I want to not be into guys anymore

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    May 13, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
    I want to not be sexually attracted to anything actually. I want to be asexual and bud like a sponge so that I can avoid all the BS that comes with flirting, hooking up, etc. Who's with me? Should I get into a relationship with God?
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    May 13, 2012 2:25 AM GMT
    God will make the gay go away
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    May 13, 2012 2:33 AM GMT
    Sounds lonely. No thanks. icon_neutral.gif
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    May 13, 2012 2:33 AM GMT
    Since God is presumable male, if you get into a relationship with him, that technically makes you gay.
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    May 13, 2012 2:41 AM GMT
    MightyMouse87 saidSince God is presumable male, if you get into a relationship with him, that technically makes you gay.


    He's also three things in one, so you'd be in a polygamous relationship
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    May 13, 2012 2:41 AM GMT
    I think if a higher power gave birth to us its most likely either genderless or female ;)
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    May 13, 2012 2:55 AM GMT
    wannaseeit saidsnip.... Should I get into a relationship with God?
    Have fun trying to get a hug from him when you need one.
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    May 13, 2012 3:03 AM GMT
    You are who you are. Get used to it. Learn to love yourself.
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    May 13, 2012 3:07 AM GMT
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    May 13, 2012 3:14 AM GMT
    Young man, please don't do yourself the harm that comes from trying to be other than what you naturally are. I went down that road thinking marrying would 'change me' from who I was. I'm a product of the 50's and of its errors in thinking, we've all learned so much since then and I moved on, so don't retry whats been tried and failed. No sense in re-inventing the wheel.
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    May 13, 2012 3:31 AM GMT
    Emo thread is emo. icon_neutral.gif
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    May 13, 2012 3:33 AM GMT
    Eh, you'll be over this in a month.
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    May 13, 2012 3:33 AM GMT
    rendon saidMonk.jpg


    Good shoulders on him. I bet he bottoms nicely, too... all that zen training might mean he can take a hella hard pounding and not whimper.


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    May 13, 2012 3:34 AM GMT
    It sounds miserable, and depressing,
    True, there is a lot of pain, hurt, drama, and issues that come with sex/sexuality/attraction

    But when you find that one person, that right guy, and you fall head over heels for him and he feels the same. Nothing can describe the intense love, heat and passion that come from it. The feeling is undescriable. icon_surprised.gif

    Dont deny your sexuality/sexual attraction or anything of that nature.
    It will only eat you up inside. Especially when those around you are feeling it and have it and you are sitting there without.

    Just be smart, learn when to open up, and wait, it will happen and you will be like "Damn, i remember when I wrote a thread on RJ" lol

    Hang in there, dont miss out on something great
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    May 13, 2012 3:38 AM GMT
    Part of life is risk of failure and the emotional pain that goes with it. That doesn't matter if you are talking about a sporting endeavour or a relationship. ust saying you don't want to be attracted to anyhting so you can avoid having to make any emotional commitment to anyone or put your feelings out there and possibly be hurt is not only not healthy, it is cowardly. You are denying yourself the opportunity to know and expereince Love (with a capitol "L"), even if it only for a few months or years.
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    May 13, 2012 3:41 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidYou are who you are. Get used to it. Learn to love yourself.


    +!

    Be honest, open, courteous - and the rest will come about as well as it does for anyone. No one has it 100% - that's life. But by and large, people will treat you well if you do the same for them.
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    May 13, 2012 3:44 AM GMT
    AlphaTrigger said
    rendon saidMonk.jpg


    Good shoulders on him. I bet he bottoms nicely, too... all that zen training might mean he can take a hella hard pounding and not whimper.


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    i don't think Buddhists believe in hell.
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    May 13, 2012 3:47 AM GMT
    Okay... whatever makes you happy. More for me! Thanks. God loves me just the way he made me. It's so many of those religious nuts packed into some of those churches that will make you hate yourself. Remember, "Jesus died for everyone and all sins". Try splitting that hair. It's the Word Of GOD.
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    May 13, 2012 3:48 AM GMT
    You're 22. I think you need some therapy. Seriously.
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    May 13, 2012 3:49 AM GMT
    vintovka said
    AlphaTrigger said
    rendon said{sexy buddhist monk}


    Good shoulders on him. I bet he bottoms nicely, too... all that zen training might mean he can take a hella hard pounding and not whimper.


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    i don't think Buddhists believe in hell.


    Depending upon the particular flavour of Buddhism, there are as many as 16 hells.

    Dante Alighieri is totally jelly.
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    May 13, 2012 3:50 AM GMT
    Are you sure.....Are you SURE you don't wanna be into guys anymore?

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    May 13, 2012 3:51 AM GMT
    TheBizMan saidAre you sure.....Are you SURE you don't wanna be into guys anymore?

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    Now I want a guy, and a dog. Thanks. icon_evil.gif
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    May 13, 2012 3:52 AM GMT
    Might I suggest a Catholic monastery. You'll be in good company...on many levels.
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    May 13, 2012 3:53 AM GMT
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    May 13, 2012 3:53 AM GMT
    wannaseeit saidI want to not be sexually attracted to anything actually. I want to be asexual and bud like a sponge so that I can avoid all the BS that comes with flirting, hooking up, etc. Who's with me? Should I get into a relationship with God?


    Couldn't agree more. Then I remember how much of life I would be missing out on writing off that portion of human intimacy, and I snap out of it. Life can be very confusing, then it ends. Don't let the negativity you've experience dictate your future endeavors. I'm kinda drunk, sooooooo AWWWWWWW YEAHHHHHHHH