Guys you're attracted to vs guys you want to be seen with

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    Apr 29, 2012 3:59 AM GMT
    The two aren't exactly the same for me... guess i'm really obsessed with image. Assuming that height/personality/other factors are the same... I've always preferred white guys, and don't care about their job/education or even if they're as much as 5 years older as long as they look young. But publicly/long term I can only seem to accept dating another asian guy, same age or at most a year younger, and highly educated.

    Not sure if it's as simple as hook-up profile vs relationship profile... my friends say I'm overcompensating in traditionalness to make up for being gay, to society. Afterall my folks are totally fine w/ my bro's white, 2 years older, arts-student gf...
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    Apr 29, 2012 4:05 AM GMT
    I want to be seen with guys who I can share and brainstorm ideas with; because if we're busy brainstorming cool nerdy stuff, I could care less who sees us.
  • araphael

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    Apr 29, 2012 4:30 AM GMT
    Wow, this is a cool thread question. I really want to see some of the responses you get back to your question dude. Your issue intrigues me.
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    Apr 29, 2012 4:51 AM GMT
    That's sad. You need to take a long hard look at yourself.
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    Apr 29, 2012 4:56 AM GMT
    cold saidThat's sad. You need to take a long hard look at yourself.


    I don't think it's sad, per se, but it's certainly perplexing. I don't think I could ever have a mind set as the creator of this thread. I believe he is, as he mentioned, too fixated on imagine. The creator should elaborate as to why....I just don't understand. It almost seems foolish..
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    Apr 29, 2012 5:45 AM GMT
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    Apr 29, 2012 6:16 AM GMT
    cold saidThat's sad. You need to take a long hard look at yourself.


    +1
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    Apr 29, 2012 9:13 AM GMT
    sootopolis said should elaborate as to why....I just don't understand. It almost seems foolish..
    lol i guess that's my question. Looks like once again i assumed wrong in thinking i'm not the only one.
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    Apr 29, 2012 10:36 AM GMT
    dont be racist bro, true story