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    May 22, 2012 2:43 PM GMT
    I find it troubling to understand how so many people go out of there way to attack other men on this site it's immature and retarded some of you boys need to lay of the steroids and not go ape shit on forums. Sorry your dieing of aids and some of us are not mad at the world for careless hairy uncooth choices. HENCE but does not justify the reasons to attack other people just for being themselves. Fakest preferences site I ever been on goddanm nobody's perfect enough. I don't want to click on FUCKING profiles saying I don't like black or I don't like fat, skinny , they have to bigger than me. No twinks drags old the list goes on. The forum speaks for itself. I'm flabbergasted to be part such a judgmental community. Oh and don't try reverse my words against me on this like I said forum speaks for itself halloo bitches:-*
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    May 22, 2012 2:48 PM GMT
    Oh my god, finally. Thank you. I thought I was the only one with a guy holding a gun to my head forcing me to not only belong to this forum, but to write gibberish and badly thought out nonsense at least 5-10 times a day. Thank you for allowing me to see I am not the only one.
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    May 22, 2012 2:50 PM GMT
    I understand your issue - but it is not cool to then turn around and accuse guys of juicing and use HIV status as an insult ("dieing of aids"? really?).

    Also, smartmoney is right, if you're going to rant about impropriety, decent spelling and grammar are helpful.
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    May 22, 2012 2:52 PM GMT
    Heartbreakguy3000 saidThe forum speaks for itself. I'm flabbergasted to be part such a judgmental community. Oh and don't try reverse my words against me on this like I said forum speaks for itself halloo bitches:-*

    You have the choice to visit the forums you like, and ignore the forums you don't like. Plus, RJ has lots of general health & jock advice, especially on meal plans. Just click on the RJ logo and look around, and click on FORUMS and search by topic. You'll find stuff on every kind of sport and activity.
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    May 22, 2012 3:00 PM GMT

    Heartbreakguy,
    Some men caught HIV by innocently trusting another.

    While I agree reading a list of dislikes can bring you down, hiding dislikes may mean an unpleasant surprise (and hurt feelings) later.
    I feel it's better to list what you prefer than what you don't like (something you could also do in your profile).

    Perceptions are often subjective, like this:
    Attention whores:
    People with a lot of posts? People who are popular? People who are admired and encouraged by others' responses to post more?

    People who seek pity from others:
    Guys struggling with HIV, a terminal disease, death of a pet or partner, depression, dealing with a cheating partner, lonely, struggling with self esteem issues, trying to get fit and struggling and so reaching out ot the community for support?

    Conceited guys:
    Guys expressing confidence, or countering self esteem issues with bravado, or trying out someone else's advice to think highly of themselves?

    I understand your frustrations, but ask you to give a the site a little more time and yourself a little more time to understand the undercurrents here and that initial impressions aren't always correct in every case. icon_wink.gif


    warmly,

    -Doug


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    May 22, 2012 4:43 PM GMT
    Heartbreakguy3000 saidI find it troubling to understand how so many people go out of there way to attack other men on this site it's immature and retarded some of you boys need to lay of the steroids and not go ape shit on forums. Sorry your dieing of aids and some of us are not mad at the world for careless hairy uncooth choices. HENCE but does not justify the reasons to attack other people just for being themselves. Fakest preferences site I ever been on goddanm nobody's perfect enough. I don't want to click on FUCKING profiles saying I don't like black or I don't like fat, skinny , they have to bigger than me. No twinks drags old the list goes on. The forum speaks for itself. I'm flabbergasted to be part such a judgmental community. Oh and don't try reverse my words against me on this like I said forum speaks for itself halloo bitches:-*


    Guess what? Its your choice to be here. Dont like it? Then get out!
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    May 22, 2012 4:49 PM GMT
    Feel better now?

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    Thanks for using the word "flabbergasted"; nice to see it making a comeback with the younger generation.
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    May 22, 2012 5:37 PM GMT
    Wait, so someone bluntly stating "No X/Y/Z" on their profile is being fake? icon_question.gificon_question.gificon_question.gif
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    May 22, 2012 6:07 PM GMT
    Heartbreakguy3000 saidI'm flabbergasted to be part such a judgmental community.


    Don't worry, you're not ;) Just a n00b with poor grammar and first world problems.
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    May 22, 2012 6:26 PM GMT
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    May 22, 2012 6:26 PM GMT
    Heartbreakguy3000 saidI find it troubling to understand how so many people go out of there way to attack other men on this site it's immature and retarded some of you boys need to lay of the steroids and not go ape shit on forums. Sorry your dieing of aids and some of us are not mad at the world for careless hairy uncooth choices. HENCE but does not justify the reasons to attack other people just for being themselves. Fakest preferences site I ever been on goddanm nobody's perfect enough. I don't want to click on FUCKING profiles saying I don't like black or I don't like fat, skinny , they have to bigger than me. No twinks drags old the list goes on. The forum speaks for itself. I'm flabbergasted to be part such a judgmental community. Oh and don't try reverse my words against me on this like I said forum speaks for itself halloo bitches:-*
    I fell off my chair in uncontrollable laughter at this nut!

