Do guys play games too?

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    Apr 28, 2012 11:21 PM GMT
    i didnt want to write a post about this because I knew I had to try and figure this out by myself but at this point, I need some help.
    Been talking to this guy and I cant tell if hes gay or not and I cant find the right time ask him if he is or tell him I am. Ive been texting him and he texts back. I dont know if hes being nice or is interested.
    I actually thought it wasnt going anywhere so I stopped texting him. A day went by and he calls but when i picked up he hung up... I texted him and he said he "pocket dialed" me. I left it at that. Today he finds me at the gym and we work out together for a while.
    my question is is he playing games? should i back off? should i pursue? i dunno...
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    Apr 29, 2012 12:06 AM GMT
    Tell him you think he's really fucking hot for a guy, and if you were gay you'd totally bang his ass so hard that even his mom would love it. Then say no homo.
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    Apr 29, 2012 12:08 AM GMT
    So True, but it is alot harder with guys because it seems they can be so much more discreet than not, especially since some guys sexuality is not even obvious.

    I have had guys who show all the signs of liking me and turned out it was just a friendship they wanted

    while others who did not even show any hints, really had crushes on me.

    It is really hard to say but alot of times you just have to take the risk and make the first move.

    I mean if you like someone and dont go for it aswell and just beat around the bush or wait for them, then you kinda are playing games aswell.

    Be direct.
    It is so much easier said than done.

    What I usally do to atleast find out a guys orenitation is the interest convo.
    Lead the convo

    Do you have a gf/married
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    I thought a guy was straight until he mentioned he likes mylittlepony, which gave me a headsup which was right.

    time to finetune the gaydar
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    hehe
    but goodluck.
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    Apr 29, 2012 3:36 AM GMT
    Paul, trust me I've thought about doing that lol.
    Jamie, It really is harder than it sounds. I plan on asking him which might be safer than telling him I'm into dudes just so I don't scare him off.
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    Apr 29, 2012 3:39 AM GMT
    gay, straight, bisexual...man...woman...all play games.
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    Apr 29, 2012 3:42 AM GMT
    From my limited experience I'll tell u this, be direct with him coz i have been in the same situation and a couple of days ago this guy told me he was gay. U have nothing to lose but yes bud, guys play games just as girls do. It's really annoying but that's life...let him know and if he wants nothing to do with you then so be it but atleast u were honest with him..Good luck i hope i helped a little
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    Apr 29, 2012 3:57 AM GMT
    I hope I'm not playing the same game. I guess the only way not to is to tell him the truth. You're right, nothing to lose. I wish people were more straight forward. Maybe I just don't to work this hard.
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    Apr 29, 2012 6:53 AM GMT
    i thought about it; if he had any interest then he would have made a move or something. its sad to think about but its better than waiting for something that doesnt exist. maybe im wrong and he will actually say something or i might slip up and tell him im gay. im not sure.
    doesnt matter who plays these games, there is always going to be a winner and there is always a loser.
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    Apr 29, 2012 7:00 AM GMT
    sanjose470 saidi thought about it; if he had any interest then he would have made a move or something. its sad to think about but its better than waiting for something that doesnt exist. maybe im wrong and he will actually say something or i might slip up and tell him im gay. im not sure.
    doesnt matter who plays these games, there is always going to be a winner and there is always a loser.


    Derp, don't you think that's exactly what he's thinking about you? He's probably quaking in his shoes when he talks to you, hoping that maybe you feel the same too but then why you don't seem to want to "make a move or something.

    The feelings you have for each other won't be known unless you voice them. That being said, why don't you be the guy who makes the first move?
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    Apr 29, 2012 7:30 AM GMT
    OMG giggles I thought gay and bi men created the game playing.unny thing is because I don't play the games, because when I am out, I am not out looking fo a root. Somanyassume one is a bisexual with a wife at home;icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Apr 29, 2012 5:34 PM GMT
    Animus said
    sanjose470 saidi thought about it; if he had any interest then he would have made a move or something. its sad to think about but its better than waiting for something that doesnt exist. maybe im wrong and he will actually say something or i might slip up and tell him im gay. im not sure.
    doesnt matter who plays these games, there is always going to be a winner and there is always a loser.


    Derp, don't you think that's exactly what he's thinking about you? He's probably quaking in his shoes when he talks to you, hoping that maybe you feel the same too but then why you don't seem to want to "make a move or something.

    The feelings you have for each other won't be known unless you voice them. That being said, why don't you be the guy who makes the first move?


    Im new to this. I didnt think of that way.
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    Apr 30, 2012 6:57 AM GMT
    Yes, guys play games.
    I like Words with Friends, Draw Something, Scramble With Friends, and Star Wars: TOR.
    Why is this in the Dating & Relationships Subforum?
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    Apr 30, 2012 8:26 AM GMT
    sanjose470 said
    Animus said
    sanjose470 saidi thought about it; if he had any interest then he would have made a move or something. its sad to think about but its better than waiting for something that doesnt exist. maybe im wrong and he will actually say something or i might slip up and tell him im gay. im not sure.
    doesnt matter who plays these games, there is always going to be a winner and there is always a loser.


    Derp, don't you think that's exactly what he's thinking about you? He's probably quaking in his shoes when he talks to you, hoping that maybe you feel the same too but then why you don't seem to want to "make a move or something.

    The feelings you have for each other won't be known unless you voice them. That being said, why don't you be the guy who makes the first move?


    Im new to this. I didnt think of that way.


    could be wrong in this case, but guys often wait for each other to make the first move and sit and feel depressed.
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    Apr 30, 2012 9:33 AM GMT
    Invite him over or out for dinner and drinks......icon_idea.gif