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  • TheBizMan

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    May 07, 2012 10:54 PM GMT
    uhhhh..icon_eek.gif

    If that video is you and your mother.. I don't know your situation but if you can, get out. Go far far away and never look back.
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    May 07, 2012 11:22 PM GMT
    xspirit4musicx said

    family abuse ... anybody else have a bad family?

    drugs.... drugs.... heartlessness .... ?


    it says its private video, can i watch it?
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    May 08, 2012 12:59 AM GMT
    yourname8000 said
    GayBtm83 saidit says its private video, can i watch it?

    It appears he just made it private shortly after posting it.


    guess so...
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    May 08, 2012 1:59 AM GMT
    I'm feeling kind of abused that I cant see this video to give a better response icon_sad.gif
  • araphael

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    May 08, 2012 4:32 AM GMT
    of course many humans come from harsh families and backgrounds
  • aquariumkid

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    May 08, 2012 7:23 AM GMT
    My mom would poison me, my dad and my sisters whenever we told our dad that she was bringing men into the house (she cheated on my dad).

    I learned since, if moms mad, don't eat her cooking... icon_biggrin.gif
  • aquariumkid

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    May 08, 2012 7:26 AM GMT
    But personally my family is great compared to most families, I'm quite lucky! icon_biggrin.gif it was like being raised by a single parent, and my mom was just there for show.Aah she's a crazy Bitch XD
  • rac727

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    May 08, 2012 7:38 AM GMT
    my family used to be quite normal until it just fell apart my dad was an alcoholic and abandoned the family when i was in middle school after my parent's divorce and my mom had to raise me and my older brother and sister by herself and she gradually became a more and more controlling and angry person she would try to control ever aspect of our lives and would verbally and often physically abuse us over the dumbest things eventually my brother and sister moved out and didn't tell her until the day they moved because she would have tried to stop them i was about 13 or 14 when they left and then it was just me and her she is even worse with me then she was with them. i came out to her when i was 18 and she flat out rejected me and now she acts like i never told her. and she never hardly ever lets me go anywhere or do anything i want to save up to move out but she regularly checks my bank account so i can't try anything she made me pay her taxes ($912) and the mortgage ($751) and pay for her car to get fixed ($1,300) i know when you live somewhere you have to pay bills and help out but that's ridiculous! and a couple of days ago i asked her if she would stop looking into my account because its my money she flipped out and hit me in the ribs with a frying i thought my ribs were broken but im just bruised and when i was 17 she shoved me back i fell back onto an open cabinet door and split my head open and i could tell you some stories about all the crazy shit i been through because of her and i want to find a way to get as far away from her as possible someday. the worst part is she is a kindergarten teacher and she is friends with everyone because she's taken care of there kids so no one ever believes us when we tell about her and you have no idea how horrible it hurt s to know how well your mom treats other kids but she treats you like crap. so yes i feel your pain i have a pretty messed up family too! my heart goes out to you i feel your pain. =(
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    May 08, 2012 7:53 AM GMT
    acpreppy saidmy family used to be quite normal until it just fell apart my dad was an alcoholic and abandoned the family when i was in middle school after my parent's divorce and my mom had to raise me and my older brother and sister by herself and she gradually became a more and more controlling and angry person she would try to control ever aspect of our lives and would verbally and often physically abuse us over the dumbest things eventually my brother and sister moved out and didn't tell her until the day they moved because she would have tried to stop them i was about 13 or 14 when they left and then it was just me and her she is even worse with me then she was with them. i came out to her when i was 18 and she flat out rejected me and now she acts like i never told her. and she never hardly ever lets me go anywhere or do anything i want to save up to move out but she regularly checks my bank account so i can't try anything she made me pay her taxes ($912) and the mortgage ($751) and pay for her car to get fixed ($1,300) i know when you live somewhere you have to pay bills and help out but that's ridiculous! and a couple of days ago i asked her if she would stop looking into my account because its my money she flipped out and hit me in the ribs with a frying i thought my ribs were broken but im just bruised and when i was 17 she shoved me back i fell back onto an open cabinet door and split my head open and i could tell you some stories about all the crazy shit i been through because of her and i want to find a way to get as far away from her as possible someday. the worst part is she is a kindergarten teacher and she is friends with everyone because she's taken care of there kids so no one ever believes us when we tell about her and you have no idea how horrible it hurt s to know how well your mom treats other kids but she treats you like crap. so yes i feel your pain i have a pretty messed up family too! my heart goes out to you i feel your pain. =(


