May 02, 2012 11:50 AM GMT
I am not into cruising the gym. About three months ago, this guy was taking a cicuit traiing class. I guess he saw me walking on the track. After his class, he came into the stretch area that was on the side of the walking track. So, he left. When I was done, i went into the sauna to relax. Out of nowhere, he came in the sauna. Another time, I was on the treadmill. I noticed that he was in the pool. So, I stop and start walking the track. i did not want this guy to think i was following. After walking the track, I went to the sauna. Again, he chowed up out of nowhere. I thought he was still swimming. So, I started a conversation. We talked about the classes that were going on. He told me to come to the cycling and circuit training classes. And that he would keep an eye out for me. I said sure. I went to the class he asked me did I like I said it was ok. He acts different. I notice when people are watching me but, i am trying to put the pieces to this puzzle. I thought to myself that if this guy is married why do we meet up alot. So, I was like he is showing up too much. So I asked him was he gay. he said no. I am married with three kids and one on the way. I said i was gay. he said he had no problem with people being gay and that his sister was gay. the crazy part is that i went to the steam room and told him that i wasnt being mean and that i did not want him to feel like i was on his coat tail all the time. somebody came in the steam room. so itold him to meet me in the sauna because i cannot take the steam. he came over. he said he was not gay. so , i told him that i notice that he watches me at time. he said that he has so much on his mind that he does not know who he sees at the gym. i was like that is odd. so now he sees me and he gets so uncomfortable. i think he is on the down low. i was concerned that he showed up in the sauna with me a lot of times. it is not that i think he is cute because he is not. what makes him unattractive is his weirdness. can anyone explain?