Rude? or "Healthy?"

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    May 24, 2012 10:06 PM GMT
    Ok so over the long weekend I had friends over to my place; some old, some new, mixed in with family here and there. Two of these friends were notorious FWB (friends with benefits) so I expected some sex to be had. I let them choose how or where they wanted to sleep and provided them with their own private bedroom just in case. Not that it matters but they were a str8 couple.

    Little did I know what I was getting myself into....

    My place is very small with thin walls. Everyone could hear them having sex. One morning I got up at a reasonable time (10pm) and started to make breakfast for everyone clearly making alot noise banging doors and what not and alerting my presence and close vicinity to their room. They left their bedroom door half open that night so I figured they were already up. Apparently, it wasn't loud enough or they just didn't care and started to fuck.... with the door half open. Extremely loud fuck at that , moaning/grunting, I was impressed. I also felt kinda awkward and had to leave the house and put breakfast on hold while they finished.

    Does anyone else find that kinda rude? or just inconsiderate?

    Maybe im just a prude but if im going to have sex at someone else's house I'm going to at least make sure no one is around. At a minimum make sure my door is closed.

    What are your thought's on this?
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    May 24, 2012 10:32 PM GMT
    Batterybronx saidWhat are your thought's on this?
    Video (with sound) or it didn't happen.
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    May 25, 2012 1:23 AM GMT
    Push a cheeseburger into the room then close the door?
  • GWriter

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    May 25, 2012 1:42 AM GMT
    Tell them to leave. Not acceptable.
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    May 25, 2012 1:45 AM GMT
    I'd say thats pretty rude, they should have left and finished it somewhere else or abstained from it. icon_confused.gif
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    May 25, 2012 1:58 AM GMT
    Grab Video Camera.

    Commence Shooting Video.

    "Oh don't mind me, The built-in webcam was kinda blurry last night."
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    May 25, 2012 3:09 AM GMT
    Wait, the fact that you set up the "FWB" and know full well they are horn dogs and then you are shocked that they fuck like horn dogs. You are full on retard.
    Boring.
    So they fucked. Who cares.
  • commoncoll

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    May 25, 2012 3:10 AM GMT
    How awkward! Did no one tease them? They obviously don't care for privacy of others.
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    May 25, 2012 3:51 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidPush a cheeseburger into the room then close the door?


    I'm not even really sure what that means but it's very funny.

    I did a lot of living with others in my day and sex was pretty normal. Especially if you spend a lot of time on boats, talk about thin bulkheads. You hear everything and see a lot. Just the other week a neighbor who was into sailing in her youth told me about when her son came below deck and saw her "experimenting" (it was the 70s, afterall) with one of her str8 girlfriends. We never considered it rude. Sometimes we took advantage of the situation for our own amusement. Now that might have been rude.

    I've probably written out this story before but one time my best bud & I just for the fun of it had moved in for a few months with some cousins and we hooked up their vibrating waterbed to a remote control switch and then we partied that night in the living room outside their bedroom door, listening for them to start sexing each other up.

    Everytime we heard him really getting into pounding her hard we turned their vibrator on. It was fucking hysterical. You could hear them stop in their tracks. We'd switch their bed off. You could just imagine them looking around trying to figure out what the fuck was going on. We'd wait outside their bedroom holding back our snickering. It was so hard to breathe. Then they'd start fucking again. And again as soon as it got really hot and heavy we'd turn the vibrating bed back on.

    I don't know how we didn't burst into laughter but we did this three times before they figured us out. All of a sudden we hear this really loud, angry voice from inside the room "It's THEM". lololol. Everyone almost died laughing.

    Sex is funny. Enjoy it.
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    May 25, 2012 3:55 AM GMT
    that's pretty damned rude. My last roommate would have incredibly loud sex with plenty of extra noises (including but not limited to slapping, laughing, talking and giggling) and would do so whenever i was working on my computer (there was a common area desk set up in the living room for everyone to use). Frankly speaking, its your damned place. You said so yourself. So for one you shouldn't have left. You should've gone and, very quietly and without speaking, pulled the door shut. At the worst, you've only muffled the sound. At the best, they'd have gotten the hint and slowed their roll.
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    May 25, 2012 3:58 AM GMT
    classy
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    May 25, 2012 4:15 AM GMT
    This is easily dealt with.
    Simply pick up the cordless phone and make a fake call to Aunt Edna and speak loudly outside the open door about her burst colostomy bag.
    Remember to be sympathetic and repeat all the graphic details so she won't feel offended that you're not being attentive. icon_wink.gif
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    May 25, 2012 4:37 AM GMT
    I disagree with you. 10PM is not a reasonable time for breakfast.
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    May 25, 2012 5:04 AM GMT
    It's your home and you have a right not to feel uncomfortable in it. If their sex was making you uncomfortable you should tell them so.

    I personally would've had fun with it, maybe gather everyone else outside the door and cheer them on, shout what to do next, or something like that.
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    May 25, 2012 5:07 AM GMT
    runnerza saidI disagree with you. 10PM is not a reasonable time for breakfast.



    THIS
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    May 25, 2012 5:09 AM GMT
    maybe they left the door open so u'd join them?
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    May 25, 2012 11:49 PM GMT
    You indicated this couple were "notorious FWB's" and you knew they were going to get it on when you invited them, and you even gave them a room to do it in. The only thing you should have done was to close their door, and put on some music out in the living room. If any of your other guests were prudish and offended at the thought of hearing people having sex, then I would have paired down my guest list.

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    May 25, 2012 11:55 PM GMT
    buymeasoda said
    runnerza saidI disagree with you. 10PM is not a reasonable time for breakfast.



    THIS
    & That^ icon_wink.gif
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    May 26, 2012 12:08 AM GMT
    It works better if you have roommates, but I had a str8 roommate once and he was the same way... so we were watching TV when he got done once and we just all started clapping when he walked out.

    After about 6 months of this, I got tired and made a ritual out of making these girls breakfast and telling them that he sleeps with different girls all the time and I ruined his game in a few weeks icon_razz.gif
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    May 26, 2012 12:53 AM GMT
    I have never had sex while a houseguest at a friend's house. Now, hotels are a different story! icon_cool.gif
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    May 26, 2012 1:00 AM GMT
    sashaman saidI have never had sex while a houseguest at a friend's house. Now, hotels are a different story! icon_cool.gif


    Hehehe... hotels are awesome. icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 26, 2012 1:02 AM GMT
    intensity69 said
    sashaman saidI have never had sex while a houseguest at a friend's house. Now, hotels are a different story! icon_cool.gif


    Hehehe... hotels are awesome. icon_biggrin.gif


    Yeah - something about being in a hotel room gets me all hot and bothered! icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 17, 2012 10:39 PM GMT
    You gave them a place to fuck, what did you expect? You should have closed the door for them...
  • JJ_Atoli

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    Jun 17, 2012 10:45 PM GMT
    Yeah. That's just gross...and weird.
    They are so low-class.
  • Lanter

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    Jun 18, 2012 12:37 AM GMT
    I had an aunt have sex with her husband on the bathroom floor at my house one time. I would ordinarily have thought it was rather rude, but there are so many other issues going on with them that I didn't expect much else. I suppose I don't feel its rude as much as I feel it shows more a lack of self control. There is a time and a place for everything, and knowing when to keep your legs closed is one of the best lessons that one can know. Having the self control to do it is another.