May 06, 2012 8:54 PM GMT
I won't linger on the details, but I will say that I had my first threesome experience in a while with my boyfriend this weekend. This time it didn't go so well. I'm not concerned at all about him leaving me or anything like that (we're both very certain that we're in it for the long run), but I must admit that I felt left out. The guy we invited over practically ignored me...the obvious thing to do next is to not invite him again, but I can't help but think that I'm socially inept at these things. I've enjoyed myself in previous threesomes (with the same bf) because they were non-committal and with no strings attached, but this time, it felt like the two of them knew each other already (which they sort of did because they'd both met online and arranged everything while my bf updated me on the status of the whole thing). Another obvious thing for me to do next time is to be more involved in the selection process (which is already a protracted process as it is). I talked to my bf about it, and he's agreed to hold off on any further threesomes until I'm fine with the idea again....but has anyone else experienced something like this? What did you do, and were you turned off from threesomes forever?