    I'm truly sorry it turned out this way, can't imagine the pain..
    Have you tried contacting your brother or sister for help?
    Maybe you can stay with them untill you find a place for yourself?
    I really hope things will turn out for the best.. I think your mom got like that because she was afraid of loosing you guys too (not justifying it) and now that your bro and sis left she got tougher on you because she thinks that's the only way to keep you in her life.. Especially if she's checking every step you make..
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    May 08, 2012 1:25 PM GMT
    There were some evil ones in my family. I haven't quite forgave them but I am learning (or trying) to let them go. My friends have become my family.
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    May 08, 2012 1:59 PM GMT
    JPtheBITCH said
    aquariumkid saidMy mom would poison me, my dad and my sisters whenever we told our dad that she was bringing men into the house (she cheated on my dad).

    I learned since, if moms mad, don't eat her cooking... icon_biggrin.gif

    That is beyond horrible.


    It is beyond believable.
  • aquariumkid

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    May 08, 2012 4:29 PM GMT
    n8698u said
    JPtheBITCH said
    aquariumkid saidMy mom would poison me, my dad and my sisters whenever we told our dad that she was bringing men into the house (she cheated on my dad).

    I learned since, if moms mad, don't eat her cooking... icon_biggrin.gif

    That is beyond horrible.


    It is beyond believable.


    Well I beg to differ. It is not beyond horrible! icon_smile.gif I am lucky enough to have one parents unconditional love! Not many people can say that. When I read acpreppys story, I was shocked! That is in my eyes suffering! To have neither parents unconditional love... icon_sad.gif How can I complain when I have more than someone else? icon_smile.gif
  • rac727

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    May 09, 2012 3:16 AM GMT
    aquariumkid said
    n8698u said
    JPtheBITCH said
    aquariumkid saidMy mom would poison me, my dad and my sisters whenever we told our dad that she was bringing men into the house (she cheated on my dad).

    I learned since, if moms mad, don't eat her cooking... icon_biggrin.gif

    That is beyond horrible.


    It is beyond believable.


    Well I beg to differ. It is not beyond horrible! icon_smile.gif I am lucky enough to have one parents unconditional love! Not many people can say that. When I read acpreppys story, I was shocked! That is in my eyes suffering! To have neither parents unconditional love... icon_sad.gif How can I complain when I have more than someone else? icon_smile.gif


    i appreciate the sympathy and i agree 1 caring parent it is better then none but id rather my mom verbally abuse me and beat then poison me =(
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    May 09, 2012 3:50 AM GMT
    I don't mind hanging my own personal laundry out to dry. Cause things that happen to me outside of my family are one thing; but my family is something else entirely. I don't talk about that shit. I've grown so far from it and better cause of the distance that sometimes it comes across as if it were someone else's memory; or just a really sick thought. Those people don't have any control over me anymore, and I refuse to let anyone else relive any small bit of what I saw growing up.icon_mad.gificon_mad.gificon_mad.gificon_evil.gificon_evil.gificon_evil.gif
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    May 09, 2012 4:03 PM GMT
    Forgiveness is a beautiful thing as it's a part of growing up. My Father left me in place of heroin when I was very young then I ended up addicted to drugs. I could blame him, but wouldn't that partly make me a hypocrite? My Mom hit me a lot, but I was unresponsive to everything else. Seems I came out a man who can live his life on his own, so they didn't fail at parenting AND they gave me a beautiful life. I only wish they could have as beautiful a life now.