Art_Deco saidThe RJ relaxation lounge: Post what makes you comfy when you're lonely
I had to go through this for 5 days, and so did my partner. He was an emergency admit to a hospital.
So we both had to sleep alone. And it wasn't comfy. But it made the conservaposse here happy, who sent me hate mail to make it worse.
So, OK, how did I make my partner comfy when he was lonely. I got him a Teddy Bear, which he loves. (He's got over 100 of them) Plus flowers and lots of cards (I gave him many, not just one) And I was at his hospital bedside over 12 hours a day.
I made sure all his meals were what he wanted, even tasting them. I am totally OCD when ti comes to his care. I have the legal authority, and I exercise it.
But I was lonely when I had to go to bed without him. I slept poorly, I need him next to me, which he is now. I know the conservaposse here is mocking me for this, but I love my partner. But I cannot sleep well without him, despite conservaposse ridicule of us here.
that's such a nice experience to share with us. thanks art!!! I missed you on the RJ forums btw.
Thank YOU! I was mostly at the hospital all day, that had a filter against RJ! Can you imagine that?
But it was a Catholic hospital, Holy Cross. We didn't want to go there, but the EMT told us their protocols for a stroke patient required them to go to the nearest hospital (our own regular hospital was only 1/4 mile further away), and they said this Catholic hospital was a stroke center.
I challenged both those assertions, but I wasn't in charge. So my partner went to a Catholic hospital where RJ cannot be accessed from their Wi-Fi, it being gay and banned. Hence I've not been online here a lot, from last Sunday to Thursday, the Catholics blocking me.
But he's home now, and I'm at my regular computer, much to the dismay of the conservaposse. I'm keeping them blocked, so my husband can't see their hate directed against us, which would stress him at the worst time for him.