May 06, 2012 12:55 AM GMT
What can I do to find a guy? I havnt dated in years, and dont seem to be attracting anyone.
Bigsmiles saidCongrats on getting your life on the track you chose! That alone makes you a winner in the dating pool (my opinion)
Volunteer at the community center. Join a Gay or Gay friendly sports team. Don't worry if you can't bowl/swim/play softball. They will embrace you and teach you. It will take some 'out of the box' thinking but get out there and smile.
You deserve it
Trepeat saidHey Mike, glad to hear things are goin well for ya.
Having lived in SLC for a while, I can tell you that the pool of available guys there is staggeringly big. However, I suppose that also makes it a bit tougher to find the right guy who wants to settle into a relationship. My advice for you would be to go live it up! Meet lots of people, have lots of fun, and although this is easier said than done, try not to get too hung up on finding a boyfriend. If you're enjoying the heck out of your life without one, you'll appear a lot more attractive to guys and may inadvertantly stumble into something ideal. It's easy and frustrating to focus on what we want but don't have, so instead just try to appreciate what you got and maximize your enjoyment from life.