Facebook issues

  • acesguy20

    Posts: 11

    May 02, 2012 4:00 AM GMT
    I have a friend who has been dating this guy for about 6 months and had recently found that his boyfriend has had a few little conversations with a couple guys on facebook that messaged his boyfriend first and all are kinda the same, far hey whats up, exchange how good eachother looks and will even exchange phone numbers and say txt me sometime.

    What exactly does this mean with gay guys when they talk to other guys and do the things like above? Is it to just meet other gay guys for friends or is it really to explore other options while they are in a relationship to have maybe a back up plan?

    Any thoughts or advice please I really dont know how to help my friend out in this situation as this is his first gay relationship. BTW, he's in his early 20's and his boyfriend is in his late 40's, and all the guys hes messaged with are around my friends age.
  • acesguy20

    Posts: 11

    May 02, 2012 4:34 AM GMT
    No help at all?
  • Kobe_Whisky

    Posts: 192

    May 02, 2012 12:37 PM GMT
    that's the gay problem! I guess almost of gay guys have the same problem even me..when people got someone, they dont feel they have it all so they need more...
    that couple should have a talk about that and tell the 40s guy who how 20s guy feeling right now..

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    May 02, 2012 1:06 PM GMT
    Men are horny and will do stuff like that. Unless there's some kind of action I wouldn't worry about it. No guy want to be in a relationship that is like a convent, with Mother Superior looking over his shoulder all the time.
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    May 02, 2012 1:40 PM GMT
    My guess is that while the younger guy is playing on Facebook is old boyfriend is fucking other dudes. They should break up.