trying straightness only because she's out of your league?

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    May 09, 2012 3:29 AM GMT
    I've only ever been with guys, but if I can be turned on by a girl with a perfect body/face/skin, does that make me bi? Me being short and Asian, the only girls that ever hit on me weren’t 10’s, but today I might have gotten an opportunity.

    Yesterday I bought a ton of fabric for a school project, and wanted the store to also do a basic sewing job. I keep getting told that they don't offer that service... until one of their employees - a really attractive french girl - discreetly offered to do it under the table. So I sat her down with the instructions, and had a short conversation where she kept wanting to know more about the project, while my gay self was eager to get on with the rest of my day. If she was hitting on me, I wouldn't have noticed, being generally oblivious to these things.

    Today I picked up the order from the same girl. She went above and beyond with the sewing job, adding a lot of extra work, and asked me to email her with photos of the finished project when it's done. Along with the receipt, she gave me a really friendly note with her name, email address, phone number AND her area of toronto, complete with happy faces and stars. This, from a store that is known for its terrible service, lol.

    I would hate to be bi, with all it's confusions, but so far I seem to attract hotter girls than I do guys even if I'm not attracted to them... right now I'm thinking you'll never know unless you try haha
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    May 09, 2012 3:41 AM GMT
    Fake profile says what?
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    May 09, 2012 3:57 AM GMT
    "edit: don't message me if you're over 30... that's just racist and gross "

    Wow, didn't know age had something to do with racism...
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    May 09, 2012 4:05 AM GMT
    lol why r u guys attacking my profile? Cuz I mentioned "Asian" in my post?
    MarkRoger said"edit: don't message me if you're over 30... that's just racist and gross "

    Wow, didn't know age had something to do with racism...

    It's racist because those 30-65 year olds messaging me wouldn't have done it to a white guy and we all know why. I don't even hv a face pic, geez

    ANYWAYS...
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    May 09, 2012 4:06 AM GMT
    hottop88 saidI've only ever been with guys, but if I can be turned on by a girl with a perfect body/face/skin, does that make me bi?
    No, that makes you desperate.
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    May 09, 2012 4:07 AM GMT
    hottop88 saidlol why r u guys attacking my profile? Cuz I mentioned "Asian" in my post?
    MarkRoger said"edit: don't message me if you're over 30... that's just racist and gross "

    Wow, didn't know age had something to do with racism...

    It's racist because those 30-65 year olds messaging me wouldn't have done it to a white guy and we all know why

    ANYWAYS...


    I don't know why, fill me in please.
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    May 09, 2012 4:07 AM GMT
    BTW, using Ben's picture from Eastboys.com makes you desperate, too.
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    May 09, 2012 4:07 AM GMT
    .....please go play on the other team....I had to accept who I am after way too much pain and effort to read your post and not be real skeptical. I don't think most of us chose our orientation by the "hotness" of the gender we attracted...your post is a mess of stereotypes and bs and a "temporary profile" so you can ask embarrassing questions? Are you even of legal age to be here? ....TROLL..... I hope she gives you VD....
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    May 09, 2012 4:09 AM GMT
    Sporty_g said.....please go play on the other team....I had to accept who I am after way too much pain and effort to read your post and not be real skeptical. I don't think most of us chose our orientation by the "hotness" of the gender we attracted...your post is a mess of stereotypes and bs and a "temporary profile" so you can ask embarrassing questions? Are you even of legal age to be here? ....TROLL..... I hope she gives you VD....
    Don't be so mean. Leave that up to me. I enjoy being mean more than you do. icon_razz.gif
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    May 09, 2012 4:10 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Sporty_g said.....please go play on the other team....I had to accept who I am after way too much pain and effort to read your post and not be real skeptical. I don't think most of us chose our orientation by the "hotness" of the gender we attracted...your post is a mess of stereotypes and bs and a "temporary profile" so you can ask embarrassing questions? Are you even of legal age to be here? ....TROLL..... I hope she gives you VD....
    Don't be so mean. Leave that up to me. I enjoy being mean more than you do. icon_razz.gif



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    May 09, 2012 4:16 AM GMT
    Go for it, if only because you'll have better luck getting some ass as an Asian guy if you chase after chicks rather than chasing gay guys.
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    May 09, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
    @Sportyg: guess you've never heard of bisexuals. It's a sliding scale... I'm probably 90% gay so my standards are lower for guys and higher for girls. The kneejerk troll accusations are also stupid

    paulflexes said
    hottop88 saidI've only ever been with guys, but if I can be turned on by a girl with a perfect body/face/skin, does that make me bi?
    No, that makes you desperate. BTW, using Ben's picture from Eastboys.com makes you desperate, too

    Lol that makes no sense. And even if my pic was fake, how does it make me desperate? I googled Ben from Eastboys, and I look way better than that twink.
    Insecurity seems to be only explanation for this non-sensical hostility.
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    May 09, 2012 2:58 PM GMT
    Go for it. See if it works out. You will never know if you try!
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    May 09, 2012 2:59 PM GMT
    hottop88 said@Sportyg: guess you've never heard of bisexuals. It's a sliding scale... I'm probably 90% gay so my standards are lower for guys and higher for girls. The kneejerk troll accusations are also stupid

    paulflexes said
    hottop88 saidI've only ever been with guys, but if I can be turned on by a girl with a perfect body/face/skin, does that make me bi?
    No, that makes you desperate. BTW, using Ben's picture from Eastboys.com makes you desperate, too

    Lol that makes no sense. And even if my pic was fake, how does it make me desperate? I googled Ben from Eastboys, and I look way better than that twink.
    Insecurity seems to be only explanation for this non-sensical hostility.




