Chronically Single?

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    Apr 23, 2012 2:15 AM GMT
    I'm beginning to think I'm meant to be single, I either like a guy and he doesn't like me or the guy likes me and I'm not into him, however it's more the former than the latter. I will admit I'm a bit picky, I just don't think I could date just anyone, I mean maybe that is a bit of my problem...I am kind of looking for a guy that I can bond with just as well as I bond with my straight male friends, someone I can feel just as comfortable with as them.

    There needs to be some cohesion and I feel the lack of that immediately with the guys I'm not into, it's so instant. I think of all the numerous guys I've met, there's probably two guys that fit that I feel really comfortable with, like I don't feel overwhelmingly horny around them but I'm not turned off by them either, it's kind of like I could see us being good friends or maybe more? It's actually very comfortable. The rest of the guys, I'm really extremely lustfully attracted too or I feel no attraction to. I really wish guys would be honest with why they don't like me so I know what I'm doing wrong, I mean if there is no initial attraction I can understand that, but if they feel attracted enough to want to hook up with me, I would like to know what happened.

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    Apr 23, 2012 3:48 AM GMT
    NewNDiscreet saidI'm beginning to think I'm meant to be single, I either like a guy and he doesn't like me or the guy likes me and I'm not into him, however it's more the former than the latter. I will admit I'm a bit picky, I just don't think I could date just anyone, I mean maybe that is a bit of my problem...I am kind of looking for a guy that I can bond with just as well as I bond with my straight male friends, someone I can feel just as comfortable with as them.

    There needs to be some cohesion and I feel the lack of that immediately with the guys I'm not into, it's so instant. I think of all the numerous guys I've met, there's probably two guys that fit that I feel really comfortable with, like I don't feel overwhelmingly horny around them but I'm not turned off by them either, it's kind of like I could see us being good friends or maybe more? It's actually very comfortable. The rest of the guys, I'm really extremely lustfully attracted too or I feel no attraction to. I really wish guys would be honest with why they don't like me so I know what I'm doing wrong, I mean if there is no initial attraction I can understand that, but if they feel attracted enough to want to hook up with me, I would like to know what happened.



    i think you are making it too complicated dude. of course i'm probably doing the same thing, haha. relax and just talk to people.
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    Apr 23, 2012 4:15 AM GMT
    No. Even single dudes form cliques. You can join me. We can singles for ever and a day together; until one of us gets swept off our feet again.
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    Apr 23, 2012 4:25 AM GMT
    Yehoshua_B5917 saidNo. Even single dudes form cliques. You can join me. We can singles for ever and a day together; until one of us gets swept off our feet again.


    Hah, this sweeping off the feet thing you speak of hasn't ever happened to me.
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    Apr 23, 2012 7:25 AM GMT
    From your profile you sound like a closeted douchebag, so that might have something to do with it.
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    Apr 23, 2012 7:38 AM GMT
    Anduru saidFrom your profile you sound like a closeted douchebag, so that might have something to do with it.

    I thought it was because he wasn't into the Hip/Hop Rap scene...

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    Apr 23, 2012 7:54 AM GMT
    Anduru saidFrom your profile you sound like a closeted douchebag, so that might have something to do with it.


    You're a cesspool of knowledge.