Got stood up, but Was I really a jerk?

  • ciizer

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    May 20, 2012 10:33 PM GMT
    him
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    May 20, 2012 10:42 PM GMT
    chiizer saidhim: do u want meet up at noon

    me: haha, i see that u r here for sex... r u hoping to have sex with me? sorry if i am blunt like that, just dont wanna waste ur time if u r looking for that icon_smile.gif

    him: meet 4 a beer game ov pool chat

    me: haha icon_smile.gif cool, how good are you at pool? wanna come by my union for a game? it is only 70p per game icon_smile.gif

    r u a student? as i might need to sign u in icon_smile.gif n i would like to hang out, although i must admit 1st, i am very bad at pool...

    it is ok if u r not keen to play with a dumb ass

    lol

    him: underground bar john st itz 50p, it will b a laugh icebreaker

    me: yeap icon_smile.gif i'll meet u at the entrance yeah? my number is 07xxxxxxxx6 icon_smile.gif


    at 12pm-
    him: no gonae make it free at 6 if anygud

    me: Sigh... Ok... I m already here ... Never mind then

    at9pm-
    him: jist back wat u up 2

    me: not much... just having pizza and watching some comedy series... i hope u had a good day.

    Him: no going 4 a beer nw u want meet nw

    Me: can you be honest with me first? did you cancel me out last minute because you had a sex date? I am very sorry to say this, but I was extremely disappointed as I thought you were a very great guy to hang out with, and i really looked forward to meeting you. I left you my number, but sadly you did not even text me that you are not gonna make it. instead, you texted here on gayromeo, and i was already out of my flat to meet u. I am not sure how you would feel given if you were in my shoes...

    anyway, since u said u did not have a good day, sorry for this last message. I dont think i have the power to make your day any better. enjoy your beer.

    best regards

    Him: my dad is sick in hospt. wae cancer join me 4 a beer ur a babe

    Me: please tell me that you are telling the truth. it is ok with me if you had a sex date and chose that over a round of pool with me. I dont mind rejection, i just cant stand lies. i'm sorry, i need to know if i could really trust u.

    Him: wat eva m8

    Me: fine... if ur dad was really in a hospital n you needed a mate, i would be happy to be there for you, guess that's not good enough for you eh?

    in that case, take care mate. i wish your dad recovers soon. and you would at least have a better evening.

    see ya.

    Him: god ur a cunt fukoff

    Me: dont worry, i wont bother you any longer, i will fuck off. n please dont be upset, i am genuinely wishing you well.

    Him: no ur not ur jist a hollow

    Me: erm, hollow? well, maybe i am, i am not a smart guy, i allow people to manipulate me and i trust them way too much. but tell you what, i do not pretend when i say i wish you well.

    anyway, i am really sad that we cannot be friends. should you change your mind and feel better later and really want a friend to talk to, feel free to drop me a note.

    but for now, i will respect your wishes and fuck off as you wished. so i wont disturb u anymore tonight.

    I am very sorry.

    Him: i shud think so i hv not had sex 2day

    Me: 07xxxxxxxx6 if u really need to talk to someone.

    take care and good night

    Him: the best way 2 get love is not 2b a total jerk nd beleive people

    Me: I already said i'm sorry mate. what else can i prove you that? I am a jerk, and i'm an idiot, i shall learn my lesson from losing a friend like you.



    So was I really a jerk? i know i might have crossed the line at some point, but was it wrong of me? btw, we r just friends, he asked me out for a game of pool and beer twice and i finally responded as i was having my exams. do let me know what you think.



    That is one of the worst plays I've ever read.
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    May 20, 2012 10:52 PM GMT
    im not gonna lie, you were a little clingy and you didnt even really know him... huge red flag
  • ciizer

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    May 20, 2012 10:54 PM GMT
    Toro_verde saidim not gonna lie, you were a little clingy and you didnt even really know him... huge red flag


    lol... nah, i've spoke to him for over 2 months now, he is always the one who initiates the messages, i only respond as i do not know his intentions, but we normally only speak about our common interest.
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    May 20, 2012 10:58 PM GMT
    if u say so
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    May 20, 2012 11:06 PM GMT
    mayBbignow said@Iceblink, that was hard to read.

    But you never know why some people flake so I can see why the OP felt stood up.



    I'm teasing him, although the conversation could have done with some editing, and I don't mean here, I mean while the OP having the conversation. It should have ended at the point when the guy got an attitude when it was he who did not show up. Maybe I'm cynical, but I even question if the story of the dad having cancer is true or just an attempt to make a good excuse.

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    May 20, 2012 11:09 PM GMT
    you are putting way too much time and effort into that...
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    May 20, 2012 11:51 PM GMT
    I didn't realize a family member having cancer was a license to be an ass. Now I know. icon_rolleyes.gif