Who should initiate sex?

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    May 23, 2012 3:32 PM GMT
    I've been hearing all of this stuff about how it's okay for a top to initiate sex and not a bottom? Apparently - according to some people - if a bottom initiates sex, they're somehow a slut?...I don't agree with this, as you can tell.

    But what are your opinions? And on a sidenote, how do you feel when your partner initiates sex?
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    May 23, 2012 4:19 PM GMT
    anybody gonna answer?
  • gwuinsf

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    May 23, 2012 4:22 PM GMT
    Seriously?

    Who ever is horny.
  • Medjai

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    May 23, 2012 4:23 PM GMT
    Uh, if that's the case, I'm a total slut. Though, there are a few reasons for that...

    Whoever wants it initiates, if the other is also interested, they reciprocate. Top or bottom is irrelevant.

    My only concern is that, as the bottom, I want to make sure I'm... Prepared. That's the only issue.
  • bottomready

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    May 23, 2012 4:54 PM GMT
    The sex is better if I let the top initiate but yeah you have to be ready nothing kills the moment more than an unprepared bottom and the nastier and sluttier I am the more hard cock I get ....tops like to be flaunted and told how much you want it sometimes even begging like a girl scout in heat...the begging gets en hard!......oh and a nasty video gets en going too good luck!


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    May 23, 2012 5:17 PM GMT
    The horniest one.
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    May 23, 2012 5:35 PM GMT
    This sounds like a stupid transposition of old standards for women on to bottoms. And, quite frankly, something that I've never heard spoken to be honest.

    Hey, if my sexy bottom BF has a hankering, I am *so* game for that... and he ain't a slut for starting he ball(s) rolling. icon_twisted.gif
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    May 23, 2012 5:42 PM GMT
    the fuck?

    That is WRONG. You are dealing with two men here, so whoever is horny can intiate sex.

    In fact, if I was with my bf and he decided not to have sex when I'm horny and please me when I need it, I would ditch him.

    I believe a healthy relationship includes compromise with sex.

    If my bf is horny, i'll fuck him, and if I am horny, he'll fuck me.

    If we're both horny at the same time, then hell yea, we're burning the house down tonight.

  • mizu5

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    May 23, 2012 5:45 PM GMT
    oh mo, breaking up with boys if they aren't horny at the same time? MEAN <3

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    honestly who ever is horny should go for it, if the other guy says no, go jerk it.

    besides nothing is wrong with bein a ho now and again.
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    May 23, 2012 5:47 PM GMT
    mizu5 saidoh mo, breaking up with boys if they aren't horny at the same time? MEAN <3

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    honestly who ever is horny should go for it, if the other guy says no, go jerk it.

    besides nothing is wrong with bein a ho now and again.


    Ok fine, fine... I'll take it back..

    I wouldn't break up with him... I would go watch porn.
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    May 23, 2012 5:48 PM GMT
    Stupidest question ever.

    Everybody knows, whoever has the most money and/or the biggest dick is supposed to initate sex.

    Any other way is completely obscene.
  • mizu5

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    May 23, 2012 5:52 PM GMT
    _Mohamed_ said
    mizu5 saidoh mo, breaking up with boys if they aren't horny at the same time? MEAN <3

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    honestly who ever is horny should go for it, if the other guy says no, go jerk it.

    besides nothing is wrong with bein a ho now and again.


    Ok fine, fine... I'll take it back..

    I wouldn't break up with him... I would go watch porn.
    icon_razz.gif ps. you + me eagle =soon.
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    May 23, 2012 5:54 PM GMT
    Cash saidStupidest question ever.

    Everybody knows, whoever has the most money and/or the biggest dick is supposed to initate sex.

    Any other way is completely obscene.


    lol icon_razz.gif
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    May 23, 2012 5:54 PM GMT
    mizu5 said
    _Mohamed_ said
    mizu5 saidoh mo, breaking up with boys if they aren't horny at the same time? MEAN <3

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    honestly who ever is horny should go for it, if the other guy says no, go jerk it.

    besides nothing is wrong with bein a ho now and again.


    Ok fine, fine... I'll take it back..

    I wouldn't break up with him... I would go watch porn.
    icon_razz.gif ps. you + me eagle =soon.


    kk let me know when.
  • safety43_mma1...

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    May 23, 2012 5:57 PM GMT
    I am more a bottom and I have no problem with making the first move. It is hotter if the top does but being a dominate bottom has its perks also.
  • Hothouse

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    May 23, 2012 6:08 PM GMT
    At my age, I initiate, cause I don't have that much time left and don't want to waste what I have.
  • ohioguy12

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    May 23, 2012 6:29 PM GMT
    The top should initiate it. Nothing more embarassing than stepping up to the plate, and swinging a garden hose.
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    May 23, 2012 8:10 PM GMT
    Whoever's in the mood.

    The top?

    That's insulting.

    Depends on your mood...hell the bottom initiating lets him know you desire him.
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    May 23, 2012 8:13 PM GMT
    Rule # 1

    Men are Pigs

    They need validation , they are sexually, sensually, and ego driven.

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    May 23, 2012 8:17 PM GMT
    oh and if you suck in bed...consider. Are you selfish?

    Being selfish in bed is not a good thing. So the top should do all of the work? It would piss be off to be in total control and make my partner do all the work.
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    May 23, 2012 8:19 PM GMT
    The one who was invited to dinner. It's only polite to thank the one who paid.

    I think that's what Emily Post would have said.
  • blueandgold

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    May 25, 2012 1:57 AM GMT
    Which people are you talking about? I've never heard anything like this.
  • MikemikeMike

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    May 25, 2012 7:15 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    deeley1 saidWho should initiate sex?

    In gay sex? --the man. icon_rolleyes.gif

    (So, are ya man enough? icon_razz.gif )

    The MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    May 25, 2012 7:49 AM GMT
    The one who gets his shlong out first is the one who initiates.
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    May 25, 2012 7:52 AM GMT
    Cash saidStupidest question ever.

    Everybody knows, whoever has the most money and/or the biggest dick is supposed to initate sex.

    Any other way is completely obscene.


    Hahaha, then what are you waiting for? Lol