I told him im gay. what should i expect?

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 08, 2012 10:27 PM GMT
    told this guy ive been casually talking to that im gay. ive had a slight crush on him but i thought he should know im gay. we talk, text, facebook friends, etc. i see him at the gym at the same time almost everyday. he said its cool and it doesnt bother him and that he doesnt discriminate.

    Are there signs i should look for if hes just pulling my chain? i dont want to over analyze but i cant help it.

    any input any experiences would be awesome. thanks
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 08, 2012 10:34 PM GMT
    I don't have any Xperience in that.
    But I do know crushing on a straight guy leads to anything but good...
    So be carefull on that part..
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 08, 2012 10:36 PM GMT
    sanjose470 saidI told him im gay. what should i expect?
    Sex.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 08, 2012 10:53 PM GMT
    mayBbignow saidWouldnt it be better and easier for you just to straight up tell him you find him fancy?


    i think that would be flattering but i dont know how he would take that. took me a while to get to the point in telling him so im just glad he knows.
    i dont want to mess anything else up when it comes to our friendship so i guess the balls in his court.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 08, 2012 10:57 PM GMT
    You can't tell if he likes you?

    If that was his response, then he's probably not gayr or not interested in you like that.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 08, 2012 11:00 PM GMT
    Roku saidYou can't tell if he likes you?

    If that was his response, then he's probably not gayr or not interested in you like that.


    ya thats what i took away from the conversation. its ok with me but damn i wish it werent
  • barriehomeboy

    Posts: 2475

    May 09, 2012 1:24 AM GMT
    Your balls are dangling in his court now. If he doesn't want to lick them, it's his loss. You have big balls, to tell a str8 guy that you like him like a man likes a woman!

    Sometimes that works out really well.

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 09, 2012 1:41 AM GMT
    daviddoublebay saidThe progression I've noticed is...

    - You say your gay
    - He says he's straight, but he's cool with you being gay
    - You sometimes talk about gay stuff
    - He says he's curious
    - Opens up about his fantasies of being with a guy
    - He says he's always wanted to be fucked
    - The two of you fuck (etc)


    I really hope you're right icon_smile.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 09, 2012 1:42 AM GMT
    daviddoublebay saidThe progression I've noticed is...

    - You say your gay
    - He says he's straight, but he's cool with you being gay
    - You sometimes talk about gay stuff
    - He says he's curious
    - Opens up about his fantasies of being with a guy
    - He says he's always wanted to be fucked
    - The two of you fuck (etc)
    You type too much. My reply took much less finger work for the same answer. icon_razz.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 09, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    daviddoublebay said
    paulflexes said
    daviddoublebay saidThe progression I've noticed is...

    - You say your gay
    - He says he's straight, but he's cool with you being gay
    - You sometimes talk about gay stuff
    - He says he's curious
    - Opens up about his fantasies of being with a guy
    - He says he's always wanted to be fucked
    - The two of you fuck (etc)
    You type too much. My reply took much less finger work for the same answer. icon_razz.gif


    The conclusion was the same... but most guys appreciate a little extra finger work first. icon_lol.gif

    Besides... mine was OH SO MUCH SEXIER. (just because I'm the one who wrote it) icon_cool.gif


    I liked both answers. Same conclusion with more finger action.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 09, 2012 2:21 AM GMT
    My 3 best male friends in all my life are all straight, you never know who will become a good friend or where or when they will come to you.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 09, 2012 3:38 AM GMT
    If he's a good friend to you, then who cares if he's straight or gay! Just forget the crush and keep him as a great friend! It's not always about scoring a hot guy...
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 09, 2012 3:40 AM GMT
    It was difficult cuz I didn't know if I should tell him but after reading a bunch of forum posts I kinda figured he might be into me just from the reactions I get and mainly the way he looks at me. It was a long shot but if I didn't do it I would feel worse then if I told him and he told me he never wanted to talk to me again. This site has helped with my ability to open up. Thanks guys
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 09, 2012 3:46 AM GMT
    MarkRoger saidIf he's a good friend to you, then who cares if he's straight or gay! Just forget the crush and keep him as a great friend! It's not always about scoring a hot guy...


    That's why I told him. I didn't want him finding out another way and I felt it would get me to open up more to him.