Question for older guys

  • nrg4021

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    Apr 29, 2012 8:25 PM GMT
    Is it a thing with older guys that find barely legal, 17-18 year olds attractive? or is it a major turn off if you're jailbait.. just wondering! thanks
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    Apr 29, 2012 8:39 PM GMT
    Back in the Navy (circa 1990) I heard some older officer say "If she's old enough to bleed, she's old enough to breed."

    Pretty sure it works that way with a small fraction of older gay men, too.
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    Apr 29, 2012 9:20 PM GMT
    No way!icon_eek.gif I like men my own age, we have much more in common. I don't want to mess around with any boys. Sheesh!
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    Apr 29, 2012 9:56 PM GMT
    I was just checking to make sure you didn't identify old men as 30+ like that other poster. Thank you.
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    Apr 29, 2012 10:04 PM GMT
    Personally, my goal is to stay out of jail. I am not interested if I am going to have to wonder if you are legally an adult.

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    Apr 29, 2012 10:06 PM GMT
    I generally find myself hooking up or befreinding guys 25-45 lately.

    For a one-time NSA type thing, 18+ is just fine, though I don't go out of my way to find "barely legal looking guys".

    Usually 21-22 is as young as I'm willing to go for cultivating friendships/fuckbuddy relationships.

    I'll make an exception for exceptionally mature 18-20y.o. who seem interested in me.
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    Apr 29, 2012 10:12 PM GMT
    Haven't you been on a4a? Most 40+ yo state in their profile only 18-21 guys.
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    Apr 29, 2012 10:13 PM GMT
    I like my men able to by their own drinks in a bar or store legally and their insurance has usually gone down by the time they reach a certain age. LOL.

    25+ is my lowest (for now). I tend to be attracted to guys close to my age so a decent 5-7 () years of my range.
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    Apr 29, 2012 10:13 PM GMT
    The last few people I dated were 19... I think younger people tend to be less jaded and cynical.
  • Nakedman1969

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    Apr 29, 2012 10:24 PM GMT
    The ages I go for is 18-30 and I don't go for any 17 or younger!!!! I don't go for that.
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    Apr 29, 2012 10:28 PM GMT
    I dont know if being 33 counts as 'old', but IMO the legal age is the legal age and anything under that is no go. Even then, the legal age here in Australia (16 years old) is too young for me.
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    Apr 29, 2012 10:36 PM GMT
    Generally I dont like younger guys other than to look at. There are exceptions of course. But normally I dont have any interest in anyone under 30. If they just want to get fucked, fine. But I dont want to talk them. Again, generally speaking.
  • fmrhugger

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    Apr 29, 2012 10:57 PM GMT
    Attractive is attractive, young or old. Thing is, as we get older, some of us get less attractive. No reason why an older guy can't WANT a younger guy, but he probably won't get one.

    I'm still attracted to the kind of guys i was attracted to in HS.

    That look and build hasn't changed, only the bodies owning them.

    Make any sense?
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    Apr 29, 2012 11:39 PM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidGenerally I dont like younger guys other than to look at. There are exceptions of course. But normally I dont have any interest in anyone under 30. If they just want to get fucked, fine. But I dont want to talk them. Again, generally speaking.


    I agree that young men can be beautiful to look at, but I'm kind of past the one night stand phase of my life. It was fun for a while, but I'm more interested in what you have to say once the sexual tension is broken. In my experience AS an 18 year old - I was mainly interested in sex for sex's sake - and a couple of experiences WITH 18-19 year olds a few years ago, they are not LTR, or even friendship relationship material. I think you have more in common with younger guys if you are younger - that's all. No disrespect intended.
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    Apr 30, 2012 12:06 AM GMT
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    abm1985 saidThe last few people I dated were 19... I think younger people tend to be less jaded and cynical.
    Haha... Hahahaha.... HAHAHAHAHAHA!


    But of course, there are always exceptions.
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    Apr 30, 2012 1:00 AM GMT
    I think it's interesting that so many younger guys (18 and up) find older guys of interest. I had a lot of guys contacting me, even though I was interested in a little older. At 50 I couldn't seem to find 30 and 40 that had an interest but twenty year olds never seemed to be a problem. Now that I'm in a relationship, I don't have the issue but online I still have mostly younger guys contacting me. Not sure what it is but I think the newer (younger) guys may look for an experienced leader for a while.
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    Apr 30, 2012 1:03 AM GMT
    No, 15 year difference MAX! So, 20s at youngest!
  • booboolv

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    Jul 22, 2012 8:13 PM GMT
    If he's legal and it's just sex, I don't care. I'm old and will take what I can get. If it is about building a relationship, young guys sometimes don't have a clue about life and aren't interesting to talk to. But who talks when they have a mouth full? So yeah, it all depends on what you're looking for.
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    Jul 22, 2012 8:20 PM GMT
    I have nephews that are 16, 18, 23...
    Sometimes i go out ..really nice younger guys will aproach me just for friendly chatter..as soon as they make any sexual references..i give em a look like..."Go To Your Room"!!..
    yeah..i have some work to do..
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    Jul 22, 2012 8:24 PM GMT
    abm1985 saidThe last few people I dated were 19... I think younger people tend to be less jaded and cynical.


    i truly find this mind boggling when older guys say this? and it is just as inane now as the very first time i read it from a poster.
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    Jul 22, 2012 8:26 PM GMT
    nrg4021 saidIs it a thing with older guys that find barely legal, 17-18 year olds attractive? or is it a major turn off if you're jailbait.. just wondering! thanks


    why is 17-18 the line of demarcation? why not 15-16? surely you don't think there is really a difference between someone who is 16 and who is 17 or 18
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    Jul 23, 2012 1:48 AM GMT
    I wonder what goes through the mind of an older man having sex with a younger, whether they bottom or top.

    I'm 22 and prefer guys up to 30 max, but I wouldn't have sex with guys under 21.icon_rolleyes.gificon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 23, 2012 2:49 AM GMT
    Now that I think about it,the more "socialized" homos (those that get out, have other gay friends they hang out with, etc) tend to mainly stick to guys reasonably within their age range, while the more closeted, reclusive ones are always pursuing younger twinks.
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    Jul 23, 2012 2:53 AM GMT
    Hypnotico saidHaven't you been on a4a? Most 40+ yo state in their profile only 18-21 guys.


    lol srsly... Grindr too. All the dinosaurs message me when my profile says fit guys 21-35 only. A fat 53-year-old does not fit the bill............
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    Jul 23, 2012 2:56 AM GMT
    Firebrand said
    Hypnotico saidHaven't you been on a4a? Most 40+ yo state in their profile only 18-21 guys.


    lol srsly... Grindr too. All the dinosaurs message me when my profile says fit guys 21-35 only. A fat 53-year-old does not fit the bill............


    (deep)