Did someone ever cheat you or play with your heart ?

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    May 14, 2012 7:21 AM GMT
    I got the worst experience recently by a 45-yr old American man
    who just was playing with me & used me up as a 'fucker ' to do him anytime
    i was madly in love & changed everything for him ..right from my friends to my contacts to my gay profiles & found out he was sleeping with another 'top'

    He never had the guts to face me or receive my calls coz now he knows he's guilty but to his shameless behavior he still is getting some guys to do him!
    I had 9 sleeping pills one day & tried a suicide too.

    I never was after his money or anything he had
    I just was after his heart to get a little space for me in it.
    & when he'd know how harsh Middle-eastern "gay" men are then .....

    i am trying to get over it
    stopped taking sleeping pills now
    & learning to live life for myself first
    He honestly will never find "someone like me" who can do so much for him.
    & when he will be all alone with sickness & there'd no one for him.
    he will just remember me & regret why he cheated me & i wont be there


    So tell me what all happened when "that guy" who played u ?
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    May 14, 2012 12:36 PM GMT
    What is it with these Bottoms?!?! LOL. Just kidding.

    My first boyfriend cheated on me twice in less than one year. We managed to stay together quite a few months after that. We split up later and that's when I found out he'd cheated for a second time.

    I to, had changed all my friends, education choices, etc for him. I was freshly out (sort of) and 20 years old. Too naive to see the 'signs'... He was possessive, jealous, and obsessed that I was cheating on him and that I was going to abandon him. What a piece of work he was. One time I woke up at 3 AM and went to the bathroom... when I came back to bed he was awake and mad at me. I asked him why he was mad and his response was... "Next time you get up to go to the bathroom let me know... I woke up and thought you abandoned me"...

    Yep... I ended it VERY shortly after that.

    When I ended it he threatened he'd out me to my family if I broke up with him. My response... "I prefer you don't but it's not going to change my mind". I walked out and never saw or spoke to him again. He constantly called me but I screened all calls. He DID call my Mother and she asked me what was going on because he was rambling about something to her. My Mom said she wasn't really paying attention and then said... "I never really liked him anyways"... LOL

    It was an old friend of mine who I hadn't seen in months that saw the signs and pulled me aside. He forced me to weigh myself and then looked over my shoulder while I did it. I'd lost about 25 pounds from the stress of the relationship. All my friend said to me was... "If something isn't right in your life you have to find the strength and courage to change it." He didn't talk about the relationship but I think it was obvious what the causes were and he knew it. I've lost contact with him and now, 20 years later, would like to say thank you to him for helping me change things for the better.
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    May 14, 2012 12:41 PM GMT
    Yeah. My first 'bf'.

    To put it very simply, since this requires very little else, I walked in on him in bed with another guy. He later told me it had been happening the entire time we were dating, and that he just wanted me for my ass.

    Needless to say, I was crushed and didn't date for 5 years. But now I have an awesome boyfriend that I'm very fond of.
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    May 14, 2012 1:13 PM GMT
    Xelorate saidWhat is it with these Bottoms?!?! LOL. Just kidding.

    My first boyfriend cheated on me twice in less than one year. We managed to stay together quite a few months after that. We split up later and that's when I found out he'd cheated for a second time.

    I to, had changed all my friends, education choices, etc for him. I was freshly out (sort of) and 20 years old. Too naive to see the 'signs'... He was possessive, jealous, and obsessed that I was cheating on him and that I was going to abandon him. What a piece of work he was. One time I woke up at 3 AM and went to the bathroom... when I came back to bed he was awake and mad at me. I asked him why he was mad and his response was... "Next time you get up to go to the bathroom let me know... I woke up and thought you abandoned me"...

    Yep... I ended it VERY shortly after that.

    When I ended it he threatened he'd out me to my family if I broke up with him. My response... "I prefer you don't but it's not going to change my mind". I walked out and never saw or spoke to him again. He constantly called me but I screened all calls. He DID call my Mother and she asked me what was going on because he was rambling about something to her. My Mom said she wasn't really paying attention and then said... "I never really liked him anyways"... LOL
    It was an old friend of mine who I hadn't seen in months that saw the signs and pulled me aside. He forced me to weigh myself and then looked over my shoulder while I did it. I'd lost about 25 pounds from the stress of the relationship. All my friend said to me was... "If something isn't right in your life you have to find the strength and courage to change it." He didn't talk about the relationship but I think it was obvious what the causes were and he knew it. I've lost contact with him and now, 20 years later, would like to say thank you to him for helping me change things for the better.


    LMAO win!
    glad you moved over with it man.
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    May 14, 2012 3:52 PM GMT
    Xelorate saidWhat is it with these Bottoms?!?! LOL. id... "I never really liked him anyways"... LOL


    yes what is with these bottoms
    My cheater boyfriends was a bottom too
    I guess i will have to find a versatile or a top from now on !

    Many of my bottom friends are so bitchy !
    i really think the same what u just said !
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    May 14, 2012 3:53 PM GMT
    Let me tell you about the time someone didn't....
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    May 14, 2012 3:54 PM GMT
    Xelorate saidWhat is it with these Bottoms?!?! LOL. Just kidding.

    My first boyfriend cheated on me twice in less than one year. We managed to stay together quite a few months after that. We split up later and that's when I found out he'd cheated for a second time.

    I to, had changed all my friends, education choices, etc for him. I was freshly out (sort of) and 20 years old. Too naive to see the 'signs'... He was possessive, jealous, and obsessed that I was cheating on him and that I was going to abandon him. What a piece of work he was. One time I woke up at 3 AM and went to the bathroom... when I came back to bed he was awake and mad at me. I asked him why he was mad and his response was... "Next time you get up to go to the bathroom let me know... I woke up and thought you abandoned me"...

    Yep... I ended it VERY shortly after that.

    When I ended it he threatened he'd out me to my family if I broke up with him. My response... "I prefer you don't but it's not going to change my mind". I walked out and never saw or spoke to him again. He constantly called me but I screened all calls. He DID call my Mother and she asked me what was going on because he was rambling about something to her. My Mom said she wasn't really paying attention and then said... "I never really liked him anyways"... LOL

    It was an old friend of mine who I hadn't seen in months that saw the signs and pulled me aside. He forced me to weigh myself and then looked over my shoulder while I did it. I'd lost about 25 pounds from the stress of the relationship. All my friend said to me was... "If something isn't right in your life you have to find the strength and courage to change it." He didn't talk about the relationship but I think it was obvious what the causes were and he knew it. I've lost contact with him and now, 20 years later, would like to say thank you to him for helping me change things for the better.



    Everything happened to me exactly what happened to u !
    just every single thing is the same !
    Bottom , 2 times cheating,Changed everything ,in my twenties & much more
    we are equal !
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    May 14, 2012 3:55 PM GMT
    Medjai saidYeah. My first 'bf'.

    To put it very simply, since this requires very little else, I walked in on him in bed with another guy. He later told me it had been happening the entire time we were dating, and that he just wanted me for my ass.

    Needless to say, I was crushed and didn't date for 5 years. But now I have an awesome boyfriend that I'm very fond of.


    yes i dunno why people lie to someone who is madly in love & can do anything for them ?
    What a fucking bitch he was !