Do white guys find asians attractive?

  • jtz03932

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    May 08, 2012 8:44 PM GMT
    I'm asking because I am on this dating site and no one seems to respond to me, and they either reply once with "thanks" or something like that and become unresponsive after that. I also find alot of people skip me on a gay chatroulette site... unless they're really as old as my dad.
  • TheBizMan

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    May 08, 2012 8:58 PM GMT
    Lol.

    Search function is your best friend. This question has been asked more than enough times and almost always end in a flame war. You have been warned.

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    May 08, 2012 10:10 PM GMT
    Yes, I'm very attracted to Asian men.

    You're young and you've gotta few things to learn. When I first came out, it took me a while to realize that many guys have physical types they prefer. I got rejected by a guy, only to see him later with his very chubby boyfriend. Ditto for another guy with his petite, smooth and dark Mexican boyfriend. I like smooth and darker guys best, and fortunately I've found the feeling is more often then not, mutual.

    I embrace my hairy Caucasian body, and forget about the guys not into my type. Every gay guy should learn this lesson. You should do the same.
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    May 08, 2012 10:30 PM GMT
    How old is your dad? And, is he hot?
    <-- Me gusta Asians.










    ...oops, wrong language. icon_razz.gif

  • May 08, 2012 10:48 PM GMT
    Only old white guys like Asian because they cannot get any young white guys anymore. Learn to live with it.
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    May 08, 2012 11:00 PM GMT
    Thanks!
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    May 08, 2012 11:07 PM GMT
    mrpotatohunter saidOnly old white guys like Asian because they cannot get any young white guys anymore. Learn to live with it.


    You admit in your profile that your boyfriend is a dog, and you don't have a photo of yourself either...so your hate and negativity are directed at yourself and your boyfriend more than anybody else. Good luck to you.
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    May 08, 2012 11:15 PM GMT
    jtz03932 saidI'm asking because I am on this dating site and no one seems to respond to me, and they either reply once with "thanks" or something like that and become unresponsive after that. I also find alot of people skip me on a gay chatroulette site... unless they're really as old as my dad.


    Honest question: Do YOU find Asians attractive?
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    May 09, 2012 1:20 AM GMT
    Sure...do I remind you of your father?
  • jtz03932

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    May 09, 2012 2:09 AM GMT
    MightyMouse87 said
    jtz03932 saidI'm asking because I am on this dating site and no one seems to respond to me, and they either reply once with "thanks" or something like that and become unresponsive after that. I also find alot of people skip me on a gay chatroulette site... unless they're really as old as my dad.


    Honest question: Do YOU find Asians attractive?


    Yes, but I prefer white guys.
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    May 09, 2012 2:12 AM GMT
    jtz03932 said
    MightyMouse87 said
    jtz03932 saidI'm asking because I am on this dating site and no one seems to respond to me, and they either reply once with "thanks" or something like that and become unresponsive after that. I also find alot of people skip me on a gay chatroulette site... unless they're really as old as my dad.


    Honest question: Do YOU find Asians attractive?


    Yes, but I prefer white guys.
    Now I've figured it out.

    It's not that white guys don't like Asian guys -- It's that Asian guys don't recognize white guys when they see them. icon_lol.gif
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    May 09, 2012 2:28 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    jtz03932 said
    MightyMouse87 said
    jtz03932 saidI'm asking because I am on this dating site and no one seems to respond to me, and they either reply once with "thanks" or something like that and become unresponsive after that. I also find alot of people skip me on a gay chatroulette site... unless they're really as old as my dad.


    Honest question: Do YOU find Asians attractive?


    Yes, but I prefer white guys.
    Now I've figured it out.

    It's not that white guys don't like Asian guys -- It's that Asian guys don't recognize white guys when they see them. icon_lol.gif


    Sort of how they don't recognize there's a car beside them before changing lanes sorta thing? icon_twisted.gif
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    May 09, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
    I think white and Asian are both attractive icon_razz.gif
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    May 09, 2012 5:04 AM GMT
    oh yeah definitely. icon_cool.gif
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    May 09, 2012 5:36 AM GMT
    SimpleGuy saidI think white and Asian are both attractive icon_razz.gif


    How about yellow and Asian?

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  • davidsticky69

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    May 09, 2012 3:15 PM GMT
    mrpotatohunter saidOnly old white guys like Asian because they cannot get any young white guys anymore. Learn to live with it.


    How about get out of your narrow, heavily stigmatized social circle once in awhile and see what the world has to offer, yeah? icon_lol.gif

    JUST another "Seriously?!" thread icon_lol.gif
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    May 09, 2012 5:21 PM GMT
    White4DarkerFL saidYes, I'm very attracted to Asian men.

    You're young and you've gotta few things to learn. When I first came out, it took me a while to realize that many guys have physical types they prefer. I got rejected by a guy, only to see him later with his very chubby boyfriend. Ditto for another guy with his petite, smooth and dark Mexican boyfriend. I like smooth and darker guys best, and fortunately I've found the feeling is more often then not, mutual.

    I embrace my hairy Caucasian body, and forget about the guys not into my type. Every gay guy should learn this lesson. You should do the same.


