How to make a move.....(Part 2)

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    Apr 24, 2012 12:37 AM GMT
    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2316084/

    ^ Okay, so that is the link to my first post about the topic, so if you want to refresh your memory, look at the link first!

    So, today I made a move (well kinda). I went to starbucks today to study for a test and luckily the place was empty and the guy was on his break. He was sitting at the bar right next to where you pick up your drink. So after I finished studying, I went over to the bar area to ask whoever was working if they can give me a water. So "my crush" was sitting while on his break and noticed me. So he asked me what I was studying for (I'm guessing he noticed I was studying icon_lol.gif:lolicon_smile.gif. I told him it was for statistics and then we just started talking. Talked about movies, social life, and etc. for a good 10 minutes and I got the balls to ask him for his facebook and he gave it to me icon_biggrin.gif.

    Unfortunately, I got distracted from my conversation with him when a friend from school showed up behind me and then her and I started talking and before I knew it I had to leave to take my test. So he was still sitting at the bar and I patted him on the shoulder and said goodbye to him.

    How do you think I did? and what else should I do? Thanks guys!

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    Apr 24, 2012 12:41 AM GMT
    1. Pull pants down.
    2. Place butthole on his mouth.

    I have had a zero% failure rate with this strategy.
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    Apr 24, 2012 1:18 AM GMT
    You dissed him by breaking your conversation with him the way you did.

    Allowing anybody (except maybe your parents or grandparents) to interrupt your conversation with somebody shows low regard for the person with whom you were first speaking.

    You'll be lucky if he doesn't decaf you forever.
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    Apr 24, 2012 1:22 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidYou dissed him by breaking your conversation with him the way you did.

    Allowing anybody (except maybe your parents or grandparents) to interrupt your conversation with somebody shows low regard for the person with whom you were first speaking.

    You'll be lucky if he doesn't decaf you forever.



    I didn't completely disregard him. He was talking with the other barista when she approached me.
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    Apr 24, 2012 1:25 AM GMT
    flguy18 said
    GAMRican saidYou dissed him by breaking your conversation with him the way you did.

    Allowing anybody (except maybe your parents or grandparents) to interrupt your conversation with somebody shows low regard for the person with whom you were first speaking.

    You'll be lucky if he doesn't decaf you forever.



    I didn't completely disregard him. He was talking with the other barista when she approached me.
    You had better get on the puter and hit him up on his facebook pronto!
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    Apr 24, 2012 2:57 AM GMT
    I say good job. Taking any sort of action is hard. Now just chat it up when you see him, it will be easier, I promise.
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    Apr 24, 2012 3:20 AM GMT
    Good effort. Now Facebook him asap. Go back to the Starbucks soon, also. Finish the conversation. Just don't ask him out for coffee icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 24, 2012 3:26 AM GMT
    Does it say on his Facebook that he's interested in men? Or does it display his preferences?
    This is exciting!! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 24, 2012 3:36 AM GMT
    Ok guys here is another update. I took Gamrican's advice of messaging him and it looks good! We started chatting and he is flirting with me. He said how he noticed how my eyes are pretty, and that I don't need a tan to look good. Wow.. im in shock hah icon_redface.gif
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    Apr 24, 2012 4:00 AM GMT
    flguy18 saidOk guys here is another update. I took Gamrican's advice of messaging him and it looks good! We started chatting and he is flirting with me. He said how he noticed how my eyes are pretty, and that I don't need a tan to look good. Wow.. im in shock hah icon_redface.gif


    Good for you!

    You're lucky though, I never meet men out in public who are receptive. Even at the gym. I've kind of given up on that, but if it's empty and I'm bored I'll find a way to chat to someway though. I find meeting guys in a bar to be easier, plus I don't really shop in the gay ghetto areas (I'd assume you have boystown?).

    Thing is, you said he made the first move. So technically even though you walked up to the bar and asked for water, he spoke to you first. My dilemma is I rarely ever have anyone speak to me first! They are so intimidated by me LOL.
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    Apr 24, 2012 6:13 AM GMT
    I think you did good.

    GJ.