    The hypocrisy woven through the rant is off the charts! LMAOicon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif
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    May 22, 2012 7:55 PM GMT
    Heartbreakguy3000 saidcrazy hypocritical rant deflecting pain of rejection


    Play him off, Keyboard Cat!
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    May 22, 2012 8:11 PM GMT
    Heartbreakguy3000 saidI find it troubling to understand how so many people go out of there way to attack other men on this site it's immature and retarded some of you boys need to lay of the steroids and not go ape shit on forums. Sorry your dieing of aids and some of us are not mad at the world for careless hairy uncooth choices. HENCE but does not justify the reasons to attack other people just for being themselves. Fakest preferences site I ever been on goddanm nobody's perfect enough. I don't want to click on FUCKING profiles saying I don't like black or I don't like fat, skinny , they have to bigger than me. No twinks drags old the list goes on. The forum speaks for itself. I'm flabbergasted to be part such a judgmental community. Oh and don't try reverse my words against me on this like I said forum speaks for itself halloo bitches:-*


    While the OP does come across pretty strong I don't think everthing he said is wrong. I'm pretty much a new dude to this site too (but not life) and I was a little put off by some of the stuff I read in profiles, forum post & IM's as well when I first joined.
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    May 22, 2012 8:16 PM GMT
    Have a glass of Lemonaid and take a deep breath and try not to read into things so much. Being to serious will kill you to soon! We can't control the actions of others. We can control our actions. Be happy, Don't worry! Your youngicon_wink.gif
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    May 22, 2012 8:20 PM GMT
    Cut him some slack, guys, it's all part of the process of coming to terms with being gay and finding out that gay men are just as imperfect as everyone else.
    One thing I do agree with, sort of, is the "NO" lists some guys post. No older, no twinks, no drag - etc, etc. Hey - it's fine to be honest and upfront about who you're interested in and attracted to, but you don't have to be so mean spirited about it. A door can be gently closed - it doesn't have to be slammed shut.
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    May 22, 2012 9:30 PM GMT
    Hey OP, I'm not into twinks icon_twisted.gif U MAD?
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    May 23, 2012 1:10 AM GMT
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    May 23, 2012 1:32 AM GMT
    Heartbreakguy3000 saidI find it troubling to understand how so many people go out of there way to attack other men on this site it's immature and retarded some of you boys need to lay of the steroids and not go ape shit on forums. Sorry your dieing of aids and some of us are not mad at the world for careless hairy uncooth choices. HENCE but does not justify the reasons to attack other people just for being themselves. Fakest preferences site I ever been on goddanm nobody's perfect enough. I don't want to click on FUCKING profiles saying I don't like black or I don't like fat, skinny , they have to bigger than me. No twinks drags old the list goes on. The forum speaks for itself. I'm flabbergasted to be part such a judgmental community. Oh and don't try reverse my words against me on this like I said forum speaks for itself halloo bitches:-*



    really? the "R" word
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    May 23, 2012 1:36 AM GMT
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    Heartbreakguy3000 saidI find it troubling to understand how so many people go out of there way to attack other men on this site it's immature and retarded some of you boys need to lay of the steroids and not go ape shit on forums. Sorry your dieing of aids and some of us are not mad at the world for careless hairy uncooth choices. HENCE but does not justify the reasons to attack other people just for being themselves. Fakest preferences site I ever been on goddanm nobody's perfect enough. I don't want to click on FUCKING profiles saying I don't like black or I don't like fat, skinny , they have to bigger than me. No twinks drags old the list goes on. The forum speaks for itself. I'm flabbergasted to be part such a judgmental community. Oh and don't try reverse my words against me on this like I said forum speaks for itself halloo bitches:-*



    really? the "R" word


    It seems to be making a comeback in gen Y, my nephews use it all the time, they are gay and use "gay" as a demeaning word too, icon_rolleyes.gifthey dont get the original meaning. we can but try to educate them.
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    May 23, 2012 1:37 AM GMT
    dudewithabeard saidreally? the "R" word


    But the other words were OK? icon_confused.gif
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    May 23, 2012 1:38 AM GMT
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    May 23, 2012 1:46 AM GMT
    Firebrand saidHey OP, I'm not into twinks icon_twisted.gif U MAD?


    Something far more sinister I imagine lol