I don't know what to do :(

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    Apr 29, 2012 4:59 PM GMT
    Okay so I have been kind of seeing this guy since spring break (first week of March) and everything is going fine and what not or so I thought. I go back to school after break 4 hours up north from where I’m from. We text and call each other every day since

    I came home for Easter break, being excited and all then I go out with him and his friends Friday night, one would think he would be exciting to see me too... didn’t seem like it. He says im cute and he likes me a lot, but then again bitches about how I look that night, I had a backwards hat that reminded him of his ex, he didn’t like my 5oclock shadow doing on and said I wore too much cologne, I had 2 sprays on lol.

    After Easter we kind of talk, he goes off on me saying he can’t trust me cause I talk to other men, I’m sorry but when another guy is going to say hi to me on fbook I’m doing to reply back I aint a douche bag. "I told him I don’t talk to other guys like I do you, I like you." Then I come to find out he’s hanging with an 18 year old who’s still in high school and he 24, he says he doesn’t like him at all and their just friends... kind of fishy don’t you think. He says he isn’t interested in him, but is me... I’m so fucking confused. And doesn’t help when him and his friends say rude remarks to me all the time.

    He says he wants to hang out but doesn’t make time for me... I honestly don’t know what to do
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    Apr 29, 2012 5:07 PM GMT
    Dump him.
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    Apr 29, 2012 5:38 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidDump him.


    +1

    He sounds like one of those assholes who instead of being upfront and honest that he is loosing interest he wants you to do all the work to break up with him and make it your fault. He is not man enough to just break things off and make it his fault. Not worth your time dude. And if any dude told me how to dress, act, etc I would tell him to screw himself. Especially if he told me in front of people. Then it would be so over.

    Good luck dude on whatever you plan to do.icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 29, 2012 6:24 PM GMT
    Dump him.
    Wear less cologne.
    Know that the next guy won't be like him as long as you choose based on experience.
    Good luck!
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    Apr 29, 2012 7:35 PM GMT
    Got to agree with everyone else. This guy seems high on the list of people to avoid in life.
  • Coug24_wyo

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    Apr 29, 2012 7:38 PM GMT
    Dude he sounds like a jerk to be honest. You can get, and deserve, someone who will appreciate what you look like and who you are as a person not superficial bs like mentioned in your post.
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    Apr 29, 2012 7:51 PM GMT
    You are way too young (and cute) to be wasting your time with this guy. There are other guys out there who would definitely want to be with you. Move on.
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    Apr 29, 2012 8:01 PM GMT


    It should have been a sign when he started bitching you out about your looks. Forget about this guy.. He's not worth your time anymore... You're only 20, you'll find more guys.
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    Apr 29, 2012 8:10 PM GMT
    Wow...he got mad at you because you reminded him of his ex? What a freak. Why are you wasting your time?
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    Apr 29, 2012 10:29 PM GMT
    im so glad im not that age anymore! that sounds like me at that age and boy oh boy if i knew then not to try to gauge how other people feel about me or even to care how i felt about their opinions, life would have been a breeze!

    honestly, i think you need to chill. that guy sounds like a jerk. youlll one day realize that what a guy looks like is less important than how he treats you and how hard he works. soooooooooo, that being said, this guy sounds like a bag of crap and not worth pursuing. btw, texting and calling people all day every day shouldnt be used to assess how close your relationship has become...
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    Apr 29, 2012 10:40 PM GMT
    He's not that into you anymore. Move on to someone who does find your 5 o'clock shadow sexy and who actually makes the effort to spend time with you.
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    Apr 30, 2012 1:00 AM GMT
    Lsje92 said I had a backwards hat


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    May 02, 2012 4:20 AM GMT
    thakns guys for your responses
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    May 02, 2012 4:42 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidDump him.


    +1

    Not often I would just recommend this move but given what you've said, this guy is a control freak and, although we all can find issues with our partners, we exercise tolerance, talk about it, and don't dis someone that we've just started dating.

    This guy is drama and that starts with D and that stands for DUMP!
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    May 04, 2012 5:38 PM GMT
    thanks again guys, he ended it with me so whatever!
  • MikemikeMike

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    May 04, 2012 5:41 PM GMT
    He did you a favor. Sounds like a very insecure little kid.
    You will find much better. Be icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 11, 2012 2:21 AM GMT
    Thanks guys!! icon_smile.gif
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    May 11, 2012 2:43 AM GMT
    Dude don't waste You'r time him
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    May 11, 2012 2:57 AM GMT
    Dump that fool
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    May 11, 2012 3:01 AM GMT
    Dump him and take me. Something's very wrong with him. He sounds like the super controlling type and he just can't seem to trust you so, you're better than that.
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    May 11, 2012 8:02 AM GMT
    Can his ass. Problem solved... Wear more backwards hats while doing this. Lol

  • May 11, 2012 1:55 PM GMT
    Only stays if the sex is good and you don't have any feeling for him.
  • Karl

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    May 11, 2012 2:01 PM GMT
    Hey , you're so LUCKY !
    At least you didnt have a dump/unfaithful boyfriend like him.
    Talking to other boys is wrong ? WHAT ? REALLY ? sounds very funny.
    Cheers up man , he doesnt deserve your love icon_smile.gif
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    May 14, 2012 8:18 AM GMT
    thanks again guys! icon_smile.gificon_smile.gif
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    May 14, 2012 8:49 AM GMT
    Based on what you've described, I think you already know that he's not the one for you.

    Meet more people, roll the dice, and explore!

    EDIT: Oooops, missed your update. Best that it was over, tbh.