Would you date a guy who was smart, rich, kind, and pleasant looking, but overweight?

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    May 22, 2012 3:52 PM GMT
    Why or why not?
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    May 22, 2012 3:55 PM GMT
    I'm dating a guy who is 2x older than me and overweight. However, he's shedding pounds and I'm gaining muscle!

    I know it sounds cheesy but looks attract me, but the personality keeps me. He doesn't have to be rich, but being kind and nice to be around is usually a requirement for me.

    So yes! icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 22, 2012 4:11 PM GMT
    No ... I am a very small person in stature , 5.5 ft , 110pds wet ..Hehehe...
    So overweight doesn't turn me on at all sexually ... Nothing against overweight people as long he doesn't involve intimacy ...
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    May 22, 2012 4:14 PM GMT
    if i were top i would , but im bottom so NO
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    May 22, 2012 4:28 PM GMT
    Been there; done that.

    After 3.5 years of lying and having sex with my eyes shut, I'll never make that mistake again.
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    May 22, 2012 4:33 PM GMT
    Josh1992 saidI'm dating a guy who is 2x older than me and overweight. However, he's shedding pounds and I'm gaining muscle!

    I know it sounds cheesy but looks attract me, but the personality keeps me. He doesn't have to be rich, but being kind and nice to be around is usually a requirement for me.

    So yes! icon_biggrin.gif


    So what attracted you enough so that you could see his personality?
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    May 22, 2012 4:34 PM GMT
    How rich are we talking here?
    Does he have a cabin in Aspen?
    And you didn't say anything about penis size...bottom or top?
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    May 22, 2012 4:40 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidHow rich are we talking here?
    Does he have a cabin in Aspen?
    And you didn't say anything about penis size...bottom or top?


    NOT private jet rich, but always First Class (International and Domestic) rich. Not beachfront second home in Hawaii rich, but paid off million dollar+ main home rich.
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    May 22, 2012 4:41 PM GMT
    No, I'm more attracted to women than a guy with overweight..
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    May 22, 2012 4:58 PM GMT
    HawkEyez saidNo, I'm more attracted to women than a guy with overweight..


    OUCH!
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    May 22, 2012 4:59 PM GMT
    Are you asking if guys would date you?
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    May 22, 2012 5:42 PM GMT
    dontknowwhy saidAre you asking if guys would date you?


    No!
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    May 22, 2012 5:48 PM GMT
    swimguychicago saida guy who was smart, rich, kind, and pleasant looking, but overweight?

    You described me to a t, and they didn't. They said I looked like a soccer dad.
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    May 22, 2012 5:54 PM GMT

    I like thick/chubby boys! And muscle boys.

    So yes

  • Timbales

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    May 22, 2012 6:24 PM GMT
    yes, if I find someone attractive, that's all that matters
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    May 22, 2012 6:46 PM GMT
    swimguychicago said
    HawkEyez saidNo, I'm more attracted to women than a guy with overweight..


    OUCH!


    Sry if I offended anyone but it is what it is and I can't change that shallow part of my mind..
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    May 22, 2012 6:47 PM GMT
    eagermuscle said
    swimguychicago saida guy who was smart, rich, kind, and pleasant looking, but overweight?

    You described me to a t, and they didn't. They said I looked like a soccer dad.


    WHAT?!?
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    May 22, 2012 6:49 PM GMT
    I wouldn't put on limits... it all depends on the situation I'd expect.
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    May 22, 2012 6:50 PM GMT
    I def would... the question is why not? Sounds like a good deal.
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    May 22, 2012 6:58 PM GMT
    hmmm... I think I'd give it a go ya. Looks are important but not the *most* important thing.
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    May 22, 2012 6:59 PM GMT
    Haven't had a sugar daddy in years! Nah..
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    May 22, 2012 7:03 PM GMT
    I think I'm misunderstanding the word 'overweight' here..
    You should've added an example picture.. I imagined someone like this guy..

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    May 22, 2012 7:06 PM GMT
    As stated by some others earlier: How rich? How overweight? Let's go through the permutations:


    A little overweight (10-15 lbs) and wealthy (a lot or a little), YES. The other qualities you listed are more desireable.

    Mega fat (large enough to warrent his own documentary on TLC) and a little wealthy, NO. Hey, I'm no Mother Teresa.I aint cleaning no bedsores or washing dirty sheets.

    If he's mega wealthy and mega fat, YES. Maybe he would succumb to a heart attack and leave me a little somethin', somethin' to ease my mourning. HAHA!

    Just being honest.

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    May 22, 2012 7:12 PM GMT
    Chicago overweight, or Denver overweight?
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    May 22, 2012 7:12 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan saidAs stated by some others earlier: How rich? How overweight? Let's go through the permutations:


    A little overweight (10-15 lbs) and wealthy (a lot or a little), YES. The other qualities you listed are more desireable.

    Mega fat (large enough to warrent his own documentary on TLC) and a little wealthy, NO. Hey, I'm no Mother Teresa.I aint cleaning no bedsores or washing dirty sheets.

    If he's mega wealthy and mega fat, YES. Maybe he would succumb to a heart attack and leave me a little somethin', somethin' to ease my mourning. HAHA!

    Just being honest.



    Lol you're bad!