If the guy gives u his number are u obligated to call him ?

  • MarcBodybuild...

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    Apr 27, 2012 6:33 AM GMT

    Club scene or bar scene, guys give their number even if i don't know them, most of the time i don't call the number....

    just cause, i don't feel obligated to ... unless i enjoy the conversation or im attracted to him

    other than that .... nope


    what about u guys ? do u guys call the number or nah
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    Apr 27, 2012 12:38 PM GMT
    Why on earth would anyone feel obligated to call? I can't believe you feel the need to post this question.
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    Apr 27, 2012 12:40 PM GMT
    Heavens, NO! Never call. Never find out. Never know what if; and never deal with other people. Not the way to date... icon_neutral.gif ... icon_rolleyes.gif If you like him, call him. If you don't, don't call him. I suppose, but this is your life, not mine. I don't know what you got, or what you're missing.
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    Apr 27, 2012 12:42 PM GMT
    RedheadedRy saidWho on earth would anyone feel obligated to call? I can't believe you feel the need to post this question.


    lol.. awww icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 27, 2012 12:49 PM GMT
    Well, guess I can stop waiting by the phone all day. icon_neutral.gificon_cry.gificon_lol.gif
  • mybud

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    Apr 27, 2012 1:36 PM GMT
    You take their number....stuff it in your pocket....find it a week later lying in the bottom of your dryer drum......
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    Apr 27, 2012 1:41 PM GMT
    negative, sir. no obligation there... unless you said, "sure, I'll call you." that would be no bueno.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 27, 2012 1:44 PM GMT
    I've had guys give me their numbers without even asking if I am involved with someone. Kind of funny. No obligation to even be polite if you are just handed a number, just toss it.
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    Apr 27, 2012 1:46 PM GMT
    RedheadedRy saidWho on earth would anyone feel obligated to call? I can't believe you feel the need to post this question.


    I don't feel obligated to call, but sometimes the other person does.Then it gets awkward. Maybe this is for them?

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    Apr 27, 2012 2:00 PM GMT
    Yes. Accepting his number obligates you to call, ask him out, have sex, date, marry, raise a family and die together. Don't do it!icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 27, 2012 2:10 PM GMT
    showme saidYes. Accepting his number obligates you to call, ask him out, have sex, date, marry, raise a family and die together. Don't do it!icon_wink.gif
    Would you like my number sweet cheeks? icon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 27, 2012 2:12 PM GMT
    First of all, you obviously have no obligation to call.

    Now that that's out of the way, I do think it's polite to give your number to someone instead of asking for theirs after you've talked to them a bit and would like to meet again. That way, they can decide if they'd like to call in a no pressure/no obligation situation. I'm not a huge fan of guys asking for my number after we've talked a bit. I'd rather get theirs, or I'll offer mine.

    But don't just run over and shove it down my pants...that was just weird.
  • turtleneckjoc...

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    Apr 27, 2012 2:22 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidI've had guys give me their numbers without even asking if I am involved with someone. Kind of funny. No obligation to even be polite if you are just handed a number, just toss it.


    Then send your tossed numbers to me!! LOL
  • Lincsbear

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    Apr 27, 2012 3:01 PM GMT
    There`s no automatic obligation to call them back.
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    Apr 27, 2012 3:02 PM GMT
    Tenebrism said
    showme saidYes. Accepting his number obligates you to call, ask him out, have sex, date, marry, raise a family and die together. Don't do it!icon_wink.gif
    Would you like my number sweet cheeks? icon_twisted.gif


    My bf might complicate things, but only a little. Maybe he'll like you too. So sure. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 27, 2012 3:03 PM GMT
    showme saidYes. Accepting his number obligates you to call, ask him out, have sex, date, marry, raise a family and die together. Don't do it!icon_wink.gif


    This.
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    Apr 27, 2012 3:11 PM GMT
    BlkMuscleGent said
    showme saidYes. Accepting his number obligates you to call, ask him out, have sex, date, marry, raise a family and die together. Don't do it!icon_wink.gif


    This.


    Uh oh. I think we have each others' numbers ... This is getting complicated.
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    Apr 27, 2012 3:45 PM GMT
    It would kill you to have a coffee with a guy?

    Douche.