7Famark saidHmm, this is how I feel about it...
If you are someone that enjoys sex with multiple different partners frequently, I understand that. I think where that crosses the border into being a "whore" or a "slut" is when you aren't the least bit discriminating when it comes to who your sexual partners are. If you have no standards, or will have sex with anyone as long as it is convenient...I think that is when you become a slut.
But if you are discriminating, and are safe and use the necessary precautions (condoms, etc) then...I guess it is just a life choice.
Discriminating in what regard? As in you'll only have sex with conventionally attractive men? Or you'll only have sex with men after have a conversation with them? Or you'll only have sex with men who like Lady Gaga? What about men who have sex with various because it feels good, but then stop when they find someone with whom they are more emotionally compatible? There are men who can engage in safe sexual behavior and can distinguish between getting off and having an interaction of substance with another person. What about men who have no interpersonal or emotional requirements with regard to selecting a partner, but then date someone because he has a nice body?
I know men who have sex with a lot of people who are much more honest with themselves than men who are holding out for the Ryan Reynolds lookalikes. It's one thing to enjoy sex, and it's another to just engage in risky behavior. The only thing that puts me off is when people aren't being honest about they're doing. If you want dick, then own it. If you're ashamed of wanting dick (not merely that you don't want to talk to everyone within earshot about who you're screwing, but actually ashamed), maybe you should alter your behavior. A persistent disconnect between what one claims to believe and what one does usually results in a type of person I can't readily deal with.