lilmaninsc saidYall are making no fucking sense. If you are doing that, then you're looking for another relationship. What I said, I mean. Fuck, gay men are so stupid (no offense) but come on. If you are going to "cheat" because there is a lack of communication or any of that other bullshit excuses... then do something about it. Cheating isn't the answer dumb asses. If you're not happy with who you are with, then fucking leave them, it's that simple!!!!!!!!!!!!
No, it's not that simple.
And no one is saying that cheating is the answer-- just that it happens for a multitude of reasons, not just because someone's a 'sex pig' or because people are so fundamentally unhappy with their partner that they'd rather be with someone else.
I'd point out that most statistics you'll find lying around show that most couples that experience infidelity actually survive. Sometimes it's the jolt needed to get things back on the right path.
I'm not going to presume to know your relationship history but I'd advise that if you ever are in a relationship and hit trouble, with infidelity or anything else, that you take a more nuanced view. It might save your relationship.