Speaking to a guy on Grindr

  • Onemoresummer

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    Apr 26, 2012 6:57 AM GMT
    So I saw this cute guy in my area on Grindr.

    Said "Hey" to start off the convo and went from there.

    Was only very brief but he said "you're really cute"
    and "well have to catch up for drinks one night".

    We exchange names but since then (About 5 days ago) we haven't spoken.
    I favorited him so I can tell when he's online.
    The next day I sent "hey what's up" but got no reply.

    So there's been no convo since...should I initiate some more convo at the risk of sounding like a stalker??

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    Apr 26, 2012 11:40 AM GMT
    My rule is to say hello twice.... After that, if there's no response, then move on.
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    Apr 26, 2012 11:49 AM GMT
    ZbmwM5 saidMy rule is to say hello twice.... After that, if there's no response, then move on.


    If you don't live by this rule you'll drive yourself crazy - more of a concern than looking like a stalker.
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    Apr 26, 2012 12:03 PM GMT
    hey

    hey

    hey

    hey

    hi

    you must be busy
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    Apr 26, 2012 12:11 PM GMT
    Who takes Grindr seriously? It's basically a nosy neighbor/stalker/look at naked pictures tool.
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    Apr 26, 2012 1:12 PM GMT
    RunintheCity saidWho takes Grindr seriously? It's basically a nosy neighbor/stalker/look at naked pictures tool.


    Agreed!
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    Apr 26, 2012 1:17 PM GMT
    Adam228 saidhey

    hey

    hey

    hey

    hi

    you must be busy




    Haha! This.
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    Apr 26, 2012 1:23 PM GMT
    How come you show your pics on grindr but not on here?
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    Apr 26, 2012 1:30 PM GMT
    Nivek saidHow come you show your pics on grindr but not on here?

    Now that is a fair point. I don't have grindr. Maybe it is a thing that is more manageable on the spot.
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    Apr 26, 2012 1:32 PM GMT
    showme said
    ZbmwM5 saidMy rule is to say hello twice.... After that, if there's no response, then move on.


    If you don't live by this rule you'll drive yourself crazy - more of a concern than looking like a stalker.


    I agree with those guys. You don't need to make an ass of yourself.
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    Apr 26, 2012 1:46 PM GMT
    RunintheCity saidWho takes Grindr seriously? It's basically a nosy neighbor/stalker/look at naked pictures tool.



    This. Ask for a cock pic and move on!
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    Apr 26, 2012 2:00 PM GMT
    RunintheCity saidWho takes Grindr seriously? It's basically a nosy neighbor/stalker/look at naked pictures tool.
    agreed
  • Celticmusl

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    Apr 26, 2012 2:06 PM GMT
    beachbum310 said
    RunintheCity saidWho takes Grindr seriously? It's basically a nosy neighbor/stalker/look at naked pictures tool.
    agreed


    Totally. I don't think I've ever met anyone from Grindr.
  • Onemoresummer

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    Apr 26, 2012 3:59 PM GMT
    Hmmm so we started talking again.
    Said he was "horny" showed me a couple of pics etc
    But after he came didn't really talk anymore.

    It's just like real life haha.

    I guess i just got mixed signals with the whole "catch up for drinks" thing.