How Do You Know When You're In Love

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    May 02, 2012 12:22 AM GMT
    What does it feel like?

    How do you know that it is love?

    What is love to you?

    Is it everything you thought it would be?

    I havent felt it yet..I have really really truly cared about someone, but I dunno if it was love or just deep infatuation and since I don't truly know, then I am going to go with no.

    I always thought if I ever truly did fall in love, I would know.

    Just a topic about the beauty of the feeling when you arrived there.

    What is it like?icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 02, 2012 12:23 AM GMT
    You don't. It's just one of those things that you recognize when it happens.
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    May 02, 2012 12:26 AM GMT
    When your heart goes a pitter patter!
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    May 02, 2012 12:39 AM GMT
    When you use you're and your correctly.
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    May 02, 2012 12:43 AM GMT
    TropicalMark_GySgtUSMC saidWhen your heart goes a pitter patter!
    Running makes you in love?
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    May 02, 2012 12:44 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark_GySgtUSMC saidWhen your heart goes a pitter patter!
    Running makes you in love?
    No.. running makes your heart go THUMP THUMP THUMP real fast!
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    May 02, 2012 1:33 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark_GySgtUSMC saidWhen your heart goes a pitter patter!
    Running makes you in love?


    Shaddup Paul icon_wink.gif

    I hear it can make your heart race.
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    May 02, 2012 3:19 AM GMT
    When you wake up everyday and he is the first thing you think about. Everytime you see him your face lights up immediately. You can't imagine a day going by that you don't hear from him. When you think about his needs before your own needs.
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    May 02, 2012 5:09 AM GMT
    JamieJfromtheA said
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark_GySgtUSMC saidWhen your heart goes a pitter patter!
    Running makes you in love?


    Shaddup Paul icon_wink.gif

    I hear it can make your heart race.


    I laughed, because Paul does have a BF now! That was very intuitive.

    -Doug
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    May 02, 2012 5:30 AM GMT
    If you're wondering if you're in love, then you probably aren't [yet]. If you're really in love, then you know you're in love, even if it's for the first time.

    PS-- Don't mistake lust for love. Just because you want to fuck somebody, doesn't mean you love them.
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    May 02, 2012 6:18 AM GMT
    I never buy guys drinks. I either buy my own or they buy mine. But when there is more there, aka love; "yes I'll get that for you" icon_cool.gif

    And too...when after a few dates you guys still haven't slept with each other, yet the passion builds every-time...

    These guys who think that it doesn't matter when you have sex with a guy, whether on a 1st date or what is deceiving. I've stopped having 1st and 2nd date (or longer) sex and I've been getting past the 3rd date mark every since. Or, we'll do sex and go beyond 3 'dates', but they are just happy to be F-buddies, rarely beyond that point. Like this one guy I was messing with, and now everytime he calls I say, "when you're ready to HANG OUT, call me. Otherwise, I'm not coming over". He couldn't ever do it so I met someone who actually is interested.
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    May 02, 2012 6:23 AM GMT
    When you want to do more than sex with him, you've got the loves.
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    May 02, 2012 6:30 AM GMT
    love is being woken up with a bj lol

    Seriously though, love is when its more than just a chemical reaction. There is synergy and the two together are greater than what you add up to individually.
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    May 03, 2012 3:26 AM GMT
    How do you distinguish the diff between having love for someone and being in love with them.

    I mean if you are close, cant that be a little confusing.
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    May 03, 2012 3:27 AM GMT
    I KNOW WHEN I CANT GO A DAY WITHOUT THINKING ABOUT HIM OR WANTING TO CALL AND TALK. AND THEN WHEN U DO GET TO TALK U TALK FOR HOURS. MORE SO WHEN U R TOGETHER AND U REALIZE THAT HE IS SO HANDSOME AND THAT IDEA DOESNT CHANGE AFTER A FEW YEARS THAT IS TRUE LOVE.
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    May 03, 2012 3:52 AM GMT
    I have included an academic reference on the topic:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I_bEWXs_FX4

    If any of these things are happening to you, you may be in love (and also a Disney character)
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    May 03, 2012 4:44 AM GMT
    meninlove said
    JamieJfromtheA said
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark_GySgtUSMC saidWhen your heart goes a pitter patter!
    Running makes you in love?


    Shaddup Paul icon_wink.gif

    I hear it can make your heart race.


    I laughed, because Paul does have a BF now! That was very intuitive.

    -Doug
    We've actually been dating since last Sept, but didn't take it seriously till this year. We're both extreeeeeeeeeemly picky. icon_wink.gif
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    May 03, 2012 4:57 AM GMT
    JamieJfromtheA saidWhat does it feel like?

    How do you know that it is love?

    What is love to you?

    Is it everything you thought it would be?

    I havent felt it yet..I have really really truly cared about someone, but I dunno if it was love or just deep infatuation and since I don't truly know, then I am going to go with no.

    I always thought if I ever truly did fall in love, I would know.

    Just a topic about the beauty of the feeling when you arrived there.

    What is it like?icon_biggrin.gif


    fall in love? is that really a thing?
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    May 03, 2012 5:03 AM GMT
    Emesis54 saidfall in love? is that really a thing?
    I fell down while having sex standing up once. That's "falling in love," right?
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    May 03, 2012 5:10 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Emesis54 saidfall in love? is that really a thing?
    I fell down while having sex standing up once. That's "falling in love," right?


    you need to be more careful. you could poke an eye out.
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    May 03, 2012 5:35 PM GMT
    True love is many things. But I think you have true love when you're not afraid to forgive the person. Or when you stop keeping score.
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    May 03, 2012 5:35 PM GMT
    True love is many things. But I think you have true love when you're not afraid to forgive the person. Or when you stop keeping score.
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    May 03, 2012 5:36 PM GMT
    BlkMuscleGent saidTrue love is many things. But I think you have true love when you're not afraid to forgive the person. Or when you stop keeping score.


    Haha. In my experience the former happens. The latter never does - you just get better at covering it up.icon_wink.gificon_wink.gificon_wink.gificon_wink.gificon_wink.gif
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    May 03, 2012 5:38 PM GMT
    Emesis54 said
    paulflexes said
    Emesis54 saidfall in love? is that really a thing?
    I fell down while having sex standing up once. That's "falling in love," right?


    you need to be more careful. you could poke an eye out.
    ...among other things. icon_wink.gif
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    May 03, 2012 5:40 PM GMT
    fhaynie81 saidWhen you wake up everyday and he is the first thing you think about. Everytime you see him your face lights up immediately. You can't imagine a day going by that you don't hear from him. When you think about his needs before your own needs.


    Thats how it was for me.

    I kinda ached when we left each other everyday for work.