Denver Colorado where did u go?

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    Apr 24, 2012 12:19 AM GMT
    I live in Austin Texas, and as u can tell by my profile picture im not "out" yet, I think im becoming more comfortable though. This passed saturday I went out by myself, and went to a gay club it was fun, wasnt really looking to dance with a guy or anything, then I stood in front of tha dance floor next to this good looking gentlemen, we both made it obvious that we wanted to talk to eachother or just hangout, I was going to do tha whole What are u drinking line,lol! Of course he beat me to the talking,and said Do you want to dance? I said not right now, then I asked if he was from here he said no, he was from Denver colorado, then heading to San Antonio. we talked for a little bit, he said it was his first time at a Gay scene. I said me too, two songs fly by, then he said come on you have to dance at least one. I was so suprise I was actualy gonna dance, I do dance but not really the way everybody was dancing in that club, I do the u know the whole breakdance kind of moves,lol! We started dancing, then he started pulling me closer, felt kind of wierd cause I wasnt used to it, we danced a while. Till he said he was going to be back, the club was packed, and for some reason after being real comfortable I started getting nervous, so I walked out and around the block, then came back couldnt find him anywhere, I dont know if it wasnt ment to be??? Wish I wouldve got his number, if youre a White man in your 40s that lives in colorado write me, maybe your the one im looking for, j/k.
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    Apr 24, 2012 12:29 AM GMT
    Try here
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    Apr 24, 2012 12:38 AM GMT
    I just tried, I didnt find anything, thanks though. I never knew they had something like that. I just hope he didnt think I was being rude
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    Apr 24, 2012 12:43 AM GMT
    Post an ad yourself then!

    It's quite hopeless though, I don't think anyone actually looks there.
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    Apr 24, 2012 12:46 AM GMT
    I was thinking about posting one, till I read ur last part,j/k I might, I wish I could go back and try tha night again...
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    Apr 24, 2012 4:50 PM GMT
    hotttest saidwe danced a while. Till he said he was going to be back, the club was packed, and for some reason after being real comfortable I started getting nervous, so I walked out and around the block, then came back couldnt find him anywhere, I dont know if it wasnt ment to be??? Wish I wouldve got his number, if youre a White man in your 40s that lives in colorado write me, maybe your the one im looking for, j/k.


    Welcome to Denver. That's exactly the type of men I've put up with for the past 14 months here. Flakes and douchebags. Fakes and assholes.

    Never try to get to a know a Denver man at night. They get way too fucking drunk (hell, I would too being as depressing the dating scene is here, that coming from the owner of a popular bar in town). It's not even worth it. They don't know who they're dancing with, who they're talking to...it's ridiculous. Part of the reason is people here don't believe in keeping alcohol in the house, conserves. So they are repressed and on the weekends can't handle their shit. I have 1-2 light drinks everyday....you don't ever see me falling on the ground drunk or throwing up on the weekend! It's about slowly introducing alcohol in your system, not going full speed on the weekend. They don't get it here, thus they act stupid as fuck when they do.

    3 more months....3 more months....Oh Lordy let me just get thru 3 more months.

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    Apr 24, 2012 6:52 PM GMT
    Sorry the story sounded a little confusing, he was visiting Austin texas(where I live), and was from Denver colorado. He was the one that asked me to dance, and I didnt think he was gonna get all close while we were dancing like that. I guess it did seem kind of strange when he just all of a sudden said he was going to be back, he got off the dance floor quick too... It just sucks to mean cause I never felt that comfortable to be that close to a guy before cause im real nervous about coming out.

    Where are you moving too, hope where ever it is, u enjoy it, and its good to you!
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    Apr 24, 2012 8:23 PM GMT
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    hotttest saidwe danced a while. Till he said he was going to be back, the club was packed, and for some reason after being real comfortable I started getting nervous, so I walked out and around the block, then came back couldnt find him anywhere, I dont know if it wasnt ment to be??? Wish I wouldve got his number, if youre a White man in your 40s that lives in colorado write me, maybe your the one im looking for, j/k.


    Welcome to Denver. That's exactly the type of men I've put up with for the past 14 months here. Flakes and douchebags. Fakes and assholes.

    Never try to get to a know a Denver man at night. They get way too fucking drunk (hell, I would too being as depressing the dating scene is here, that coming from the owner of a popular bar in town). It's not even worth it. They don't know who they're dancing with, who they're talking to...it's ridiculous. Part of the reason is people here don't believe in keeping alcohol in the house, conserves. So they are repressed and on the weekends can't handle their shit. I have 1-2 light drinks everyday....you don't ever see me falling on the ground drunk or throwing up on the weekend! It's about slowly introducing alcohol in your system, not going full speed on the weekend. They don't get it here, thus they act stupid as fuck when they do.

    3 more months....3 more months....Oh Lordy let me just get thru 3 more months.



    every gay dude...in every fucking city complains about the same damn thing. . ie. "bunch of flakes and assholes in my city, wah!"

    when in reality, you're just meeting shitty people and it has probably more to do with you and ur crap ability to choose ur friends.

    Cheers
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    Apr 25, 2012 12:15 AM GMT
    Import saidevery gay dude...in every fucking city complains about the same damn thing. . ie. "bunch of flakes and assholes in my city, wah!"

    when in reality, you're just meeting shitty people and it has probably more to do with you and ur crap ability to choose ur friends.

