With your friends and family in mind--do you prefer being a guest at their place, or hosting them at your own place

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    Jul 19, 2008 4:09 AM GMT
    I much prefer being the host, I get a kick out of sharing my home, food, and simple enjoyment of others company. The mess doesn't bother me either, I'd rather deal with that than be a guest and away from home. So which way do you guys prefer, being the guest, or the host?????

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    Jul 19, 2008 5:07 AM GMT
    Hosting with all except for mother/dad, then I love the way she treats me and often doesnt let me go to my home which is all off 10 minutes away!!!

    Plus hate when they. friends- insist u stay longer!!!! So have to consider if the 'three day, company is fish' rule applies like with some, or they sincerely want your company longer!
  • qalbi30

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    Jul 19, 2008 5:09 AM GMT
    Prefer being the host,enjoy the pleasure that comes from making friends content.
    Was surprised at a comment made the other day that the reason I like to have friends in my home is because I'm in control of the situation.
    In fact;this is not so ! when one is a guest there are reasons that the host has asked you to be there,so relax .
    Am interested to know what other RJ members think.