So , Is that right ?

  • Barney992

    Posts: 2

    May 26, 2012 5:18 AM GMT
    Hi ...Guys .

    something confused inside my heart ,and i could not figure out ...

    hmmmm....I always think i could sort it out ,But i could not ...Everytime i go back from the school at night ..,and Open the door ,Empty room, Empty place ..there is no one there except me ,The lonely feeling would be filled with my heart in a rush .. All my roomates are going out for a date with their own gf ...obviously i could not

    Sometimes I really wanna to find a guy and wanna tell him how lonely i am ,How tired i am . But people are busy with their life ,and even dont have the time for you ..And as time goes by ,I realized that no one could help you ..

    Maybe the price of growing is loneliness is that right ?

  • calibro

    Posts: 8888

    May 26, 2012 12:40 PM GMT
    sounds like you could have depression. seek professional help.
  • DanielXie

    Posts: 18

    May 26, 2012 4:32 PM GMT
    i think that is quite nomal about how u feel in that condition,just find sth to do
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    May 26, 2012 5:01 PM GMT
    Do you participate in any activities that increase your chances of meeting other gay guys? Do you have any gay friends? It sounds to me like you need need a bigger gay social circle.
  • Karl

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    May 26, 2012 5:05 PM GMT
    why dont you make yourself to be a super special person ?
    I am gay and when I was at high school , no one bullied me.
    Why ? I tried to be sociable and found something to do , I made friends a lot.
    You should find something interesting to do , everyone will look at you and you will never be alone.
    About "your guy" , dont look for him , he will come to you someday if you just made someone to be attracted unintendedly ;)
    Enjoy your life first icon_razz.gif
    good luck ;)
  • 2PecanDeBeurr...

    Posts: 302

    May 26, 2012 5:13 PM GMT
    Go out adventuring,
    find places that catch your interests,
    some exampes are gaze at the sky while in a park, windowshop at various shopping areas, take hikes/walks feeling the natural breezes, if some people say "hi' respond the same, visit museums,art galleries, airports, any place where you can people watch and be watched, laugh have fun, libraries, card shops
    Make YOUR adventure,
    others will want to share this adventure also,
    let it flow do not force it.
  • masculumpedes

    Posts: 5549

    May 26, 2012 5:23 PM GMT
    Is it possible to find love if you are not looking for it? icon_wink.gif
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    May 26, 2012 6:07 PM GMT
    I actually agree with pretty much everything being said. Find something that you're interested in, something you enjoy doing, and invest yourself in that. And if you can't identify something that brings you joy (or even potentially if you can), you might be depressed and the sooner you seek help, the sooner you'll start to feel better. Best of luck!