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    Nah, people are shitty everywhere. You can see them being shitty to each other even when it has nothing to do with you.
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    Apr 25, 2012 12:44 AM GMT
    At 24 you sound pretty uptight and inexperienced. Everyone moves at their own pace, but Austin is a progressive cool city. Get out and live a little.
    I would be suspicious of a 40 year old that said he was new to the gay scene. You are the one that left for a walk; from the Denver guy's perspective you are the one that split the scene.
    To the poster with all the negative comments about Denver...get a grip. Denver has a variety of men, if you are meeting only losers better take a look in the mirror! A negative attitude will attract the same.
    I came out there, and would still rank it in the top 10 US cities I'd choose to live in.
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    Apr 25, 2012 1:01 AM GMT
    It was just a dance, not the prom. damn. The two got separated, both probably thinking the other bailed. He was just visiting Austin anyway. Just think of it as a fun night where you met a cool guy.

    Tallathlete24 said
    hotttest saidwe danced a while. Till he said he was going to be back, the club was packed, and for some reason after being real comfortable I started getting nervous, so I walked out and around the block, then came back couldnt find him anywhere, I dont know if it wasnt ment to be??? Wish I wouldve got his number, if youre a White man in your 40s that lives in colorado write me, maybe your the one im looking for, j/k.


    Welcome to Denver. That's exactly the type of men I've put up with for the past 14 months here. Flakes and douchebags. Fakes and assholes.

    Never try to get to a know a Denver man at night. They get way too fucking drunk (hell, I would too being as depressing the dating scene is here, that coming from the owner of a popular bar in town). It's not even worth it. They don't know who they're dancing with, who they're talking to...it's ridiculous. Part of the reason is people here don't believe in keeping alcohol in the house, conserves. So they are repressed and on the weekends can't handle their shit. I have 1-2 light drinks everyday....you don't ever see me falling on the ground drunk or throwing up on the weekend! It's about slowly introducing alcohol in your system, not going full speed on the weekend. They don't get it here, thus they act stupid as fuck when they do.

    3 more months....3 more months....Oh Lordy let me just get thru 3 more months.

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    Apr 25, 2012 1:03 AM GMT
    To the dude in Denver, wow. I think you should leave the state. I personally like Denver gays, but I also look on the bright side and make friends with people who I get along with. I don't try to make friends with people that I know will piss me off or flake on me...fucking deal man.
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    Apr 25, 2012 1:58 AM GMT
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    Import saidevery gay dude...in every fucking city complains about the same damn thing. . ie. "bunch of flakes and assholes in my city, wah!"

    when in reality, you're just meeting shitty people and it has probably more to do with you and ur crap ability to choose ur friends.

    Cheers


    Nah, people are shitty everywhere. You can see them being shitty to each other even when it has nothing to do with you.


    exactly my point. Denver, CO is no exception to the rule
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    Apr 25, 2012 2:09 AM GMT
    hotttest saidDenver Colorado where did u go?
    According to google maps, it's still in the same place.
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    Apr 25, 2012 11:38 PM GMT
    Yea he could of still been in the club and came back thinking I bailed, Im not saying I thought it was more then a dance I know it was just fun, I wouldnt rush anything like that anyway, just my first time going out to a gay club in yes this AMAZING city of Austin...

    I wasnt trying to say denver men r like that, I also hope Denver hasnt shifted off the map I only hear good things about denver, and need to visit real soon.
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    Apr 25, 2012 11:42 PM GMT
    Denver is actually a great city for meeting guys and having a blast. I have a lot of good memories from my single days visiting Denver.

    For any guy complaining about the action in a great city, consider this:

    Wherever you go, there you are!
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    Apr 25, 2012 11:46 PM GMT
    Exactly how much time passed from the time he left the dance floor to the time you left?

    the way you say he left, sounds like he:
    - had diarrhea
    - thought you smelled
    - thought your breath smelled
    - realized he was supposed to pick his wife up at the airport, drop her off, then come back
    - prematurely shot one in his pants and had to clean up
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    Apr 25, 2012 11:52 PM GMT
    Jockbod48 said[size=14]Denver is actually a great city for meeting guys and having a blast. I've had my fun there when I was single.......and I've got some amazing memories.

    For any guy complaining about his city.............consider this: Wherever you go, there you are!size]


    Besides meeting guys I was actualy thinking about moving over ther I heard the people are awesome like Austin people, but what I hear the most of how beautiful it is there and tha fresh air is great!
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    Apr 25, 2012 11:55 PM GMT
    ECnAZ saidExactly how much time passed from the time he left the dance floor to the time you left?

    the way you say he left, sounds like he:
    - had diarrhea
    - thought you smelled
    - thought your breath smelled
    - realized he was supposed to pick his wife up at the airport, drop her off, then come back
    - prematurely shot one in his pants and had to clean up


    Alright the second and third cant be, but the rest I didnt think about that,ha! thats gross and funny, he had to leave the club if he had the first one cause the restroom was packed
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    Apr 26, 2012 1:29 AM GMT
    Defenseon saidTo the dude in Denver, wow. I think you should leave the state. I personally like Denver gays, but I also look on the bright side and make friends with people who I get along with. I don't try to make friends with people that I know will piss me off or flake on me...fucking deal man.


    He is a bitter hooker. NSFW Proof. Pay him no heed.
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    Apr 26, 2012 6:18 AM GMT
    He probably thought you ditched him.
    Good move dumbass.
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    Apr 26, 2012 6:27 AM GMT
    Anduru saidHe probably thought you ditched him.
    Good move dumbass.


    this.
    that's odd behaviour to go for a walk when someone says he'll be right back icon_confused.gif If I was him I'd assume you weren't interested and I'd move on...
    Oh and did you actually try the craigslist thing? Let us know how that goes icon_razz.gif hahaha
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    Apr 26, 2012 2:12 PM GMT
    Dang I am about to move to Denver in a month and start living the 'gay lifestyle'. I hope it isn't to hard to find some good people to go out with! Lol