what if he doesn't seem to like/respect you?

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    Jul 21, 2008 3:49 PM GMT
    If you are thinking about getting "involved" sexually with someone, but they come off as if they really just want to have sex with you but don't like you that much or don't respect you that much...like they are just using your for "practice" ? As if it were just something for them in a selfish way and you really don't mean that much to them.
    Would you go ahead and have sex with them?
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    Jul 21, 2008 3:58 PM GMT

    Nope. The personality and expression of it is half the hard-on. They could also be into the old emotional-type S&M, which to me is uck uck uck (went out with one back in the 70s - man that guy loved it when you treated him like his feelings were debris)
  • Timbales

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    Jul 21, 2008 4:28 PM GMT
    In my youth, I did more than a few times.
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    Jul 21, 2008 4:50 PM GMT
    A fuck buddy is a fuck buddy. You don't need their respect, just their sweet ass.
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    Jul 21, 2008 5:56 PM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidA fuck buddy is a fuck buddy. You don't need their respect, just their sweet ass.


    and I certainly can appreciate that ! LOL !
    but don't you think a certain amount of respect helps with the pleasure aspect to say the least?
    I mean i'm gonna want to fuck a sweet man more than I am gonna want to fuck someone that's not being nice. LOL.
    Besides, there is more power in being nice and one can gain more power with it.
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    Jul 21, 2008 6:52 PM GMT
    flux33312 said
    Besides, there is more power in being nice and one can gain more power with it.

    THEN WHERE ARE THEY!?!? Maybe I'm too nice I scared them away??????????????
  • GQjock

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    Jul 22, 2008 12:09 AM GMT
    Yeah....

    Then I'd make sure he gets the hell out of my house right after icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 22, 2008 12:13 AM GMT
    flux33312 saidIf you are thinking about getting "involved" sexually with someone, but they come off as if they really just want to have sex with you but don't like you that much or don't respect you that much...like they are just using your for "practice" ? As if it were just something for them in a selfish way and you really don't mean that much to them.
    Would you go ahead and have sex with them?




    Oh, what the hell...besides, two can play that game icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 22, 2008 12:33 AM GMT
    Flux.....

    DON'T do it!!!
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    Jul 22, 2008 4:47 AM GMT
    well it's just a hypothetical situation.
    just for conversation...but i did know a guy many years ago that was that way to me and i never did get with him..and wondered...hmmm...what if i would have. how would that have turned out.