Whats the ONE thing you wont give up?

  • TallguyNLA

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    May 16, 2012 3:10 PM GMT
    What is the "deal breaker" for you in a relationship?
    Is it a habit like smoking? Something you possess?
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    May 16, 2012 3:37 PM GMT
    My money. I learned that lesson the hard way. icon_eek.gif
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    May 16, 2012 3:42 PM GMT
    My machine gun.

    Without it, all the fun of hostage situations just goes out the window.

    I can give up the grenades for the right guy...but not the machine gun.
  • jim_sf

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    May 16, 2012 3:45 PM GMT
    Cash saidMy machine gun.

    Without it, all the fun of hostage situations just goes out the window.


    You wouldn't use a handgun? They're easier to brandish menacingly, and to use to pistol-whip an uncooperative and/or obnoxious hostage.
  • TallguyNLA

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    May 16, 2012 3:59 PM GMT
    n8698u saidMy money. I learned that lesson the hard way. icon_eek.gif



    well what about things other than money...
    i mean like a smoking habit, or how often you you may wanna drink...does your partner, or has your partner ever wanted you to steer clear of certain people?
  • TallguyNLA

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    May 16, 2012 4:00 PM GMT
    Cash saidMy machine gun.

    Without it, all the fun of hostage situations just goes out the window.

    I can give up the grenades for the right guy...but not the machine gun.

    @ CASH...
    machine gun(-: thats kinda funny(-;icon_biggrin.gif
  • LJay

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    May 16, 2012 4:30 PM GMT
    Hot water
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    May 16, 2012 5:00 PM GMT
    What I won't give up in a relationship (besides bodybuilding) is sex with other guys. I don't believe in monogamy and I have yet to EVER see it truly practiced among males. I call it for what it is and don't hide behind the hetro-fantasy of one true sexual love. Love and sex are not synonyms and it is unhealthy and unrealisitic to believe so....any doubts? check out that hetro divorce stats from malea cheating...never mind all the clueless women who have no idea their husband plays with guys like me and not other women. The last guy I dated wanted monogamy (but ironically didn't want ot have sex hardly ever) and was frustrated byt the fact he would be jealous if he came home and I was being fucked by another guy, whereas if I come home and he was fucking another guy, I'd think it was hot and either join in or get some popcorn and watch. Sadly, he is in for alot more disappointment in his life.


    The deal breakers for guys I'm willing to date: smoking, excessive frequent alcohol consumption, recreational drugs, lack of the three C's: car, credit card and career.
  • Karl

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    May 16, 2012 5:07 PM GMT
    my personality icon_smile.gif
    I will never change it to please anyone.
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    May 16, 2012 5:10 PM GMT
    Speed and Heroin. icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 16, 2012 5:12 PM GMT
    My sense of self or identity. I won't "change" personality wise or what's important to me to please anyone just to be in a relationship. Besides, I like who I am and I'm pretty damn interesting just the way I am now.
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    May 16, 2012 5:31 PM GMT
    I've got a nasty habit of being honest. Wouldn't give that up. As far as possessions go, I wouldn't give up my dignity. Well, what little I have left.
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    May 16, 2012 5:32 PM GMT
    Coffee with French vanilla cream....I thought we were talking about unhealthy eating habits
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    May 16, 2012 5:40 PM GMT
    TallguyNLA said
    n8698u saidMy money. I learned that lesson the hard way. icon_eek.gif



    well what about things other than money...
    i mean like a smoking habit, or how often you you may wanna drink...does your partner, or has your partner ever wanted you to steer clear of certain people?


    Independence and freedom. My ex was somewhat controlling and insecure with any male friends. Silly me, I relented too often to preserve his feelings, and lost touch with some decent guys.

  • TallguyNLA

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    May 17, 2012 2:47 AM GMT
    wow! this is some really good stuff!I never would have thought i would get the responses Ive read! one of you said" sex with other guys," I was actually kinda taken back, because i don't know how i would feel about that....the thought pf some one i am involved with doing things with another guy, or enjoying himself with another in a way that we have or haven't enjoyed each other is a little on the far side for me....i don't judge because its not for me to say whats right and wrong, BUT why be in a "RELATIONSHIP" then?
    why not just stay single?

    and of course to the guy who said "unhealthy" eating habits, YES! that too!
    I wanna know everything! there are no limits, I'm really curious to know those deal breakers as well!
    and have you ever been with someone who just cant seem to get their sh!T together but you loved them and TRIED to make it work?
    your thoughts please.........
  • TallguyNLA

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    May 17, 2012 2:48 AM GMT
    7Famark saidCoffee with French vanilla cream....I thought we were talking about unhealthy eating habits


    this too!
    i wanna know1
  • TallguyNLA

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    May 17, 2012 2:51 AM GMT
    imasrxd saidI've got a nasty habit of being honest. Wouldn't give that up. As far as possessions go, I wouldn't give up my dignity. Well, what little I have left.

    this is something else I wouldn't have thought of....
    good point!
    IS IT BETTER to tell the truth all the time and rub someone the wrong way but always keep it real even if it may 'hurt them?"
  • TallguyNLA

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    May 17, 2012 2:52 AM GMT
    mplsmike saidMy sense of self or identity. I won't "change" personality wise or what's important to me to please anyone just to be in a relationship. Besides, I like who I am and I'm pretty damn interesting just the way I am now.

    most guys i know....(ALL OF THEM STRAIGHT) wont do that either. its doesnt matter how great looking she is, or how amazing the sex is, they wont either....
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    May 17, 2012 2:52 AM GMT
    I know that it's come up before, but I really don't get the lack of car issue. But then again I wouldn't live in a city where mass transit was bad, nor that wasn't walk/cycle friendly.
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    May 17, 2012 3:05 AM GMT
    Relationship-wise, I won't give up on win+win situations.
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    May 17, 2012 3:09 AM GMT
    integrity.
  • masculumpedes

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    May 17, 2012 3:13 AM GMT
    My foot fetish.....icon_twisted.gif
  • TallguyNLA

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    May 17, 2012 3:51 AM GMT
    JoyfullyRandom saidRelationship-wise, I won't give up on win+win situations.

    interesting point....so you dont believe that sometime someone is not gonna get their way?
  • TallguyNLA

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    May 17, 2012 3:53 AM GMT
    intensity69 saidI know that it's come up before, but I really don't get the lack of car issue. But then again I wouldn't live in a city where mass transit was bad, nor that wasn't walk/cycle friendly.


    this culd put ALLOT of STRESS on the both of you! dating someone who cant get around on their own just CANNOT WORK! i agree!
  • TallguyNLA

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    May 17, 2012 3:54 AM GMT
    daviddoublebay saidMy dreams... goals.... and fighting to WIN.

    wow! thats a little deeper than expected.....but how so? what goals?