixer-upper, and 'nice' is code for 'boring'.
    Real asshole boyfriends are abusive, selfish, and can't be fixed.
    If their concepts of what nice and asshole were informed by reality instead of TV they would have been all over that nice guy (assuming he was nice, and not just boring)
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    Apr 22, 2012 6:46 PM GMT
    MusicMan91 said
    TropicalMark said
    MusicMan91 saidI'm doing a theater event and while in one of the rooms all the girls were talking about their relationships and everyone of them said hbu would prefer an "asshole" over a nice guy because they're more "exciting". One even said she was talking to a nice guy but stopped talking to him because he was too nice for her.
    Now it maybe because I've never been in a relationship but I personally would want a nice guy over a dick. I find that the majority of girls I know go for dicks and don't like the nice guys. What do you guys think? Do you like nice guys or assholes??
    Who is that?



    Who is who?
    hbu<---
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    Apr 22, 2012 6:47 PM GMT
    I think there's always an appeal to the unexpected - which is what the bad boy brings. I think that people aren't so one dimensional.

    So my hope is to one day find a nice guy with a bit of an edge...
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    Apr 22, 2012 7:11 PM GMT
    MusicMan91 saidI'm doing a theater event and while in one of the rooms all the girls were talking about their relationships and everyone of them said how they would prefer an "asshole" over a nice guy because they're more "exciting". One even said she was talking to a nice guy but stopped talking to him because he was too nice for her.
    Now it maybe because I've never been in a relationship but I personally would want a nice guy over a dick. I find that the majority of girls I know go for dicks and don't like the nice guys. What do you guys think? Do you like nice guys or assholes??


    Another reason I left women behind -- the CUNextTuesdays are F'n crazy and wacked in their thought process.

    I think they prefer assholes because women aren't happy unless they have something to complain about to their girlfriends -- like their asshole BFs or husbands.
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    Apr 22, 2012 7:14 PM GMT
    Men are no different. The hot asshole who treats people like shit is chased by every gay guy who knows him. The nice guy, no matter what he looks like, is ignored. It isn't women, for some reason there is just something in our culture that values being a douche as sexily masculine.

    EDIT: And while all of you will say, "That isn't TRUE!!!" Remember that women dont think it is true either. Just think about your own local community... the hot, muscled asshole is the fantasy of the majority of gay men. The hot muscled nice guy is "sweet" and "such a great guy" and goes home alone.
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    Apr 22, 2012 7:14 PM GMT
    i have actually put this to the test. girls do prefer assholes. no matter what i say as long as its not personally offensive to them and you play hard to get they will keep at you. i dont know how it works on guys though. maybe another test is in order
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    Apr 22, 2012 7:16 PM GMT
    Nice guys hands down!icon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 22, 2012 7:18 PM GMT
    sanjose470 saidi have actually put this to the test. girls do prefer assholes. no matter what i say as long as its not personally offensive to them and you play hard to get they will keep at you. i dont know how it works on guys though. maybe another test is in order


    Playing hard to get and being an asshole are two different things. Something that is easily obtained is nowhere near as desirable as something that is easy and everyone can get. Witness the big difference between the price of plastic and gold.
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    Apr 22, 2012 7:18 PM GMT
    i like nice but not too nice. that's how i am. i'm totally a good guy, but i'm no pushover. i expect the same.
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    Apr 22, 2012 7:19 PM GMT
    Alpha_Muscle saidMen are no different. The hot asshole who treats people like shit is chased by every gay guy who knows him. The nice guy, no matter what he looks like, is ignored. It isn't women, for some reason there is just something in our culture that values being a douche as sexily masculine.

    EDIT: And while all of you will say, "That isn't TRUE!!!" Remember that women dont think it is true either. Just think about your own local community... the hot, muscled asshole is the fantasy of the majority of gay men. The hot muscled nice guy is "sweet" and "such a great guy" and goes home alone.


    Call me a rebel but I've let hot muscled assholes walk.
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    Apr 22, 2012 7:21 PM GMT
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    sanjose470 saidi have actually put this to the test. girls do prefer assholes. no matter what i say as long as its not personally offensive to them and you play hard to get they will keep at you. i dont know how it works on guys though. maybe another test is in order


    Playing hard to get and being an asshole are two different things. Something that is easily obtained is nowhere near as desirable as something that is easy and everyone can get. Witness the big difference between the price of plastic and gold.


    im a very nice guy who acts like an asshole and is hard to get. does this make me Platinum?
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    Apr 22, 2012 7:27 PM GMT
    sanjose470 said
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    sanjose470 saidi have actually put this to the test. girls do prefer assholes. no matter what i say as long as its not personally offensive to them and you play hard to get they will keep at you. i dont know how it works on guys though. maybe another test is in order


    Playing hard to get and being an asshole are two different things. Something that is easily obtained is nowhere near as desirable as something that is easy and everyone can get. Witness the big difference between the price of plastic and gold.


    im a very nice guy who acts like an asshole and is hard to get. does this make me Platinum?


    No, just single. icon_surprised.gif
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    Apr 22, 2012 7:32 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan said
    sanjose470 said
    UndercoverMan said
    sanjose470 saidi have actually put this to the test. girls do prefer assholes. no matter what i say as long as its not personally offensive to them and you play hard to get they will keep at you. i dont know how it works on guys though. maybe another test is in order


    Playing hard to get and being an asshole are two different things. Something that is easily obtained is nowhere near as desirable as something that is easy and everyone can get. Witness the big difference between the price of plastic and gold.


    im a very nice guy who acts like an asshole and is hard to get. does this make me Platinum?


    No, just single. icon_surprised.gif


    omg so true icon_sad.gif but only with girls so i guess its ok. im the nicest guy to guys though. doubled edged sword and i think i stabbed myself
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    Apr 22, 2012 7:52 PM GMT
    Alphatrigger that sounds wicked hot. If by asshole you mean very cocky then yes I am one; as in I'm very confident in who I am and the things I know. I realize my self confidence makes less secure people uncomfortable and their response is to weevil their way in with criticism.

    I am completely respectful to others and nice, however.
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    Apr 22, 2012 7:54 PM GMT
    is the same for me!! i met a nice guy on here (realjock) and he is an asshole too! so nice guy=asshole
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    Apr 22, 2012 8:16 PM GMT
    Alpha_Muscle saidMen are no different. The hot asshole who treats people like shit is chased by every gay guy who knows him. The nice guy, no matter what he looks like, is ignored. It isn't women, for some reason there is just something in our culture that values being a douche as sexily masculine.

    EDIT: And while all of you will say, "That isn't TRUE!!!" Remember that women dont think it is true either. Just think about your own local community... the hot, muscled asshole is the fantasy of the majority of gay men. The hot muscled nice guy is "sweet" and "such a great guy" and goes home alone.


    Where is this nice muscled sweet hottie that goes home alone? Can you give him my number and let him know I am waiting for the call?

    I think you are right, lots of guys are attracted to those who treat them like shit (want what you cant have, etc) but I, for one, much prefer someone who is nice, doesnt play games and I enjoy being around. Im not going to date you just because you are nice, but if you are an asshole to the people around you yea it is a no go.

    I find many times nice guy is synonymous to un-aggressive, which isnt very desirable. There have been people I would have gone on a date with in a heart beat if they asked me but they never did, so there was no date...