May 20, 2012 10:33 PM GMT
chiizer saidhim: do u want meet up at noon
me: haha, i see that u r here for sex... r u hoping to have sex with me? sorry if i am blunt like that, just dont wanna waste ur time if u r looking for that
him: meet 4 a beer game ov pool chat
me: haha cool, how good are you at pool? wanna come by my union for a game? it is only 70p per game
r u a student? as i might need to sign u in n i would like to hang out, although i must admit 1st, i am very bad at pool...
it is ok if u r not keen to play with a dumb ass
him: underground bar john st itz 50p, it will b a laugh icebreaker
me: yeap i'll meet u at the entrance yeah? my number is 07xxxxxxxx6
him: no gonae make it free at 6 if anygud
me: Sigh... Ok... I m already here ... Never mind then
him: jist back wat u up 2
me: not much... just having pizza and watching some comedy series... i hope u had a good day.
Him: no going 4 a beer nw u want meet nw
Me: can you be honest with me first? did you cancel me out last minute because you had a sex date? I am very sorry to say this, but I was extremely disappointed as I thought you were a very great guy to hang out with, and i really looked forward to meeting you. I left you my number, but sadly you did not even text me that you are not gonna make it. instead, you texted here on gayromeo, and i was already out of my flat to meet u. I am not sure how you would feel given if you were in my shoes...
anyway, since u said u did not have a good day, sorry for this last message. I dont think i have the power to make your day any better. enjoy your beer.
Him: my dad is sick in hospt. wae cancer join me 4 a beer ur a babe
Me: please tell me that you are telling the truth. it is ok with me if you had a sex date and chose that over a round of pool with me. I dont mind rejection, i just cant stand lies. i'm sorry, i need to know if i could really trust u.
Him: wat eva m8
Me: fine... if ur dad was really in a hospital n you needed a mate, i would be happy to be there for you, guess that's not good enough for you eh?
in that case, take care mate. i wish your dad recovers soon. and you would at least have a better evening.
Him: god ur a cunt fukoff
Me: dont worry, i wont bother you any longer, i will fuck off. n please dont be upset, i am genuinely wishing you well.
Him: no ur not ur jist a hollow
Me: erm, hollow? well, maybe i am, i am not a smart guy, i allow people to manipulate me and i trust them way too much. but tell you what, i do not pretend when i say i wish you well.
anyway, i am really sad that we cannot be friends. should you change your mind and feel better later and really want a friend to talk to, feel free to drop me a note.
but for now, i will respect your wishes and fuck off as you wished. so i wont disturb u anymore tonight.
I am very sorry.
Him: i shud think so i hv not had sex 2day
Me: 07xxxxxxxx6 if u really need to talk to someone.
take care and good night
Him: the best way 2 get love is not 2b a total jerk nd beleive people
Me: I already said i'm sorry mate. what else can i prove you that? I am a jerk, and i'm an idiot, i shall learn my lesson from losing a friend like you.
So was I really a jerk? i know i might have crossed the line at some point, but was it wrong of me? btw, we r just friends, he asked me out for a game of pool and beer twice and i finally responded as i was having my exams. do let me know what you think.
Toro_verde saidim not gonna lie, you were a little clingy and you didnt even really know him... huge red flag
mayBbignow said@Iceblink, that was hard to read.
But you never know why some people flake so I can see why the OP felt stood up.