Are you seeking a companion?

  • Teqkilla42

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    May 14, 2012 2:48 AM GMT
    Do you seek a long-term husband/partner/companion in life, or are you more happy being single and living by your own terms?

    Personally, while I'm pretty independent and value that, I can't help but feel like I won't feel quite complete until I've found a companion.
  • masculumpedes

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    May 14, 2012 3:17 AM GMT
    Nah.....for the first half of my life I was too young to settle down...now I'm too old to settle down....36.gif
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    May 14, 2012 3:48 AM GMT
    daviddoublebay saidAchieving goals and making plans for the future is rewarding...

    ... but I want a husband to explore and build a life together....and kids, too.


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  • Art2D2x

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    May 14, 2012 3:55 AM GMT
    I'm happily single, but I'd like to be in a relationship. I just won't go out looking for one.
  • NYCAthlete

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    May 14, 2012 4:02 AM GMT
    Genre said
    daviddoublebay saidAchieving goals and making plans for the future is rewarding...

    ... but I want a husband to explore and build a life together....and kids, too.


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    +1 for me too
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    May 14, 2012 4:06 AM GMT
    I agree with all the above comments and reasonings that essentially say "Yes" to the OP's question! icon_biggrin.gif
    *a dreamy sigh* icon_razz.gif
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    May 14, 2012 4:14 AM GMT
    Would I like a companion? Yes.
    Am I actively looking for one? Not right now.

    If it happens cool, but kinda busy being self involved at this time.
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    May 14, 2012 4:23 AM GMT
    I definitely would like to find love and eventually get married when the time is right. Would love to come home to a husband someday and give him long shoulder/back massages as we sit on the couch together, as well as exercise/run together and go on vacations to see new places. icon_biggrin.gif

    Patience is a virtue, patience is a virtue...
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    May 14, 2012 4:24 AM GMT
    As a Libra sign, a sign of love/partnership, of course I'd love to have an awesome partner to live and share my life/dream with but after a ltr break up, it took a while for me to be fine now and my priorities changed a bit. I enjoy meeting new guys, dating around and focusing on my art at the moment. I am looking but I am a firm believer when the time is right, he will just show up and I won't even know it. icon_cool.gif

  • May 14, 2012 6:06 AM GMT
    Well, maybe once a month I wish that I were single again, but for the rest of the time, being with my partner makes me very happy.

    So that >95% of the time that I am happy to be in a relationship.
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    May 14, 2012 6:22 AM GMT
    JayPride42 saidDo you seek a long-term husband/partner/companion in life, or are you more happy being single and living by your own terms?

    Personally, while I'm pretty independent and value that, I can't help but feel like I won't feel quite complete until I've found a companion.


    Yes I do and I can never get to the intimacy stage because all the guys I've come across just want sex. It's so frustrating. I'm independent too but also won't feel complete until I've found my other half. Sadly, I don't think I'll ever find anyone. icon_sad.gif
  • barriehomeboy

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    May 14, 2012 8:00 AM GMT
    I evolved. I survived the gay menace of aids only because fate tucked my away in a place that AIDS never invaded. When I finally moved to the gay world I fell in love a few times. The guy I'm in love with now is the best thing I could have ever hoped to find. I'm old now, and he's young, and he has a gf that he isn't willing to leave. I'm not sure what I'm seeking anymore. A mutual loving experience with a hot man in a nice house in a nice part of Toronto would be nice.
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    May 14, 2012 8:11 AM GMT
    I do, but I'm finding out work and relationships in my life function exactly the same. I've never been hired for a job. Ever. Ever. Every job I have ever interviewed for in my life I have been rejected. I had to start my own goddamn business which I run by myself because no one will hire me.

    Same thing with relationships.
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    May 14, 2012 8:14 AM GMT
    JPtheBITCH said
    Ariodante saidI do, but I'm finding out work and relationships in my life function exactly the same. I've never been hired for a job. Ever. Ever. Every job I have ever interviewed for in my life I have been reject. I had to start my own goddamn business which I run by myself because no one will hire me.

    Same thing with relationships.

    But you came back to us and we now haz a happee.


    I was only on a short hiatus elephant.gif
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    May 14, 2012 8:16 AM GMT
    JPtheBITCH said
    Ariodante saidI do, but I'm finding out work and relationships in my life function exactly the same. I've never been hired for a job. Ever. Ever. Every job I have ever interviewed for in my life I have been reject. I had to start my own goddamn business which I run by myself because no one will hire me.

    Same thing with relationships.

    But you came back to us and we now haz a happee.


    We do, JP. Miguel is the ginchiest!

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    May 14, 2012 8:18 AM GMT
    turbobilly said
    JPtheBITCH said
    Ariodante saidI do, but I'm finding out work and relationships in my life function exactly the same. I've never been hired for a job. Ever. Ever. Every job I have ever interviewed for in my life I have been reject. I had to start my own goddamn business which I run by myself because no one will hire me.

    Same thing with relationships.

    But you came back to us and we now haz a happee.


    We do, JP. Miguel is the ginchiest!

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    ginchiest?

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    May 14, 2012 8:45 AM GMT
    Seeking - no not at the moment.

    If it were to happen, I would be open to it.
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    May 14, 2012 8:52 AM GMT
    I'm happy to see myself being single for now yet sometimes i feel tired of seeing myself alone... icon_sad.gif
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    May 14, 2012 2:49 PM GMT
    No, I have one. It's pretty cool. Most of the time. icon_wink.gif

    Hypothetically, if I were to suddenly be single I would probably enjoy it for a while but I'd end up finding a partner again. I think I'm wired that way.
  • Karl

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    May 14, 2012 2:52 PM GMT
    yes and I want more than that : childrens ! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    May 14, 2012 3:03 PM GMT
    I am coming to terms with the distinct possibility that I may have had "the one", and that that particular relationship is but a mostly warm memory.

    Also adjusting strong likelihood for the oft-joked about and trolled meme of being foreveralone (or more likely, the remaining 30-40 years left to my lifespan, barring any intervention by the fates for weal or for woe.
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    May 14, 2012 3:05 PM GMT
    AlphaTrigger saidI am coming to terms with the distinct possibility that I may have had "the one", and that that particular relationship is but a mostly warm memory.

    Also adjusting strong likelihood for the oft-joked about and trolled meme of being foreveralone (or more likely, the remaining 30-40 years left to my lifespan, barring any intervention by the fates for weal or for woe.


    You know there is no "the one," right? Just guys close enough that you can work with them?
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    May 14, 2012 3:05 PM GMT
    It would be great but dating in the gay world is awful,. I dunno about anyone else,. and I never thought Id end up single but its definitely becoming something I have recently thought about
  • DanOmatic

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    May 14, 2012 3:35 PM GMT
    Funny thing: after being happily single since parting ways with my ex about 8 years ago, I find myself suddenly really wanting to have that kind of deep companionship with someone.

    My friends always joke about me being very emotionally balanced and self-sufficient, but I really do feel like something's been missing.

    I think just recognizing that and being open is where it's at for me right now. Not looking, but open to the possibility.
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    May 14, 2012 3:39 PM GMT
    A companion? Yeah, that would be nice.

    Nice work if you can get it.