    I've learned that same lesson. However, in practice, it just doesn't work as well with Asian guys, simply because it's a numbers game. If you told a gay Asian guy to just forget about people who aren't into Asians and just focus on the guys that are...unless you're living in a major city in California, that does not leave many men left for the Asian guy to focus on. And the fact of the matter is that many of these guys are men past their prime who are effectively "casting a wider net" they probably would not have cast a few decades prior.

    Your "hairy Caucasian body", though not everyone's type, is still celebrated culturally in the US. You have the luxury of forgetting about guys who aren't into your body type because you most likely have plenty of guys who ARE into your body type. You rarely see "No fats, femmes, or hairy whites" on ads. Hell, there's even a separate Grindr-esque app especially for hairy white guys in the form of Scruff. You see hairy white guys in gay ads, gay porn, gay mags, etc. all the time. Men who find hairy white guys attractive are a dime a dozen - RJ is plenty enough proof of that.

    But you expect an Asian guy to embrace his body when likely the only depiction of Asian men in the US are desexualized eunuchs and anything erotic involving Asian men is probably some iteration of www.AsiansInPain.com? C'mon man, let's be real here...
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    May 09, 2012 5:25 PM GMT
    jtz03932 said
    MightyMouse87 said

    Honest question: Do YOU find Asians attractive?


    Yes, but I prefer white guys.


    Meaning given a choice, you'll only date white guys?
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    May 09, 2012 5:27 PM GMT
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    May 09, 2012 6:43 PM GMT
    Nope, never. Asians are all ugly and undesirable.

    Especially this one:

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    May 09, 2012 6:48 PM GMT
    MightyMouse87 said
    White4DarkerFL saidYes, I'm very attracted to Asian men.

    You're young and you've gotta few things to learn. When I first came out, it took me a while to realize that many guys have physical types they prefer. I got rejected by a guy, only to see him later with his very chubby boyfriend. Ditto for another guy with his petite, smooth and dark Mexican boyfriend. I like smooth and darker guys best, and fortunately I've found the feeling is more often then not, mutual.

    I embrace my hairy Caucasian body, and forget about the guys not into my type. Every gay guy should learn this lesson. You should do the same.


    I've learned that same lesson. However, in practice, it just doesn't work as well with Asian guys, simply because it's a numbers game. If you told a gay Asian guy to just forget about people who aren't into Asians and just focus on the guys that are...unless you're living in a major city in California, that does not leave many men left for the Asian guy to focus on. And the fact of the matter is that many of these guys are men past their prime who are effectively "casting a wider net" they probably would not have cast a few decades prior.

    Your "hairy Caucasian body", though not everyone's type, is still celebrated culturally in the US. You have the luxury of forgetting about guys who aren't into your body type because you most likely have plenty of guys who ARE into your body type. You rarely see "No fats, femmes, or hairy whites" on ads. Hell, there's even a separate Grindr-esque app especially for hairy white guys in the form of Scruff. You see hairy white guys in gay ads, gay porn, gay mags, etc. all the time. Men who find hairy white guys attractive are a dime a dozen - RJ is plenty enough proof of that.

    But you expect an Asian guy to embrace his body when likely the only depiction of Asian men in the US are desexualized eunuchs and anything erotic involving Asian men is probably some iteration of www.AsiansInPain.com? C'mon man, let's be real here...


    I think you make some good points. Especially how Asian men are depicted in the US, it actually really pisses me off. My ex bf is half white(Polish) half Asian(Chinese) and I'd bet these depictions did not help his self esteem growing up or now for that matter.

    And yeah I like Asians.

    Any guy with a nice ass = I'm interested. Unless the rest of them is completely grotesque.
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    May 09, 2012 6:53 PM GMT
    mizzouguy10 said

    I think the honest answer isn't that guys aren't attracted to Asians necessarily, but few Asians match the stereotypical "masculine" ideals..



    I suppose that depends on where you live. I grew up in the SF Bay Area, made frequent trips to LA to visit relatives when I was a kid, and I went to the college just outside of the SF Bay Area. I saw (and lusted after) plenty of Asian American men who were stereotypically masculine.
  • ParkerDLamb

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    May 09, 2012 6:59 PM GMT
    I'm attracted to an array of different guys, and that includes Asians.
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    May 09, 2012 7:13 PM GMT
    mizzouguy10 said

    Well at my college, which is in the middle of the country, 90% of the Asian guys I see are NOT my type at all..


    With the exception of their race, what about them doesn't do it for you, exactly?
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    May 09, 2012 7:34 PM GMT
    I am of Saudi Arab & Indian (both are Asian nations) origin
    so in short i am 100% Asian
    i hardly face troubles with White guys
    they like me just very normally & hardly anyone rejects me & if the case of rejection is me being an Asian then "i Reject them "
    coz God made us all in different forms & someone hating me for my skin ..sorry They dont deserve me ..nah

    rest i get a lot of response from White guys compared to Asians
    maybe your problem is that u dont know how to initiate a conversation ..maybe try being social & general rather asking them for "SEX" or anything sexual

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