What are your requirements to date a guy? what makes him *Hot in your eyes?

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    May 13, 2012 7:00 PM GMT
    I'm asking this question because I think all single guys can learn from one another and maybe learn to low or raise our standards? icon_wink.gif. I realized that being a little older now, I have realistic expectations when it comes to dating/meeting new people. Some of my requirements are: negative, funny, cool, kind, loyal, not too tall, not too short, oh I just get really giddy if he has a dimple or a nice smile. Accents are hot, too. icon_cool.gif! And definitely be *Out please! What are your requirements!
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    May 14, 2012 1:42 AM GMT
    I see it this way:

    A lot of people can be physically attractive.

    I find very very very few people intriguing, though.
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    May 14, 2012 1:47 AM GMT
    My checklist:
    Athletic
    Goofy
    Nice
    Short hair
    Cute face

    The most important thing though it that our personalities go well together. There are plenty of hot guys out there, I want one who I can spend a day with hiking, rock climbing, bowling, or doing sme sort of activity and have a genuinely fun time.
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    May 14, 2012 1:51 AM GMT
    Soulasphyxi saidI see it this way:

    A lot of people can be physically attractive.

    I find very very very few people intriguing, though.


    This I suppose. I'm looking for that guy bigger/stronger than me where the personalities just click, I suppose.
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    May 14, 2012 2:17 AM GMT
    Silly
    Funny
    Smart
    Anyone who I can act stupid with and be myself
    And outgoing don't like lazy bums!
    50% on looks as well lol
  • Karl

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    May 14, 2012 2:19 AM GMT
    Funny
    Know how to keep a conversation
    Looks ok.
    if he's bearded , it's awesome lol lol lol icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    May 14, 2012 2:21 AM GMT
    Soulasphyxi saidI see it this way:

    A lot of people can be physically attractive.

    I find very very very few people intriguing, though.


    + the total sum or everything added together.
  • prototype

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    May 14, 2012 2:21 AM GMT
    If we can talk for more than five minutes then you've got my interest!
  • masculumpedes

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    May 14, 2012 2:25 AM GMT
    The ability to do this:

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    May 14, 2012 2:26 AM GMT
    Complimentary personality wise
    Athletic / In-Shape
    Less shy than me, is able to challenge me
    Enjoys doing some of the same activities I do / Will introduce me to new ones..
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    May 14, 2012 2:31 AM GMT
    Blond, blue eyes, SHORT, nice teeth smile, good body, smart, sense of humor. Virginal, young, and naive are pluses!
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    May 14, 2012 2:45 AM GMT
    Dog lover
    Good teeth
    Masculine
    Fit
    Funny
    And a pro cuddler ;)
    MSG me if that's you haha!
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    May 14, 2012 3:05 AM GMT
    swimguychicago saidBlond, blue eyes, SHORT, nice teeth smile, good body, smart, sense of humor. Virginal, young, and naive are pluses!


    Hehehe might be hard on the virginal part !! icon_wink.gif
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    May 14, 2012 3:11 AM GMT
    overall athletic to muscular appearance and facial structure will catch my attention but his personality, in the end, will determine if i find him attractive enough to date as opposed to just eye-candy.

    Today, for example, at work we had a group of seven real lookers come in to drive the karts and they were asking me all kinds of questions about cornering and braking and they were so polite and nice the whole time i was explaining to them about racing lines, whereas usually guys who look like that treat me like, well, a "little fag." I kept sneaking looks at them the whole time they were in the grid gearing up and if i weren't at work i might've actually struck up a conversation with one or two.
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    May 14, 2012 5:09 AM GMT
    Cute Smile
    Goofy
    Humble
    Able to get that I say stupid shit sometime but I never meant it.
    Commitment
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    May 14, 2012 5:14 AM GMT
    He asks me out
    Calls me by name
    Goes Dutch
    Doesn't rush to sex, but isn't above having it
    Humor
    Smarts
    Affectionate
    Encouraging
    Brave
    OUT
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    May 14, 2012 5:18 AM GMT
    Lately it's gotten down to "penis" and "pulse", and even then I sometimes think I'm being too choosey...
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    May 14, 2012 5:23 AM GMT
    someone I consider handsome, of course. I think the true test for me would be if I can sit through a movie with them and not be annoyed by anything they do. I see myself cuddling alot so they better be fine with that.
    Definitely attracted to alot of guys but thats just appearance. Havent actually gotten a chance to go on a date or talk to another guy about this kind of stuff. I know what I like but need to test the waters I guess.

  • May 14, 2012 6:03 AM GMT
    Intelligence.
    Kindness.
    Optimisim.
    Healthy.
    Good looking to me.
    Find me good looking.
  • Coug24_wyo

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    May 14, 2012 6:16 AM GMT
    Must haves:
    I need a guy who is both mature but able to lighten up and have fun.
    I want him to care more about my personality than my looks, but love both =).
    Intelligent enough to hold a good conversation, doesn't have to have all the same beliefs as me, but I'd hope he's as open to opinions and good discussion as I am.

    perfect world, but definitely not 'requirements':
    Dark hair, my height or taller
    Has a stable career/career path (hey i'm not there yet myself, but I have clear goals)
    Cute smile / face
    Is physically strong, empathetic, and in touch emotionally
    Funny and charismatic, though sometimes a shy guy can be very charismatic in his own way which can be sexy too.
  • Brick_n_Lace

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    May 14, 2012 7:46 AM GMT
    Intelligent. Assertive when appropriate. Skilled in areas I am not. Laid back. Nice Income. Kind but not a pushover. Sexual, Psychological and Emotional Chemistry. dont really care about height but generally nice body. a handsome face. nice eyes. nice skin and teeth.
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    May 14, 2012 7:48 AM GMT
    I don't have a list or anything I just know it when I see it.
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    May 14, 2012 7:50 AM GMT
    Attractive, playful, loyal, intelligent, funny, tall, buff, big front and back, nerdy‚ô•, creative... I could make a book series of my requirements but these are the basic
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    May 14, 2012 7:54 AM GMT
    Intelligence, self confidence, reasonably good shape, non smoking, cute face. He also should be an iNtuitive, preferably an Idealist (NF).
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    May 14, 2012 8:05 AM GMT
    Only one requirement, like me enough for who I am to want to keep dating me. But I haven't found a guy that meets it yet.