Does this guys profile reak of gay insecurities or what?!

  • prime02

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    Apr 30, 2012 6:14 PM GMT
    I don't get how some gay guys are so scared of being gay and think that if they hate "the scene" or have little to no gay friends.. it makes them more masculine. Hey bro, I'm masc.. I'm probably the only masc guy in the city!!!

    Messaged a guy on here, and he responded and said he wasn't into "fem guys" and he could tell I was gay by my profile and pics. Errrr, wrong! Ended up feeling bad for him after the 2nd exchange because it's going to suck being being scared of anything and anyone gay.

    Here's his profile:

    "Sup im a masculine guy in San diego. I'm not into the gay scene at all. don't like gay clubs or gay stuff and most of my friends are straight. I do guy stuff. I like sports and I don't understand why gay guys can't play sports or watch them and I skate so If you do too hit me up.

    I'm looking to move up to LA so seeing what kind of people I can meet up there. "

    Just my 2 cents
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    Apr 30, 2012 7:46 PM GMT
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    Apr 30, 2012 7:46 PM GMT
    I don't really know about that whole situation.. however you don't jump out as a super gay to me... That being said I have the worlds worst gaydar.....
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    Apr 30, 2012 7:58 PM GMT
    I can't speak to this subject. For some reason, each time I view your photos my right hand moves off the keyboard and onto my...okay, enough.

    I don't see it or understand what the person you speak of takes as being 2 gay 2 go n 2 public (my words).

    You're cute, hot, sexy & seem to be stable and level headed. I really wouldn't concern myself with it...
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    Apr 30, 2012 8:50 PM GMT
    No, that profile is a fake. Go back and look at the profile and you will notice that he stole his pic from this guy and cropped the head.

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    EDIT: Profile has been deleted.
  • prime02

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    Apr 30, 2012 9:26 PM GMT
    ah, that's good to hear that I stopped chatting with a troll then... something didnt seem right after the exchange. some people out their are sad sad sad individuals. Thanks!
  • Art2D2x

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    May 01, 2012 6:30 AM GMT
    He's moving to L.A. That's already breaking into the scene. And considering that his profile is fake... he's already living in transplant land.

    Hope he stays where he's staying... under a rock. Unwelcome.
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    May 04, 2012 5:04 AM GMT
    Are trolls on here often? I feel like I may have been trolled. How do you figure out if they have a troll account or not?
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    May 04, 2012 5:16 AM GMT
    Being "masc" has its advantages in the straight world, but it sometimes annoys me when I go into a gay bar and most people ask me if I'm straight. icon_confused.gif
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    May 04, 2012 2:11 PM GMT
    Well i know what that means !
    Whenever someone says that he means "i am not that stereotype of feminine guys "

    many of the people who ay this is coz they are ashamed of femme guys as if being femme is a sin

    Well saying of this im more masculine then straight people but i feel everyone is equal & have no qualms of having femme friend or even have lunch & dinners with them & dont let anything like femme masc thing buzz my mind !

    These guys behave as if they are Gods & femme Guys are a burden
    Honestly tell them 2 accept homosexuality first & then say so much
    & be a man first with balls to actually accept what they are !
    if u know what i mean !
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    May 04, 2012 11:27 PM GMT
    I don't think it's right to judge someone like that (even if his profile could be a fake) as insecure.

    I'm not into the gay scene or not into fem guys either. Does that make me insecure? Of course not. It means I have preferences when it comes to guys I'm attracted to and prefer to be in a social setting with men and women together, not just men. It has nothing to do with insecurity.

    If anything, I'd say you come across as insecure cuz you had to vent about it when the guy called u fem. Don't take it personally. Everyone is different. Different strokes for different folks.
  • MrNomis

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    Jun 02, 2012 2:29 PM GMT
    prime02 saidah, that's good to hear that I stopped chatting with a troll then... something didnt seem right after the exchange. some people out their are sad sad sad individuals. Thanks!

    Honestly I believe you've dodge a bullet with self hate. Glad you did what u did and trust you dont need anyone that could closet u or make u dislike or hate whom u are. Best of luck. icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 02, 2012 2:48 PM GMT
    prime02 said...Here's his profile:

    "Sup im a masculine guy in San diego. I'm not into the gay scene at all. don't like gay clubs or gay stuff and most of my friends are straight. I do guy stuff. I like sports and I don't understand why gay guys can't play sports or watch them and I skate so If you do too hit me up...


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    Jun 02, 2012 4:09 PM GMT
    Rule# 38393..
    If you have a profile on a gay profile site, then you ARE into the gay scene. icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 02, 2012 8:43 PM GMT
    Hi men,

    Boy, do I really hate effeminate queers. So I'm moving to Los Angeles, a city that is not San Francisco.

    Signed,
    Internalized Homophobia
  • TheBizMan

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    Jun 02, 2012 8:48 PM GMT
    wonofakind saidI don't think it's right to judge someone like that (even if his profile could be a fake) as insecure.

    I'm not into the gay scene or not into fem guys either. Does that make me insecure? Of course not. It means I have preferences when it comes to guys I'm attracted to and prefer to be in a social setting with men and women together, not just men. It has nothing to do with insecurity.

    If anything, I'd say you come across as insecure cuz you had to vent about it when the guy called u fem. Don't take it personally. Everyone is different. Different strokes for different folks.


    Honestly I think this is BS. So you'd rather outwardly reject and prefer not to be around someone just because they are more feminine? That screams insecure to me.

    I.E. "Can't be around this flamer because then people will think I act like that."
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    Jun 02, 2012 11:36 PM GMT
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    wonofakind saidI don't think it's right to judge someone like that (even if his profile could be a fake) as insecure.

    I'm not into the gay scene or not into fem guys either. Does that make me insecure? Of course not. It means I have preferences when it comes to guys I'm attracted to and prefer to be in a social setting with men and women together, not just men. It has nothing to do with insecurity.

    If anything, I'd say you come across as insecure cuz you had to vent about it when the guy called u fem. Don't take it personally. Everyone is different. Different strokes for different folks.


    Honestly I think this is BS. So you'd rather outwardly reject and prefer not to be around someone just because they are more feminine? That screams insecure to me.

    I.E. "Can't be around this flamer because then people will think I act like that."


    Not really. Again, it's preference. Would you hang out with a racist? I know, not the same thing...but it's all about preference and who you feel comfortable around.
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    Jun 02, 2012 11:57 PM GMT
    Woolsocks saidHi men,

    Boy, do I really hate effeminate queers. So I'm moving to Los Angeles, a city that is not San Francisco.

    Signed,
    Internalized Homophobia


    Yo Bros! I'm looking to hang with chill dudes, knock back some brew, puppy pile, make a fort, pitch a tent, you know, guy stuff. Don't be gay!

    No homo!

    Signed,
    STR8-Acting Butch Faggot

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