Are we bullies?

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    May 10, 2012 4:25 AM GMT
    So the other day me and 7Fmark got accused by some QWEEN as being bullies.

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2353706/

    I just saw it as a harmless flame war, but it got me thinking as to what is considered bullying on here. I know the mods are pretty lax with the rules. Have you guys ever seen a legit. case of bullying on RJ?

    When is it going to far???

    Have you ever got into a flame war were you felt actually offended or have actually offended someone else?


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    May 10, 2012 4:29 AM GMT
    Having a flame war isn't bullying, even if it's clear that someone is outmatched. By my own personal definition, the people who go out of their way to harass someone every time they post on any topic are cyber-bullying. Even if the person they are harassing is a total tool, their idiotic behavior is more annoying.
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    May 10, 2012 4:32 AM GMT
    All anyone has to do is hit the ignore his post button or get off the computer or get off of this site if they REALLY feel threatened or whatever by a person.

    It would be a different story if the people involved were in the same town as the other person or if they knew things about them (where they live etc...)

    I dont get offended as much as I get annoyed by some of the dumb that tries to pass for fact around the boards but luckily I am not the only one who reads it and rolls his eyes.

    I don't think I have offended anyone but if I have all they have to do is hit the ignore button.
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    May 10, 2012 4:33 AM GMT
    Well from what I've seen on here, no one really bullies anyone. Just harmless flame wars for comments that are, let's face it, begging for it.

    When I start to see death threats from members or demanding they leave the site or something along those lines then I'll get concerned.
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    May 10, 2012 4:33 AM GMT
    Bullies? No.

    Sometimes a bit on the extreme? Yes.

    Most of us are.

    And I'll be the first to admit that I am too, sometimes.

    But please understand that flame wars are not always harmless. They are typed/written words, which statistically bare more emotional impact that spoken words. They can and do induce physical violence to occur.

    If all else fails, just remember this phrase: "Sticks and stones can break my bones, but words can fucking kill me."
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    May 10, 2012 4:34 AM GMT
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    May 10, 2012 4:42 AM GMT
    Everyone has their own opinion about everything, the way we look, how we act, what we say, what we choose to do, etc. Some choose to respond, others don't but when they do have something to say 80% of the time it's rude. So yes, I think we can be bullies but not all the time.
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    May 10, 2012 4:43 AM GMT
    GayBtm83 saidEveryone has their own opinion about everything, the way we look, how we act, what we say, what we choose to do, etc. Some choose to respond, others don't but when they do have something to say 80% of the time it's rude. So yes, I think we can be bullies but not all the time.



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    May 10, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
    Claystation saidAll anyone has to do is hit the ignore his post button or get off the computer or get off of this site if they REALLY feel threatened or whatever by a person.

    It would be a different story if the people involved were in the same town as the other person or if they knew things about them (where they live etc...)

    I dont get offended as much as I get annoyed by some of the dumb that tries to pass for fact around the boards but luckily I am not the only one who reads it and rolls his eyes.

    I don't think I have offended anyone but if I have all they have to do is hit the ignore button.


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    I do find the amount of guys (adults) resorting to calling other guys bullies, rather amusing, particularly when most of the time its because someone doesn't agree with their ridiculous unfounded logic.
    I mean how do some of these men cope in the real world?
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    May 10, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
    GayBtm83 saidEveryone has their own opinion about everything, the way we look, how we act, what we say, what we choose to do, etc. Some choose to respond, others don't but when they do have something to say 80% of the time it's rude. So yes, I think we can be bullies but not all the time.


    Being rude isn't bullying. Bullying is an over-used buzz-word at this point.
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    May 10, 2012 4:46 AM GMT
    ozondamove saidI mean how do some of these men cope in the real world?


    I'm guessing they don't.
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    May 10, 2012 4:47 AM GMT
    I use to let it bother me, but now I hit the ignore button and move on. I enjoy my life, why let someone else bring it down?icon_cool.gif
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    May 10, 2012 4:49 AM GMT
    Sustenance saidI use to let it bother me, but now I hit the ignore button and move on. I enjoy my life, why let someone else bring it down?icon_cool.gif


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    And did you really get attacked????
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    May 10, 2012 4:50 AM GMT
    It's called cyberbullying, but personally I don't think that was the case...
    Cyberbullying is bullying a child, preteen or a teenager, he's 28y old so my answer is no, that was far from bullying..

    I just believe (although it was entertaining at first icon_twisted.gif ) that you have to know when to stop.. Like paul said ''sticks and stones..''
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    May 10, 2012 4:51 AM GMT
    Sustenance saidI use to let it bother me, but now I hit the ignore button and move on. I enjoy my life, why let someone else bring it down?icon_cool.gif
    Fuck the ignore button. I kinda enjoy reading flame wars. icon_lol.gif
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    May 10, 2012 4:52 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidIf-you-can_t-stand.jpg
    If you can't stand the kitchen, get out of the heat.
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    May 10, 2012 4:59 AM GMT

    If you can't stand the kitchen, apply heat. (gasoline n matches work well).

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    May 10, 2012 5:01 AM GMT
    if you can't stand the heat just take a few steps back..
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    May 10, 2012 5:10 AM GMT
    You know what they say....

    If you can't stand the heat, it's time to go deer hunting.....
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    May 10, 2012 5:16 AM GMT
    I've probably offended some people unintentionally (well, maybe one or two intentionally), but I've never been offended enough to block someone. I don't really get the point, unless you're constantly being bothered by someone.
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    May 10, 2012 5:17 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    GayBtm83 saidEveryone has their own opinion about everything, the way we look, how we act, what we say, what we choose to do, etc. Some choose to respond, others don't but when they do have something to say 80% of the time it's rude. So yes, I think we can be bullies but not all the time.



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    lol
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    May 10, 2012 5:18 AM GMT
    Now this guy is a bully, a damn monster.

    www.realjock.com/DudeInNOVA
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    May 10, 2012 5:26 AM GMT
    Claystation saidNow this guy is a bully, a damn monster.

    www.realjock.com/DudeInNOVA


    Everyone should block that asshole immediately! icon_mad.gif
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    May 10, 2012 5:28 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    Sustenance saidI use to let it bother me, but now I hit the ignore button and move on. I enjoy my life, why let someone else bring it down?icon_cool.gif


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    And did you really get attacked????



    Now you've probably been blocked.
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    May 10, 2012 5:29 AM GMT
    No, we're not bullies.

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