Where did you meet your current boyfriend? and who hit on who first?

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    May 01, 2012 12:45 AM GMT
    here's my question

    Where did you meet your current boyfriend? and who hit on who first? how ? icon_wink.gif


    just want you guys to share
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    May 01, 2012 1:18 AM GMT
    This October we will celebrate our 10th anniversary. There really wasn't any hitting on by either of us. I went out to the bar with my friend one night and were were meeting a friend of my friend, who brought one of his friends with him. My friend and his friend were on the dance floor all night and that left me and the friend's friend, two strangers, at a table talking. We were not each others types, but got along so well talking and joking all night that he asked me for my number at the end of the night. He called me a couple days later and we went out to dinner and have been together ever since. Not being each others types, neither of us would have approached the other if we had not been unexpectedly put together, so sometimes love really does come from when and where you don't expect it.
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    May 01, 2012 1:28 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said...
    He's super sweet and makes me feel cared for like never before. icon_biggrin.gif...


    ^^^ 'Cause he's totally worth it!!! icon_cool.gif
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    May 01, 2012 3:17 AM GMT
    He came as a friend's date to another friend's funeral. icon_sad.gif
    And I had just met someone the day before.

    9 months later (no babies, whew!) we met again at a college dance.
    Being the go-getter, HE walked up to me and said "I know you!".

    I was like: OMG, this guy is hot, he just walked up to me, and he does look familiar.
    Of course, I was only interested in one thing.
    His UM football tickets.
    And quick. I was going overseas the next day and the applications were due before I returned.
    (Ah, those primitive days before one could order things on the intertubes even from the other side of the world.)

    He willingly gave me his name, address and phone #.
    So I sent him a post-card from France and another from Israel.
    He used the weeks I was away to stalk me (one of his profs new of me).
    After I got back, we went out on a date.
    He hasn't been able to get rid of me since....
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    May 01, 2012 3:28 AM GMT
    He saw me outside a club one night and approached me on the dance floor of the same club the next day. We've been together ever since (one year three months).
  • Parker817

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    May 01, 2012 3:29 AM GMT
    Match.com...

    He winked at me... icon_wink.gif
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    May 01, 2012 3:45 AM GMT
    We met on connexion.com; he had a phrase I liked about music and songs being a sort of scrapbook for one's life and I really liked that idea. I bookmarked his profile for later to comment on that and he contacted me first. I felt that he was out of my league and I still can't believe my fortune in his being mine :-)
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    May 01, 2012 3:48 AM GMT
    intensity69 said
    yourname2000 said...
    He's super sweet and makes me feel cared for like never before. icon_biggrin.gif...


    ^^^ 'Cause he's totally worth it!!! icon_cool.gif


    Awww.. you guys are so cute.
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    May 01, 2012 4:10 AM GMT
    My last relationship was with a guy I met through an online dating site. He contacted me first. He was further away than what I was usually searching for, so I didn't even know he was there. It didn't work out, but he's still a good friend of mine.
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    May 01, 2012 4:15 AM GMT
    bttomfriend saidHaven't got one icon_sad.gif

    It's cuz you're such a tease.
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    May 01, 2012 5:55 AM GMT
    we met through mutual friends on new years eve of 2011. we talked here and there and saw each other once in a while if we happen to run into each other while being out.

    we both happen to book on the same cruise last october. this was totally unplanned. Just hung out as friends for most of the week on the cruise until the last few days when we started getting really close to each other.

    i don't think we were hitting on each other. it just happened to work out.
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    May 01, 2012 6:15 AM GMT
    intensity69 said
    yourname2000 said...
    He's super sweet and makes me feel cared for like never before. icon_biggrin.gif...


    ^^^ 'Cause he's totally worth it!!! icon_cool.gif


    are you guys like couple or something?
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    May 01, 2012 6:21 AM GMT
    Haha- I'm probably forever alone, but I'm okay with that.
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    May 01, 2012 6:27 AM GMT
    What's a boyfriend
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    May 01, 2012 6:57 AM GMT
    daviddoublebay saidContinuing.. lol....



    I literally laughed out loud when I read this...twice

    I like how you tell your stories.

    No bf ill post on here when I get one.
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    May 01, 2012 8:13 AM GMT
    BlueJeans90 said
    intensity69 said
    yourname2000 said...
    He's super sweet and makes me feel cared for like never before. icon_biggrin.gif...


    ^^^ 'Cause he's totally worth it!!! icon_cool.gif


    are you guys like couple or something?


