Hearing str8 friend have sex

  • ROCKperformer

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    May 02, 2012 3:53 PM GMT
    So I've been crushing on this straight friend for a while now and last night was his bday. We all got drunk and celebrated and I crashed on his couch.

    He invited his fuck buddy later that night so I knew he was probly going to be getting some ass. The thought of hearing him having sex kinda turned me on at first. But when it actually happened (the couch was on the same floor as his bedroom, which he left the door open) I got this really bad feeling in my gut. It wasnt a turn on at all, I just got really depressed and I had to leave.

    Whats going on with me? Why wasn't I turned on?
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    May 02, 2012 4:00 PM GMT
    ROCKperformer saidWhats going on with me? Why wasn't I turned on?


    Because you have feelings for him and you were jealous. Not hard to work out.

    Get over it, fast. If he's straight it will not be reciprocated and you'll lose the friendship.
  • dabcrt

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    May 02, 2012 5:59 PM GMT
    By leaving the door open I think he was hoping that you would join themicon_eek.gif
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    May 02, 2012 6:00 PM GMT
    probably because you could hear a girl doin' it too....haha vomit
  • rnch

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    May 02, 2012 6:24 PM GMT
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    ROCKperformer saidWhats going on with me? Why wasn't I turned on?


    Because you have feelings for him and you were jealous. Not hard to work out.

    Get over it, fast. If he's straight it will not be reciprocated and you'll lose the friendship.




    YES.........AND YES.



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    May 02, 2012 7:16 PM GMT
    calguy456 saidprobably because you could hear a girl doin' it too....haha vomit


    This.

    I had a straight roommate who fucked a different girl every night and I couldn't stand just hearing that slap slap slap slap slap. FIND ANOTHER POSITION.

    So in the morning I'd make them breakfast and let them know the were #265 of the year icon_razz.gif
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    May 02, 2012 7:17 PM GMT
    is it bad that i would have asked if they minded if i filmed

    there's something really hot about watching people fuck, regardless of the genders and number of people

    i would have given them the images afterwards as a gift
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    May 02, 2012 7:18 PM GMT
    He left the door open? Why that's an open invitation to scream "GET YOU SOME!!!" at the top of your lungs. icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 02, 2012 7:33 PM GMT
    Video or it didn't happen.
  • Koaa2

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    May 02, 2012 7:55 PM GMT
    Maybe it was an offer from him, to at least have a 3 way. To bad you didn't get naked and stand in the doorway stroking. Maybe they would have invited you in.
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    May 02, 2012 8:07 PM GMT
    He was drunk, he probably didn't realize the door was open.

    The same thing happened with me, but the door was closed. My straight friend who I crushed on realllllly badly was having sex with his girl, and I was on the living room couch. It was actually a good thing because it helped me quickly lose any romantic feelings I had for him, just knowing he was having sex with his girl.
  • rebelbeard

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    May 02, 2012 8:17 PM GMT
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    ROCKperformer saidWhats going on with me? Why wasn't I turned on?


    Because you have feelings for him and you were jealous. Not hard to work out.

    Get over it, fast. If he's straight it will not be reciprocated and you'll lose the friendship.


    Agreed!
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    May 02, 2012 8:54 PM GMT
    I agree with everyone else, this never happened.
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    May 02, 2012 9:51 PM GMT
    ROCKperformer said
    Whats going on with me? Why wasn't I turned on?


    You are 12 and what is this?
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    May 02, 2012 11:10 PM GMT
    Tenebrism saidHe left the door open? Why that's an open invitation to scream "GET YOU SOME!!!" at the top of your lungs. icon_biggrin.gif


    YES!!!!
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    May 02, 2012 11:23 PM GMT
    That sux. Would never happen to me because I would never stay over at a crushes house to begin with....torture device.
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    May 02, 2012 11:27 PM GMT
    ECnAZ saidHe was drunk, he probably didn't realize the door was open.



    More likely he left the door open because he didn't care because none of his straight buds would have cared and became so upset by it to make a thread about it.
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    May 02, 2012 11:30 PM GMT
    Very true, crushing on someone sooooo sucks if you witness these types of behavior. However, one can only blame themselves for putting themselves in a "crush crushing" situation.
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    May 02, 2012 11:32 PM GMT
    ROCKperformer saidSo... I got this really bad feeling in my gut. It wasnt a turn on at all, I just got really depressed and I had to leave.

    Whats going on with me? Why wasn't I turned on?


    Because you were thinking that...



  • Brick_n_Lace

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    May 06, 2012 3:21 AM GMT
    i feel the door open was one of three things
    1. he's an exhibitionist and got off on the idea of you hearing it (which doesnt necessarily mean he wants to have sex with you)
    2. he didnt know and or care that the door was open
    3. he wanted you to know he was 100% hetero
    honestly i suspect the first one. consider that neither of them closed the door. between him AND the girl who gets so drunk they cant close a door b4 sex and there are other less weird and invasive ways to let you know he's hetero. never underestimate the freakiness of heteros...
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    May 06, 2012 3:24 AM GMT
    Get him drunk and hang out. You need another data point.
  • Brick_n_Lace

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    May 06, 2012 3:25 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidGet him drunk and hang out. You need another data point.
    this lol