• raheem12892

    Posts: 2

    Apr 25, 2012 8:15 AM GMT
    Hello everyone

    Alright so this is whats going on. I've always considered myself versatile even though I've only ever bottomed for the 2 guys I've been with.

    I've been with this guy for 6 months and out of the 10-15 times we have had sex I've always bottomed. I do enjoy bottoming but I in no way desire to stay a bottom all my life. I have fantasies where I'm giving it too my dude and it turns me on. I wanna hear him moan, I want him to call my name (sorry graphic lol) its something I want to do and I know its something he wants as well since he always ask me when am I gonna top him.

    My problem is everytime I go to penetrate I get soft. Although I have no problem getting hard at anytime during sex. Honestly I think its one of two things

    1. performance anxiety - since I've never topped before or even if he even suggest I top. I get nervous because i dont want to fuck up which leads me to get soft.

    2. there was a time I tried to penetrate and simply could not get my penis into his hole. it was that damn tight which lead to me become soft.

    I feel as though if I ever stayed hard and got inside him, I would have no problem taking it from there. I've purchased a cock-ring but I have yet to use it because although I feel it will keep me hard I would feel embarrassed having to wear it at my age (21)

    But what do you guys think??? any advice??
  • raheem12892

    Posts: 2

    Apr 26, 2012 4:21 AM GMT
    damn bump i know someone got some kind of advice
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    Apr 26, 2012 4:29 AM GMT
    get magnum condoms - they're looser so they let more blood into your wang