    1/ Ironically, insecurity seems to be the only explanation for you using someone's else picture in your profile without any giving any reference to the original owner. Technically, that is identity theft.

    2/ Any race can be good looking and sexy. It is too bad that your downright ignorance, and mistaken "confidence" deals a huge blow to your self-proclaimed "physical appeal"

    3/ Don't get your hope too high. The term "rice queen" is not just limited to the world of gay men only.

    4/ Seriously dude, stop being so vain and pick up the dictionary for once to check the meaning of "racism", yeah?
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    May 09, 2012 3:02 PM GMT
    OY! These troll threads!
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    May 09, 2012 3:08 PM GMT
    Try it. She's not in your social circle, why not?

    I'm a Trysexual. Although I've exclusively been with guys, I would like to know what a pussy feels like before I die, but I'm not willing to invest in leading some girl on an emotional roller coaster because I KNOW I'd rather be with a guy in the end. Plus, it could open up for some fun bisexual swinger parties. Bi guys are hotter than gay guys, so that'd be hot.
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    May 09, 2012 3:24 PM GMT
    You wouldn't be straight. You would be a gay man having sex with a women. That is not straight.
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    May 09, 2012 3:34 PM GMT
    Sporty_g said.....please go play on the other team....I had to accept who I am after way too much pain and effort to read your post and not be real skeptical. I don't think most of us chose our orientation by the "hotness" of the gender we attracted...your post is a mess of stereotypes and bs and a "temporary profile" so you can ask embarrassing questions? Are you even of legal age to be here? ....TROLL..... I hope she gives you VD....

    Gay biphobia is the result of repressed attraction to members of the opposite sex. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    May 09, 2012 3:42 PM GMT
    No. Pussy isn't my favorite flavor.
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    May 09, 2012 3:45 PM GMT
    n8698u saidOY! These troll threads!
    It is to laugh. icon_cool.gif
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    May 10, 2012 1:16 AM GMT
    davidsticky69 said1/ Ironically, insecurity seems to be the only explanation for you using someone's else picture in your profile without any giving any reference to the original owner. Technically, that is identity theft.

    2/ Any race can be good looking and sexy. It is too bad that your downright ignorance, and mistaken "confidence" deals a huge blow to your self-proclaimed "physical appeal"

    3/ Don't get your hope too high. The term "rice queen" is not just limited to the world of gay men only.

    4/ Seriously dude, stop being so vain and pick up the dictionary for once to check the meaning of "racism", yeah?

    1-Plz check the facts before repeating some bitter queen's random attack. Where is this coming from??? If my pic isn't me, I wouldn't need to hide my face lol.

    ANYWAY, my question was can someone who is 90% gay end up with a girl if he find her more attractive than any guy he's been able to attract? I've argued with my friends before over something similar, having previously believed bisexuality is only a transitional stage. Not sure where you're getting that I'm vain, ignorant, or "mistakenly confident". I don't understand this forum sometimes...
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    May 10, 2012 1:49 AM GMT
    mayBbignow said
    hottop88 said
    davidsticky69 said1/ Ironically, insecurity seems to be the only explanation for you using someone's else picture in your profile without any giving any reference to the original owner. Technically, that is identity theft.

    2/ Any race can be good looking and sexy. It is too bad that your downright ignorance, and mistaken "confidence" deals a huge blow to your self-proclaimed "physical appeal"

    3/ Don't get your hope too high. The term "rice queen" is not just limited to the world of gay men only.

    4/ Seriously dude, stop being so vain and pick up the dictionary for once to check the meaning of "racism", yeah?

    1-Plz check the facts before repeating some bitter queen's random attack. Where is this coming from??? If my pic isn't me, I wouldn't need to hide my face lol.

    ANYWAY, my question was can someone who is 90% gay end up with a girl if he find her more attractive than any guy he's been able to attract? I've argued with my friends before over something similar, having previously believed bisexuality is only a transitional stage. Not sure where you're getting that I'm vain, ignorant, or "mistakenly confident". I don't understand this forum sometimes...


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    Who the heck are you? Nostradamus?


    Wait, is this why I'm getting attacked for no reason?? Because I don't have the rep power??

  • May 10, 2012 2:00 AM GMT
    Hahaha I will try not to attack you.

    If you are a cow, you are a herbivore, so you eat grass. If a fly wants to be eaten by you, it doesn't make you an omnivore. If a fly flies into your mouth and you swallow it, it doesn't make you an omnivore.

    The only time you are a omnivore/carnivore is if you actually want to swallow a fly... Then I guess you become a toad...

    I hope you didn't feel attacked =)
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    May 10, 2012 2:06 AM GMT
    mrpotatohunter saidHahaha I will try not to attack you.

    If you are a cow, you are a herbivore, so you eat grass. If a fly wants to be eaten by you, it doesn't make you an omnivore. If a fly flies into your mouth and you swallow it, it doesn't make you an omnivore.

    The only time you are a omnivore/carnivore is if you actually want to swallow a fly... Then I guess you become a toad...

    I hope you didn't feel attacked =)


    This.

    Toad.
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    May 10, 2012 2:30 AM GMT
    Most bisexuals aren't pure 50/50. So if I embrace the 10% of me that likes pussy, that makes me a toad. Brilliant.

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    hottop88 saidWait, is this why I'm getting attacked for no reason?? Because I don't have the rep power??
    No, you're being attacked because your original post comes off as both whiny and vain, and your profile makes you seem very unlikable and full of yourself.


    I was also accused of using fake pics. What was so whiny and vain in the first post? I'm the most self-depreciating person around. I have a feeling all the hostility has everything to do with my preemptive screening of geriatrics and nothing more. Sorry I had to do that, but 90% of my messages on adam4adam are from the over-40 crowd, and its really insulting.