Chinese Gay wants foreigners for MONEY

  • bukuroshi

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    May 10, 2012 9:21 AM GMT
    If you live in China for long time, you will finger out something what is very common for Chinese. They do almost the best to have a relationship with a foreigner, mostly white face. Different reasons.
    1. They want to practise English with them.
    2 They want to show others "Lots of Chinese gay (as normal Chinese) think foreigners are rich and they have lots of money". In this way they are happy because they found a place for beign treated well as a normal Chinese bf can't do that.

    So, be careful if you're moving to China for long time.
    Thanks .icon_biggrin.gifCOLORED TEXT GOES HERECOLORED TEXT GOES HERERESIZED TEXT GOES HERE
  • Bunjamon

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    May 10, 2012 11:29 AM GMT
    Having lived in China for quite a while, I can say that Chinese dating foreigners to seem cooler or have access to a more lavish lifestyle is not just reserved for gay couples; straight woman (and men too, often times) are looking for a foreign boyfriend/girlfriend for the same reason.

    And EVERYONE always wants to practice their English with you, even if your English is horrible. I had friends who didn't speak English well at all (Russian, French, Italian) but because they're white, everyone wanted to speak to them in English. If you're white and just happened to take English in high school, it's easier for you to get a job as an English teacher than an American-born Asian person because, as many Chinese say, you don't look like you should be able to speak English.

    How's THAT for weird?

    But, in all fairness, not EVERYONE is doing that, and a lot of my friends are in meaningful, mature relationships with people in China and many of them have gotten married and had kids, despite societal and family pressure NOT to do that. So, I guess the moral of the story is, which actually applies to everyone, is "don't be a fool." icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 10, 2012 2:34 PM GMT
    bukuroshi saidIf you live in China for long time, you will finger out something what is very common for Chinese. They do almost the best to have a relationship with a foreigner, mostly white face. Different reasons.
    1. They want to practise English with them.
    2 They want to show others "Lots of Chinese gay (as normal Chinese) think foreigners are rich and they have lots of money". In this way they are happy because they found a place for beign treated well as a normal Chinese bf can't do that.

    So, be careful if you're moving to China for long time.
    Thanks .icon_biggrin.gifCOLORED TEXT GOES HERECOLORED TEXT GOES HERERESIZED TEXT GOES HERE


    hahaha freudian slip
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    May 10, 2012 3:19 PM GMT
    Users exist all over the world and in all segments of societies, not just in China and the gay community. As long as people allow themselves to be used, users will continue to exist.
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    May 10, 2012 3:23 PM GMT
    Honestly saying :
    Asian gays are horrendous cheaters
    all they do is play ,fuck & do everything
    at the end marry a girl & fuck around on gay websites being closted & cant be monogamous to their partners

    Being Gay is a like a disease most guys wanna get rid off in society
    i wasted my time in asians ..sorry i am an Asian too , call me a racist or anything i wont date an Asian ever until i find someone like me !
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    May 10, 2012 3:26 PM GMT
    I prefer the white-washed asians who grew up in the west.....

    so much more tolerable....and they're not freaking out about random numbers and like having an "8" or something in their phone number or address.... or something tacky like that that signifies gold...??

    and be Asian and be yourself. Why do people have to define themselves and who they are based on ethnicity?
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    May 10, 2012 3:50 PM GMT
    Import saidWhy do people have to define themselves and who they are based on ethnicity?


    For the same reason(s) you prefer white-washed Asians. Ethnicity, to me, is a combination of genetics and culture. You identify with Western culture, and if for some reason, you were thrust into a non-Westernized country, you would probably still identify yourself as a Westerner.

    My parents were born and raised in the Philippines, but my brother and I were born and raised here in the US. And while I do identify first and foremost as American, having been raised by parents who grew up in a different country, I've had certain cultural quirks instilled in me that are unique to Philippine culture. I don't let these quirks define me any more than I let my sexuality define me, but they are still very much fundamental parts of me that I simply cannot just let go of on a whim.
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    May 10, 2012 5:16 PM GMT
    I'd rather have a Japanese. They make better sushi. icon_cool.gif
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    May 10, 2012 5:30 PM GMT
    3. maybe he loves him?
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    May 11, 2012 1:18 AM GMT
    Sam_u_el saidHonestly saying :
    Asian gays are horrendous cheaters
    all they do is play ,fuck & do everything
    at the end marry a girl & fuck around on gay websites being closted & cant be monogamous to their partners

    Being Gay is a like a disease most guys wanna get rid off in society
    i wasted my time in asians ..sorry i am an Asian too , call me a racist or anything i wont date an Asian ever until i find someone like me !


    ...seems like nobody likes asians here, not even asians...I guess I will stick to europe instead of usa.
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    May 11, 2012 1:48 AM GMT
    timbers said
    ...seems like nobody likes asians here, not even asians...I guess I will stick to europe instead of usa.


