Used for sex?

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    May 13, 2012 4:03 AM GMT
    I was taken advantage of and I was wondering anyone eles has... cause it's kinda obnoxious.
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    May 13, 2012 5:04 AM GMT
    everyone has, get used to it in this society
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    May 13, 2012 5:05 AM GMT
    Impolish saideveryone has, get used to it in this society


    Wait, are you Polish?
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    May 13, 2012 5:11 AM GMT
    jack228 said
    Impolish saideveryone has, get used to it in this society


    Wait, are you Polish?



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    May 13, 2012 5:59 PM GMT
    Heartbreakguy3000 saidI was taken advantage of and I was wondering anyone eles has... cause it's kinda obnoxious.


    Those dirty bastards, you should forward all my contact info to them so I can "straighten" them out....
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    May 13, 2012 9:27 PM GMT
    Heartbreakguy3000 saidI was taken advantage of and I was wondering anyone eles has... cause it's kinda obnoxious.


    I don't understand the question.

    You could be talking of rape, but rape isn't "obnoxious", it's downright evil

    You could be talking about a situation where two consenting adults had a good time. But then how do you decide who got used? The other guy could be feeling as used as you are.

    You could be talking about a situation in which the guy led you to believe that if you agreed to have sex with him, there would be some kind of future together. Is this the case? I just need to be clear...
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    May 13, 2012 10:08 PM GMT
    Better than getting used and NOT getting sex...

    You're investing too much of yourself at an age when most of your peers aren't going to to be ready for a real relationship. You're just setting yourself up for more heartbreak... and apparently you are wallowing in it, given your user name and other posts.

    Seriously, get out and explore life. There'll be time for more permanent relationships later.

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    May 13, 2012 11:21 PM GMT
    Be grateful.
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    May 15, 2012 5:52 AM GMT
    Well, first...

    How was it?

    If it was so good you want it again, talk to him

    Respond, so maybe i can give you better advice!
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    May 15, 2012 2:13 PM GMT
    I wish I got used for sex... I get friend-zoned so freaking fast sometimes haha.
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    May 15, 2012 2:52 PM GMT
    Larkin saidI wish I got used for sex... I get friend-zoned so freaking fast sometimes haha.


    I´d use you for sex xx
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    May 15, 2012 6:43 PM GMT
    Admit it, it was "kinda obnoxious" but you "kinda liked it." If you didn't, you wouldn't be posting. If he took advantage of you BB or physically harmed you in any way, that's a different story. If that's the case, you should kill the bastard.
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    May 16, 2012 4:22 AM GMT
    DOMINUS saidAdmit it, it was "kinda obnoxious" but you "kinda liked it." If you didn't, you wouldn't be posting. If he took advantage of you BB or physically harmed you in any way, that's a different story. If that's the case, you should kill the bastard.


    Dom... not everyone "likes" being used for sex...

    you're a top, so naturally, you won't even think about whether the bottom you're fucking is emotionally torn or not about bottoming. You just got pleasured from his sweet hole and that's all you care about "in the spur of the moment"...

    after that, you go on and do your business... but he has to make sure he is still functioning well..

    It hurts more if he finds out that the top isn't there for support...

    I wouldn't expect you to know because you've never bottomed... and that came out of your mouth.

  • mikeylikes

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    May 16, 2012 4:26 AM GMT
    if it helps, consider the perspective of your straight male friend.. it might not help you but i find it reassuring.

    "you get to fuck someone you find attractive after spending no money or time on them? and then you aren't obligated to do anything else? i wish i had your problems"
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    May 16, 2012 4:30 AM GMT
    mikeylikes saidif it helps, consider the perspective of your straight male friend.. it might not help you but i find it reassuring.

    "you get to fuck someone you find attractive after spending no money or time on them? and then you aren't obligated to do anything else? i wish i had your problems"


    ok, so we're looking at this from a pure, animalistic point of view here now?

    No emotions whatsoever?

    Because we are more complex than just fucking animals... yes I agree... the easier it is to have sex the better... so for our straight male friends, I feel for them... but then again.... the receiver needs the reassurance of support.
    And that is completely based off of evolution.

    If the guy who is bottoming enjoys bottoming because he takes on the role of a woman - i.e: psychological stimulation as a bottom... then there may be a correlation between that pleasure and the after-effects of bottoming.

    TOO LONG DIDN'T READ VERSION:

    Bottoms are "generally" more emotional than tops because of their "role" in bed so they expect to be comforted or "cuddled" with after or they feel used.

    That's just the way it is... I'm taking sexual psychology for the sole purpose of trying to find a treatment for this.
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    May 16, 2012 4:34 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidBe grateful.


    this...
  • Jordanpcoops

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    May 18, 2012 10:17 PM GMT
    Heartbreakguy3000 saidI was taken advantage of and I was wondering anyone eles has... cause it's kinda obnoxious.


    Iv been used one to many times :-(