    "or something?" ... please explain, the possibilities elude me... icon_lol.gif
  • BardBear

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    May 01, 2012 9:50 AM GMT
    Met online. I had posted that I wanted to meet someone for coffee, nothing else, when I was visiting my alma mater over July 4th, back in 1998. I was seeing someone. He was seeing someone else. I was the only gay dude in my circle of friends, and got tired of dragging the lot of them to the one gay bar in all of South Dakota. The plan was, we'd meet for coffee, walk over to the bar, play some pool. Nothing more.

    He totally dissed me. THis was the time before cell phones and he was called into work late (he worked nights, obviously). He eventually called my home phone and apologized profusely, sent a box of homemade cookies and we chatted. And chatted. And chatted.

    For a good six months. Then we met. Already friends.

    Been together since.

    Peace,
    Bardy
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    May 01, 2012 10:17 AM GMT
    I meant to ass-slap one of my other guy friends and ended up slapping his instead by accident.

    *WOAH THERE - NO HOMO, MAN.*

    Totally worth the public embarrassment. So technically I hit on him first. :p
    He asked me out through skype a couple of weeks later. (;
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    May 01, 2012 11:01 AM GMT
    I'll start with the most current, but add some previous others in order, all guys with whom I had a continuous relationship of at least 6 months or more:

    - Current partner: he hit on me in an AOL gay chat room.
    - Previous BF: I hit on him in a bar. Twice! First time another guy aced me out right at closing, next night I was determined not to go home without him, guarded him like a hawk all night from poachers.
    - Late partner: he hit on me in an AOL gay chat room.
    - BF: I mailed him a letter, after reading a newspaper article about him. He got back in touch with me, and we hooked-up.
    - BF: I hit on him at a private gay party when I learned he was a fellow motorcyclist.
    - BF: he hit on me on a gay BBS.
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    May 01, 2012 11:34 AM GMT
    I plan on kidnaping Ariodante from the NYC meet-up and he will be my next basement-boyfriend.
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    May 01, 2012 11:50 AM GMT
    Adam228 saidI plan on kidnaping Ariodante from the NYC meet-up and he will be my next basement-boyfriend.



    We need to fight then HAHAHA



    by the way, I enjoy reading you guys' stories icon_biggrin.gif they are cute
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    May 01, 2012 12:13 PM GMT
    A personal ad, back in the days before IMs, email, chatrooms or even voice mailboxes. You had to write a snail mail letter, which they bundled up and forwarded once a week. I placed the ad, he wrote the letter. We've been inseparable for 25 years. I still have the letter. icon_wink.gif

    Since I've already seriously dated myself, here was the ad:

    GWM, mid-20s, Ivy-educated, prof. Into new music, pop culture icons and general vague trendiness. Tired of people who think yellow ties are daring. Looking for similar poseurs to show me fun stuff.
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    May 01, 2012 12:28 PM GMT
    Sometime in July 1984, according to certain sources. It was in a dark, cramped, fluid-filled room, so I really can't remember the details as to who approached who first.

    My hand and I have been inseparable ever since.
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    May 01, 2012 2:25 PM GMT
    badly cheated by a guy whom I Loved More than my own-self & my Life

    Feel very bad for all what i did for him & he getting another *ugly* guy & getting F*cked by him

    had 8 sleeping pills daily,(now its just 2 pills i have),tried Drugs ,Smoking,Drinking everything
    Its my 13th day i broke-off
    Still want him after that
    I was badly in love with him
    his reason for cheating me : "Just Nothing"
    I did everything for him changed my friends,stopped being with my thousands of gay friends all across the world,i even tried being a bottom(i cried while doing it, not coz of the pain but coz of how much i loved him that i didn't care for being that hypothetical TOP i was !)
    Worked my ass off for three months(i know its funny but they were like 3 years)

    never seen the handsomest guys just for an average looking guy like him,
    Walked all the streets for him,prayed to GOD for him more then myself,never doubted him (though he had a daughter around my age,now that i know)

    Cried all alone,
    & seen him on a gay website where he has put a headline :
    "F*ck my hungry Hole,I love the Cum in my A$$"

    Dunno my only wrong move was falling for a guy who fooled me that he loved me
    I'm so innocent !
    Hope God justifies how true i was !

    He's 45 now maybe when he turns 60 he would regret doing it
    coz he lost the most honest guy like me for a F*ck with some ugly nerds
    people love him coz he's a millionaire,after his money is over they wont give a f*ck for who he is,i never was for his money but just for his heart

    GOD I Hate Myself,now
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    May 01, 2012 2:28 PM GMT
    Sam_u_el saidbadly cheated by a guy whom I Loved More than my own-self & my Life . . .


    Handsome, wrong thread - but you really need some perspective. You are young. It was only three months. I know it seems dire now but it won't last forever. I promise.

    Hugs.

    Please don't let this thread get derailed, I love reading these stories. icon_smile.gif