notadumbjock saidnah, i just wna be with a guy i think's the hottest and who thinks i'm the hottest.
Nice sentiment, and very wise.
A few times in my life I've found myself with the hottest guy in the room (or gay club), and the experience was both wonderful and weird. "Be careful what you wish for.." as the saying goes, it's not always what you expect.
I'd be proud of him, and smug with myself that I had bagged the pick of the litter over all the other guys, watching their envious glances. But also fearful I wasn't in his league, that I wouldn't be able to hold his interest when he could have much better than me. And then there was the competition from other guys, which was very real, though comical at times in their often clumsy attempts to steal him away, but still a threat I had to watch constantly.
On balance, since I've never been the hottest guy in the room myself, I'm better off paired with another not-so-hot guy like me. We're both grateful to have the attention from the other (in accordance with Benjamin Franklin's advice to romance older women), and nobody's likely to try some poaching on us.