Can guys sense when you're checking them out?

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    May 21, 2012 5:16 PM GMT
    I was at Starbucks early this morning getting my drink, and I notice this really cute guy ordering in front of me. As soon as he gets ready to leave, I turn my head to get another look. He then catches me gawking at him, and goes on about his day. I'm not slick at all, I always get busted.icon_question.gif?
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    May 21, 2012 5:58 PM GMT
    I get busted too, usually because I look for too long icon_redface.gif
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    May 21, 2012 7:20 PM GMT
    I make them realize i am lookin at them & all times i have earned great results from them even from straight guys !
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    May 21, 2012 10:24 PM GMT
    I passed by this superhot guy at the supermarket last night. He was around my age, really built, had really nice tanned skin and was wearing the thinnest tank-top ever. It was the refrigerated section, the aisle was narrow and he had one of the freezer doors open so I made a point of squeezing past him. Got 3 seconds of unobstructed ogling of his backside, and was so close I could have licked him if I stuck my tongue out =D

    I thought I got away with it until I realized his girlfriend was watching me watch him and pointed me out to him almost immediately aftericon_redface.gif
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    May 21, 2012 10:38 PM GMT
    Can they sense it? Yes. Usually the first sense is sight, followed by a sense of satisfaction when they expertly guess your intentions. If a liaison is negotiated, they also achieve a sense of accomplishment.
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    May 21, 2012 10:57 PM GMT
    I hope not
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    May 21, 2012 11:02 PM GMT
    Yes! My favorite thing is when you pass another gay guy and you both eye each other for just long enough to give away that you're gay. It doesn't bother me at all.

    But I do get bothered when straight guys like stop and turn completely around to see a girl when she's walking by.. have some class icon_razz.gif
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    May 21, 2012 11:05 PM GMT
    Usually. I have nothing to hide, just to gain, so I don't care. I wouldn't want the guy to think that I was ashamed or embarrased of taking notice or interest in him. Anyway, I don't gawk.
  • LJay

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    May 21, 2012 11:06 PM GMT
    Can they? Sometimes.
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    May 21, 2012 11:07 PM GMT
    sometimes.. I mean even in my case i barely know who's checking me out unless they are being obvious or it was natural reaction that happened in front of me lol. I like to think I can admire from a distance quite well.
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    May 21, 2012 11:08 PM GMT
    Adam228 saidYes! My favorite thing is when you pass another gay guy and you both eye each other for just long enough to give away that you're gay. It doesn't bother me at all.

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    The laws of attraction... Part of the fun... However, I have checked people out and I believe they were oblivious.



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    May 21, 2012 11:08 PM GMT
    aside what some women think:

    guys AREN'T stupid
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    May 21, 2012 11:09 PM GMT
    Mostly it's just the guys with giant egos who think everyone is checking them out, not the really hot and healthy guys, they don't seem to care.
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    May 21, 2012 11:13 PM GMT
    I get busted on the Muni when they feel my hands kneeding their butt cheeks while pulling them apart at the crack.

    And, on a crowded train, I can't figure out how they keep knowing it's me.

    Maybe I need to stop mumbling, "Yeah, baby!" under my breath.
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    May 21, 2012 11:29 PM GMT
    madfacts saidMostly it's just the guys with giant egos who think everyone is checking them out,[...]


    Yeah, that's another group of guys.
    There's 'checking out' ('sizing up'), and then there's just looking at.
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    May 21, 2012 11:31 PM GMT
    The key is to say something. It doesn't have to be brilliant. Just something like "Can I get by here?" or "Am I in your way here?" People naturally look at each other when they talk, so you get the same amount of oogle time but you don't get busted.

    Today in the gym the TVs were on and they flashed a shot from Zuckerberg's wedding. So I said to the guy on the equipment next to me, "Guess he decided to wear a tie--I figured he'd be in a hoodie." Followed that up with a sigh and "she just became one rich woman." The guy didn't have to know what the sigh was really about.

    If you ever watch those safari things where one animal hunts another, you know that animals hunt silently and they use their eyes intently. That's why we all have a sixth sense about someone staring at us. Nobody likes the feeling that the other guy is about to go in for the kill. Language is a human skill, and using language elevates the situation to a human level, which generally means non-threatening. The other plus is you come away feeling as though you made a connection. It's cool.
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    May 22, 2012 9:13 PM GMT
    highforthis saidI passed by this superhot guy at the supermarket last night. He was around my age, really built, had really nice tanned skin and was wearing the thinnest tank-top ever. It was the refrigerated section, the aisle was narrow and he had one of the freezer doors open so I made a point of squeezing past him. Got 3 seconds of unobstructed ogling of his backside, and was so close I could have licked him if I stuck my tongue out =D

    I thought I got away with it until I realized his girlfriend was watching me watch him and pointed me out to him almost immediately aftericon_redface.gif


    How nice was his ass?icon_redface.gif
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    May 22, 2012 9:16 PM GMT
    fasterpace saidaside what some women think:

    guys AREN'T stupid
    Lul, This*
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    May 22, 2012 9:18 PM GMT
    Oh ya... Everyone has that odd sixth sense where they can feel someone staring at them.
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    May 22, 2012 9:25 PM GMT
    I can sense it. I was doing push-ups at the gym last night and this old gaysian on the dip machine next to where I was doing pushups was staring at me. I did another set, and when I looked up, he was STILL staring at me! Fuckin creepy!
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    May 22, 2012 9:30 PM GMT
    Firebrand saidI can sense it. I was doing push-ups at the gym last night and this old gaysian on the dip machine next to where I was doing pushups was staring at me. I did another set, and when I looked up, he was STILL staring at me! Fuckin creepy!


    He didn't know the polite way to tell you that your pants had an unfortunately positioned stain. And old gaysians are always about being polite.