My Fear of Dating a Man with Muscles

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    May 18, 2012 5:26 AM GMT
    So as y'all can see, I'm a slim dude. I have some abs, but they're like sculpted or anything. While I do like dudes with muscles, it's not really a make or break deal for me. Honestly, I don't think I could date a guy with muscles. Why.? Basically, it'd be a confidence issue. I'd feel like I'd have to get muscles too just so he'll stay. I know it sounds silly, but I'm still very self conscious about my body. I used to be chubby, but now that I'm slim, I do everything to make sure that I don't gain a gut again. icon_sad.gif
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    May 18, 2012 6:02 AM GMT
    Don't worry, your logic is not skewed in anyway.

    Guys who I'd be attracted to before I started working out I would no longer find attractive. I was dating a guy before who was pretty cute for the most part...but then when I seen him walking around with his shirt off, I was like...nawww.

    I'm not trying to be pretentious. That's just the way it is. It's life. But the good news is, eventually those musckular guys won't be so intimidating or unattainable...and they'll find you attractive as well.


    And FYI, if you're doing everything to make sure you don't gain a gut...just know that you will also not gain any muscle if and when you do start working out. That grocery bill better be thru the ROOF!