    Your perceptiveness impresses me.
  • araphael

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    May 11, 2012 5:25 AM GMT
    bukuroshi saidIf you live in China for long time, you will finger out something what is very common for Chinese. They do almost the best to have a relationship with a foreigner, mostly white face. Different reasons.
    1. They want to practise English with them.
    2 They want to show others "Lots of Chinese gay (as normal Chinese) think foreigners are rich and they have lots of money". In this way they are happy because they found a place for beign treated well as a normal Chinese bf can't do that.

    So, be careful if you're moving to China for long time.
    Thanks .icon_biggrin.gifCOLORED TEXT GOES HERECOLORED TEXT GOES HERERESIZED TEXT GOES HERE


    I hear mixed messages here in your post about the Chinese. Fascinating.
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    May 11, 2012 5:33 AM GMT
    Dagomir said3. maybe he loves him?
    +1 I admit that some chinese are like that, but not ALL ASIAN.
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    May 11, 2012 4:13 PM GMT
    timbers said
    Sam_u_el saidHonestly saying :
    Asian gays are horrendous cheaters
    all they do is play ,fuck & do everything
    at the end marry a girl & fuck around on gay websites being closted & cant be monogamous to their partners

    Being Gay is a like a disease most guys wanna get rid off in society
    i wasted my time in asians ..sorry i am an Asian too , call me a racist or anything i wont date an Asian ever until i find someone like me !


    ...seems like nobody likes asians here, not even asians...I guess I will stick to europe instead of usa.


    Ever heard of the term "self-hatjng gays"? Or "internalized racism"?

    Samuel or whatever the fuck his name is probably has a profile on grindr "looking for friends but will not respond to Asians".

    Don't get caught up in other people's baggage man.

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    May 11, 2012 4:17 PM GMT
    This made me raff out roud rong time
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    May 11, 2012 4:36 PM GMT
    Claystation saidThis made me raff out roud rong time


    ┬┐Que?
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    May 14, 2012 12:19 PM GMT
    calf said
    timbers said
    ...seems like nobody likes asians here, not even asians...I guess I will stick to europe instead of usa.


    Your perceptiveness impresses me.


    And the flip side of the equation is that guys who do like Asian guys ... are accused of fetishizing them and get called "rice queens".
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    May 14, 2012 12:28 PM GMT
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    Seems we need a class on how to do the above after seeing this post and one other this morning.icon_wink.gif

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  • bukuroshi

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    Jun 16, 2012 12:18 PM GMT
    This is not only for Gay people, but normally for random Chinese people. When they see a foreigner and they think, a Bank is in front of them. If you see Chinese forums or other webs, they just want to know foreigners.
    Want to speak in English with them even your English it's terrible and they just know some words then they think them English is great.
    They wanna you to pay for anything and just treat you like a trophy to the others.
    In Chinese is a word "Tai mei su zhi"
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    Jun 16, 2012 12:26 PM GMT
    Say whaaaaat!?!?
  • 2pusosl

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    Jul 04, 2012 3:44 AM GMT
    bukuroshi said(too many to quote)

    If you're going to write a racist post for all to see, have the decency to edit your post so that it makes sense!
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    Jul 04, 2012 5:47 AM GMT
    Sam_u_el saidHonestly saying :
    Asian gays are horrendous cheaters
    all they do is play ,fuck & do everything
    at the end marry a girl & fuck around on gay websites being closted & cant be monogamous to their partners


    Wow, I didn't know these things about myself. Thanks for the heads up.
  • Buddha

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    Jul 04, 2012 5:57 AM GMT
    Sam_u_el saidHonestly saying :
    Asian gays are horrendous cheaters
    all they do is play ,fuck & do everything
    at the end marry a girl & fuck around on gay websites being closted & cant be monogamous to their partners

    Being Gay is a like a disease most guys wanna get rid off in society
    i wasted my time in asians ..sorry i am an Asian too , call me a racist or anything i wont date an Asian ever until i find someone like me !


    I don't remember which part of Asia you're from, but weren't you something like Arab/Indian/whatever? The Arab culture, the Indian culture and East Asian culture are vastly different; even the subculture in India can be extremely different (compare North East India with ex-head hunters to South of India with animal-loving vegetarians).

    I don't understand why you always feel the need to make sweeping and generalizing comments about the "whole Asian population". It's as if I based my whole perception of America based on someone who a guy I talked to once from Paraguay.

    It feels redundant to even say something like this, because it feels so extremely obvious.

    I mean honestly, yes, when people make threads "WAI PPL H8 AZN??", it's usually wrongly denoted since it mostly wants confirmation about East Asians (even though we're in the same date-boat really); but I understand this from the context so I'm the only Indian among all the East Asians going "Yah it totally sucks!! But we're bros, fuck da system!".
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    Jul 04, 2012 5:58 AM GMT
    Asians are so cute
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    Jul 04, 2012 6:09 AM GMT
    zer0 said

    Wow, I didn't know these things about myself. Thanks for the heads up.


    Yep there's always someone who'll know you better than you know yourself..
    I dealth with that on a daily basis in high school.. Good times...icon_rolleyes.gif