    In a few weeks when you never post here, we'll know you succeeded. icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 24, 2012 6:18 AM GMT
    flguy18 saidOk guys here is another update. I took Gamrican's advice of messaging him and it looks good! We started chatting and he is flirting with me. He said how he noticed how my eyes are pretty, and that I don't need a tan to look good. Wow.. im in shock hah icon_redface.gif


    Aren't you glad you put yourself out and went for it? Good job! Nothing ventured, nothing gained! Continued good luck. Have fun with this, and just see where it goes.
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    Apr 24, 2012 7:10 PM GMT
    pfft. Butthole to mouth would have been just as successful, just a little more efficient. But whatever works for you. Thumbs up!
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    Apr 25, 2012 4:28 AM GMT
    flguy18 saidOk guys here is another update. I took Gamrican's advice of messaging him and it looks good! We started chatting and he is flirting with me. He said how he noticed how my eyes are pretty, and that I don't need a tan to look good. Wow.. im in shock hah icon_redface.gif


    That is awesome dude! Good going. So happy for you. Please keep us updated on your progress. icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 26, 2012 4:30 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch said1. Pull pants down.
    2. Place butthole on his mouth.

    I have had a zero% failure rate with this strategy.


    Hi there! icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 26, 2012 4:32 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch said1. Pull pants down.
    2. Place butthole on his mouth.

    I have had a zero% failure rate with this strategy.


    You've used this approach exactly how many times??? lol
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    Apr 29, 2012 3:09 AM GMT
    onaquest said
    SkinnyBitch said1. Pull pants down.
    2. Place butthole on his mouth.

    I have had a zero% failure rate with this strategy.


    You've used this approach exactly how many times??? lol


    Exactly 0 times.icon_cool.gif

    onaquest gets a +1 to Critical Thinking!
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    Apr 29, 2012 3:23 AM GMT
    SkinnyBitch said

    onaquest gets a +1 to Critical Thinking!



    LOL gold!
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    Apr 29, 2012 3:26 AM GMT
    Patted him on the back?? Lol, well, good, take things slow but next time place your hand on his shoulder for a second then give a couple of squeezesicon_smile.gif smile and tell him bye. Dont say "later." What you did was more buddyish.
    Initially, I would have been smirking, looking up and down at him, licking my lips kinda thing... Lets them know your intent and interest. Dont get too carried away with it, lol. Speeds things up quicker, keep your eyes on him while talking too. A lot of people don't know how to maintain eye contact in conversation these days.

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    Apr 29, 2012 3:44 AM GMT
    Sweet. Keep us updated, this is better than cable icon_razz.gif
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    May 01, 2012 2:48 AM GMT
    Okay everyone, new update:

    More good news! So we started talking for a bit now and he admitted to me he is gay (I knew the whole time) and I admitted it to him too. After that he has been very open with me. We just had a very close talk this past weekend. Today I went in like I always do to finish up some more school work. He asked me how I was feeling and if our conversation was good and I told him I really liked it. I get nervous around him, but despite my nerves I always go up to the bar to talk with him. I get nervous around him, but that is also because I have a lot of my mind with school. I really like him, his personality is awesome. He is very open, understanding, and accepting. And he keeps on giving me free drinks. I told him I wanted a "tall" blah blah blah and he gave me a "venti". After I told him I was gay, he gave me a free drink and ever since he keeps on upping my drink size. These little acts tell me that he likes me in some way. Oh and we might hangout this weekend. Not necesarily a date, but just chill and talk more about ourselves. icon_lol.gif
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    May 01, 2012 3:00 AM GMT
    sounds like youre on the right track! prouda u!

    i find it adorable that you had to come out to each other though...havent grown into your gaydar yet? lol
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    May 01, 2012 3:20 AM GMT
    flguy18 saidOkay everyone, new update:

    More good news! So we started talking for a bit now and he admitted to me he is gay (I knew the whole time) and I admitted it to him too. After that he has been very open with me. We just had a very close talk this past weekend. Today I went in like I always do to finish up some more school work. He asked me how I was feeling and if our conversation was good and I told him I really liked it. I get nervous around him, but despite my nerves I always go up to the bar to talk with him. I get nervous around him, but that is also because I have a lot of my mind with school. I really like him, his personality is awesome. He is very open, understanding, and accepting. And he keeps on giving me free drinks. I told him I wanted a "tall" blah blah blah and he gave me a "venti". After I told him I was gay, he gave me a free drink and ever since he keeps on upping my drink size. These little acts tell me that he likes me in some way. Oh and we might hangout this weekend. Not necesarily a date, but just chill and talk more about ourselves. icon_lol.gif


    AHHHHH!!! I'm so happy for you!!
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    May 01, 2012 3:25 AM GMT
    thats awesome. hope it works out. you played your cards well and you got a venti. hehe gl
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    May 01, 2012 3:28 AM GMT
    Hey you did it right.... keep smiling and let your eyes light up around him. I'm happy for yeah......