I am over him

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    May 21, 2012 7:39 PM GMT
    I am officially over him, my X that is. I hardly think of him and if I do, there are no feelings or pain involved and the thoughts of him quickly pass me by. I meet others who are way nicer to me and now realize what a jerk he was.

    Just wanted to share my happiness, I thought I was never able to stop contact with him, but I did it even after his numerous attempts to get back.

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    May 21, 2012 7:41 PM GMT
    If you're over him, why did you post a thread about him? icon_question.gif
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    May 21, 2012 7:44 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidIf you're over him, why did you post a thread about him? icon_question.gif


    he;s expressing his emotions let him do that !
    Thats a conveying message that says i wanted to express my feeling to all !
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    May 21, 2012 7:47 PM GMT
    Sam_u_el said
    paulflexes saidIf you're over him, why did you post a thread about him? icon_question.gif


    he;s expressing his emotions let him do that !
    Thats a conveying message that says i wanted to express my feeling to all !
    It was a rhetorical question...not meant to be answered directly, but pondered for thought. icon_wink.gif
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    May 21, 2012 7:48 PM GMT
    lol
    i thought u are pokin fun !
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    May 21, 2012 7:49 PM GMT
    Sam_u_el saidlol
    i thought u are pokin fun !
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    Of course not. Getting over someone isn't something to make fun of. icon_smile.gif
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    May 21, 2012 7:52 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidIf you're over him, why did you post a thread about him? icon_question.gif


    PF has an excellent point.
    As long as you realize that, with the goal of concentrating on what's on the future horizon instead, you are on your way.
    Happy renewal!
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    May 21, 2012 7:57 PM GMT
    I wrote it to express my joy and happiness with others. I totally avoided any contact, that is how it faded away. I am sure our brains are programmed somehow that whoever comes in our path we will never completely forget, but the feelings of attachment and hurt and emotions are stripped away.
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    May 21, 2012 7:58 PM GMT
    graphicabc saidI wrote it to express my joy and happiness with others. I totally avoided any contact, that is how it faded away. I am sure our brains are programmed somehow that whoever comes in our path we will never completely forget, but the feelings of attachment and hurt and emotions are stripped away.
    You have explained it well. I'm glad you're happy now. icon_biggrin.gif